And to be frank, a lot of guys don’t want to hear this, but attraction works both ways.
Money and career are major, but the more men there are who are successful & fit & well groomed, the more level the playing field will be. Women are just as visual as men. Some just make the calculated decision to deal with a guy they don’t find very attractive because they’re thinking about their financial future. Raw physical attraction is a real thing!
The same way men have to learn how to look beyond the physical so they aren’t blinded by a woman’s beauty is the same way we have to learn to look past a man’s looks or body to determine who he really is. That’s why those girls you mentioned were laid up with cute bums.
The delusional ones I referenced earlier are the ones who aren’t that attractive themselves but they stay reaching for top tier dudes.
More men AND women need to work on being the complete package. You might not attract eeeeeveryone, but you’ll certainly have a bigger pool to pick from.
Just because we were born doesn’t mean we are guaranteed to pass our dna down. All those healthy physical markers/traits are what makes someone desire the opposite sex. Can’t deny nature.