Who are young women dating?

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And to be frank, a lot of guys don’t want to hear this, but attraction works both ways.

Money and career are major, but the more men there are who are successful & fit & well groomed, the more level the playing field will be. Women are just as visual as men. Some just make the calculated decision to deal with a guy they don’t find very attractive because they’re thinking about their financial future. Raw physical attraction is a real thing!

The same way men have to learn how to look beyond the physical so they aren’t blinded by a woman’s beauty is the same way we have to learn to look past a man’s looks or body to determine who he really is. That’s why those girls you mentioned were laid up with cute bums.

The delusional ones I referenced earlier are the ones who aren’t that attractive themselves but they stay reaching for top tier dudes.

More men AND women need to work on being the complete package. You might not attract eeeeeveryone, but you’ll certainly have a bigger pool to pick from.

Just because we were born doesn’t mean we are guaranteed to pass our dna down. All those healthy physical markers/traits are what makes someone desire the opposite sex. Can’t deny nature. 🤷🏾‍♀️
You might as well say we need to go back to the before 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s, when everybody was in shape and naturally sexy. Looking at the old pictures and videos everybody had natural physical appeal. Even if someone had an ugly face they could attract somebody. :russ:
 

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And to be frank, a lot of guys don’t want to hear this, but attraction works both ways.

Money and career are major, but the more men there are who are successful & fit & well groomed, the more level the playing field will be. Women are just as visual as men. Some just make the calculated decision to deal with a guy they don’t find very attractive because they’re thinking about their financial future. Raw physical attraction is a real thing!

The same way men have to learn how to look beyond the physical so they aren’t blinded by a woman’s beauty is the same way we have to learn to look past a man’s looks or body to determine who he really is. That’s why those girls you mentioned were laid up with cute bums.

The delusional ones I referenced earlier are the ones who aren’t that attractive themselves but they stay reaching for top tier dudes.

More men AND women need to work on being the complete package. You might not attract eeeeeveryone, but you’ll certainly have a bigger pool to pick from.

Just because we were born doesn’t mean we are guaranteed to pass our dna down. All those healthy physical markers/traits are what makes someone desire the opposite sex. Can’t deny nature. 🤷🏾‍♀️
This is reality.
 

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The question is easy... older men. I think this article fundamentally flawed but illuminates many of the dating issues for young men and women. I'll highlight the important bits.


TLDR; Women changed. Society changed. Men haven't and are suffering because of it.

Most young men are single. Most young women are not.









The most important part of these studies and the answer to the thread's question:

We got a whole forum full of GMB and ‘fukk bytches’ type men and then yall wonder who women are dating :bryan:

They’re dating men who grew the fukk up
They are not dating, they are doing casual sex with the same men and calling that their man/dating, meanwhile the men are calling it casual sex . They answered delusionally while males answered honestly.

The stats show that women’s binge drinking is higher than grown ass men, so is the number on anti depressants (although the male suicide rate is higher) . The stats also show most who are 30+ or near it have never been in a relationship, some never even on a date, only casual sex.

Both genders are struggling but it seems like men are ok with at least just sex for the most part
 

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They are not dating, they are doing casual sex with the same men and calling that their man/dating, meanwhile the men are calling it casual sex . They answered delusionally while males answered honestly.

The stats show that women’s binge drinking is higher than grown ass men, so is the number on anti depressants (although the male suicide rate is higher) . The stats also show most who are 30+ or near it have never been in a relationship, some never even on a date, only casual sex.

Both genders are struggling but it seems like men are ok with at least just sex for the most part

Facts. What makes it wilder is a lot of women say they don’t even get off from casual sex.
 

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Yes, I only date younger women. I haven't dated a women my age since college and even then they've always preferred older guys. Even in my mid thirties women my age would rather date men in their forties and early fifties or they just claim men are trash and broke. Only people seem to be upset about the age gap in dating are the single older women who can't get the men they want. And most of the women have probably dated older men at certain point when they were young now there just bitter, angry and have standards that have priced themselves out of the dating.
I been saying it for a minute. The cutoff age for dating a woman is 25. I know these old ass broads and simps on here don't like it but younger women are better than older women :manny:

And I was shocked when I hit my mid 30s how much easier it was to get with younger women. I didn't even realize there was a whole community of broads that only date old nikkas :heh:
 

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And to be frank, a lot of guys don’t want to hear this, but attraction works both ways.

Money and career are major, but the more men there are who are successful & fit & well groomed, the more level the playing field will be. Women are just as visual as men. Some just make the calculated decision to deal with a guy they don’t find very attractive because they’re thinking about their financial future. Raw physical attraction is a real thing!

The same way men have to learn how to look beyond the physical so they aren’t blinded by a woman’s beauty is the same way we have to learn to look past a man’s looks or body to determine who he really is. That’s why those girls you mentioned were laid up with cute bums.

The delusional ones I referenced earlier are the ones who aren’t that attractive themselves but they stay reaching for top tier dudes.

More men AND women need to work on being the complete package. You might not attract eeeeeveryone, but you’ll certainly have a bigger pool to pick from.

Just because we were born doesn’t mean we are guaranteed to pass our dna down. All those healthy physical markers/traits are what makes someone desire the opposite sex. Can’t deny nature. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I don’t think this is a surprise to most men. Tbh many women probably would be less receptive to the reality. Men have more control over improving their status than women. In contrast the more successful women become the harder it becomes for them to find what they consider suitable long-term partners.
When women at large let go of the idea that the man must make more than them, they will have a much easier time. You can't use "independence/equality" as a floor raiser when the number of people making X amount of dollars is finite and small.
 

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When women at large let go of the idea that the man must make more than them, they will have a much easier time. You can't use "independence/equality" as a floor raiser when the number of people making X amount of dollars is finite and small.

To be fair a lot of dudes can’t handle women making more than them. Some of these FWBs may be actual relationships if the dude made more money.
 

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The question is easy... older men. I think this article fundamentally flawed but illuminates many of the dating issues for young men and women. I'll highlight the important bits.


TLDR; Women changed. Society changed. Men haven't and are suffering because of it.

Most young men are single. Most young women are not.









The most important part of these studies and the answer to the thread's questi

Whatever….every date, relationship, marriage is individualized these general articles are whatever the data is cute tho im mid thirties looking at 25-35 women
 

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And to be frank, a lot of guys don’t want to hear this, but attraction works both ways.

Money and career are major, but the more men there are who are successful & fit & well groomed, the more level the playing field will be. Women are just as visual as men. Some just make the calculated decision to deal with a guy they don’t find very attractive because they’re thinking about their financial future. Raw physical attraction is a real thing!

The same way men have to learn how to look beyond the physical so they aren’t blinded by a woman’s beauty is the same way we have to learn to look past a man’s looks or body to determine who he really is. That’s why those girls you mentioned were laid up with cute bums.

The delusional ones I referenced earlier are the ones who aren’t that attractive themselves but they stay reaching for top tier dudes.

More men AND women need to work on being the complete package. You might not attract eeeeeveryone, but you’ll certainly have a bigger pool to pick from.

Just because we were born doesn’t mean we are guaranteed to pass our dna down. All those healthy physical markers/traits are what makes someone desire the opposite sex. Can’t deny nature. 🤷🏾‍♀️
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Would you rather be with an okay looking person who is sane and gets along well with your friends and family

Or a person who has nothing to offer other than looks?

The person who has had experience being with good looking people and the person who's struggled to get their attention and generally failed will both think the answer is easy.

But they won't agree with one another.
 

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People date within their socioeconomic bracket. If you make 40k a year you're probably dating someone within that range. If you make 150k you're probably dating someone within that range. There's always going to be someone out of your bracket who has zero interest in you. Until people recognize that they're gonna keep getting mad, and keep refusing to settle. The funny thing is that the successful people are getting married at a very high rate right now. Lower and working class marriage rates are down (but still at a decent rate). Tells me that a lot of the crying and bytching we see come from a vocal group that doesn't really speak for the entire demographic.

Lot of Coli dudes are a great example of this. There's a 5th grade teacher bae out there somewhere looking to date seriously and marry. But you, the Coli bro making 40-50k a year, are too busy watching red pill content and complaining about women outside of your bracket to notice them. Stop chasing dreams and do what your grandfather did: settle for the 6/10 nice girl and build a family.
 

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To be fair a lot of dudes can’t handle women making more than them. Some of these FWBs may be actual relationships if the dude made more money.
They can't handle it because women can't handle it. They know the headache/disrespect that'll eventually rear its head.

A FWB situation being limited to that because of a man's insufficient income is a woman's choice
 

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whoever they want too wtf

whoever making that p*ssy jump

what kinda nikka sitting around asking himself "who are these women out here fukking?"

that is some new nikka shyt 🤣

you can't hit them all just get in the game already damn
 
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