How many of yall have been thru a divorce? I'm currently going thru it and it is tough as hell emotionally and financially, and it's messy cause there are children involved. How did you deal and do you have any tips on how to get through it without needing psych meds? Props
Who In Here Has Been Divorced?
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beenz
Rap Guerilla
I haven't, but im sure its terrible to go thru. but once u are done, u gon be swimming in new p*ssy tho at least
I've never even been married but my cousin just finalized his divorce last year, but was already seperated probably 8 months. He wet thru it emotionally and financially. He was a wreck man, when I mean wreck i mean it, Ive never seen duke so out of it. My cousin had served in the Navy for the last 9yrs and he literally just said fukk everything. He even got discharged for some hit there. Worst thing his wife cheated on him with his best friend, while he was over seas.
vidyagamer
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shyt, if you think you need psyche meds to get through it, fukking take them.
Going through that was LITERALLY the worst experience of my life. (And we still aren't even divorced yet because of retarded divorce laws that say you have to be "separated" a year before you can even file.
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I was ON meds and I STILL had days where I contemplated walking in front of a bus or some shyt.
shyt's good as fukk now though.
Going through that was LITERALLY the worst experience of my life. (And we still aren't even divorced yet because of retarded divorce laws that say you have to be "separated" a year before you can even file.
)I was ON meds and I STILL had days where I contemplated walking in front of a bus or some shyt.
shyt's good as fukk now though.
Always hear stories like this. Marriage is a big gamble man
ThumpDaddy
All Star
I "hope" I never have to go thru it. I have plenty of friends and family members that went thru it. The best thing I can tell you is keep yourself occupied. Find a new activity, do something but don't give yourself time to sit around and mope about what has happened. Always be there for your children as much as you can.
shyt, if you think you need psyche meds to get through it, fukking take them.
Going through that was LITERALLY the worst experience of my life. (And we still aren't even divorced yet because of retarded divorce laws that say you have to be "separated" a year before you can even file.
I was ON meds and I STILL had days where I contemplated walking in front of a bus or some shyt.
shyt's good as fukk now though.
YOU BACK IN OTT?
vidyagamer
Rookie
I filed for divorce from my wife cause things weren't working out. For me, the hardest part is being separated from your kids. Being reduced to a part time parent is tough, especially when you're accustomed to living with your kid and seeing them everyday.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
I'm so-so nowadays, but we seperated last August and I've never been so messed up emotionally in YEARS. It's really fukked up and if I wasn't strong individual I would have given up already. You lose a huge part of yourself when your marriage falls apart. We're not divorced yet.
It hit me when she collected the rest of her stuff in January. My sister was there cos she told me it would be better if I left the house while she (my sister) stayed and let my wife and her dad collect the rest of her things. When my sister called me and told me they'd left, I came back to the house and seeing the place half empty was devastating because that's when it finally hits you that its really over. If it wasn't my friend and my sister staying with me that night I don't know how I would have coped with that shyt, because believe me it was really bad. My sister has been divorced so she understood.
But the pain you feel, I wouldn't wish on my worse enemy. Time is a healer though and although I'm not over it yet I'm better than how I was six months ago. Thankfully we never had children together. I just want the divorce to be over once and for all so I can truly move on with my life, what she does after that is up to her.
It hit me when she collected the rest of her stuff in January. My sister was there cos she told me it would be better if I left the house while she (my sister) stayed and let my wife and her dad collect the rest of her things. When my sister called me and told me they'd left, I came back to the house and seeing the place half empty was devastating because that's when it finally hits you that its really over. If it wasn't my friend and my sister staying with me that night I don't know how I would have coped with that shyt, because believe me it was really bad. My sister has been divorced so she understood.
But the pain you feel, I wouldn't wish on my worse enemy. Time is a healer though and although I'm not over it yet I'm better than how I was six months ago. Thankfully we never had children together. I just want the divorce to be over once and for all so I can truly move on with my life, what she does after that is up to her.
Bruh I'm telling you, my cousin was dam near drunk everyday, even at work and he worked on base. Cuz blacked out one day behind the wheel while driving from a strip club, crashed and wrecked the car.
Divorced 6 yrs now, fortunately we never had kids. shyt was rough mentally and financially for awhile though. Had a nikka stressed the fukk out, wasn't eating, and lost mad weight. People around the office were asking my coworkers if I was sick n shyt.
Dam brehs, I can't read these stories before a blunt 
Ya ma nikkas tho, so I'll burn one in ya honor. fukk these hoes mayne
Ya ma nikkas tho, so I'll burn one in ya honor. fukk these hoes mayne
