Who’s wrong in this situation?
- Thread starter Ashley Banks
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I think the baby mama is wrong
As a woman you're spending $600 on one child and giving the other two nothing?
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
we got too many people on this planet as it is.
We need to wait some years for humans to re-evolve mentally and change these rules in family court then let humans have kids
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
As a woman you're spending $600 on one child and giving the other two nothing?
As a woman I have enough money to give the other two the same thing.
I don't know and it doesn't matter.
I don't see any woman spending $600 on one child while giving her other two nothing.
Card to play for her next financial emergency? Meaning she would wait and scheme at a more appropriate time? Lol
Honestly I think you are being short sided by not understanding how much relationships between children matter. Yes the dad's feelings are important but at the end of the day her responsibly to her children should take priority over anyone else. There is more to parenting that just spending money.
Realistically having a house of have and have not makes no sense. If resources are split the child will see that they all have the same and it won't make them any difference. The child with the father has to deal with his siblings on a daily basis. Maintaining a happy and stable household for your child should be the priority. The relationship with his siblings will have a far greater impact on that child's life than have the flyiest backpack. Imo dividing the resources in this scenario would be more beneficial than not.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Why can’t she buy her own kids stuff?
JuditeTormentor
Rookie
Been there, done that. I felt some type of way from a standpoint of you can't take resources away from my son to make up for letting deadbeat nikkas squirt off in you. But I could never tell a mother to neglect any of her kids. Yea those other niqqas are deadbeats. But it would be cruel and all the way foul if she only got something for one kid and left the others without. And my son knows that I would be disappointed in him for even letting it go down like that. It ain't like she splurged on herself.
BUT I just started taking my son, myself, to get what he needed. Or I would buy specifically what he needs and take it to him. Not trusting that woman to stick to the plan when I put cash in her hand.
BUT I just started taking my son, myself, to get what he needed. Or I would buy specifically what he needs and take it to him. Not trusting that woman to stick to the plan when I put cash in her hand.
They are all her kids and she did.
Thank you.
WaveWhisperer
Stainless Steel
Alright so to clear up the whole shyt.
Homie gave her the 600 bucks
She got his child taken car of along with the other chirren
Knowing that she planned to do that she should have just said that from the jump (homie prolky wouldnt have gave her as much then) but she didnt so for that she’s in the wrong
Homie just handing her money without being vigilant on n where it went was reckllesss,fair enough .
The money didnt end up going to her going to get her hair done on the side so cool points for that guess.
Other chirren got school supplies to so package fukking deal.
Homie gave her the 600 bucks
She got his child taken car of along with the other chirren
Knowing that she planned to do that she should have just said that from the jump (homie prolky wouldnt have gave her as much then) but she didnt so for that she’s in the wrong
Homie just handing her money without being vigilant on n where it went was reckllesss,fair enough .
The money didnt end up going to her going to get her hair done on the side so cool points for that guess.
Other chirren got school supplies to so package fukking deal.
He a bytch
Dont get a thot preg in the 1st place
Get full custody
U gave her $600
Regardless of the situation
U still have her 600
Keep a paper trail and prove you have a better financial situation to be the main caregiver on court
Dont get a thot preg in the 1st place
Get full custody
U gave her $600
Regardless of the situation
U still have her 600
Keep a paper trail and prove you have a better financial situation to be the main caregiver on court