Why are men avoiding marriage?

[Anerdyblackguy]

Simple reason.

 

[the bossman]

There's so many different variables at play here:

Men today are not as economically stable as they were 50+ years ago.

There's very real social, legal, emotional and economic consequences if you have divorce. And all states are no-fault divorce states. So a woman can initiate without any real justification simply just because she "feels" any kind of way

Women today are embracing their sexuality and fukking whoever whenever wherever without requiring any type of commitment from the men

And one of the biggest things is dudes are waking up and realizing they don't want to play cleanup man for a 30+ year old washed chick loaded with baggage

 

[Aimé]

simple.. low moral standards both men and women

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

Most women in my culture aren’t likable or respectable. The male feminists who treat them like grown children and blame men for everything are even worse. Plus what benefit does marriage have for men outside of some tax breaks? Every part of the marriage process from the proposal to the wedding to the honey moon to the divorce favors women

 

[King of Creampies]

Most women in my culture aren’t likable or respectable. The male feminists who treat them like grown children and blame men for everything are even worse. Plus what benefit does marriage have for men outside of some tax breaks? Every part of the marriage process from the proposal to the wedding to the honey moon to the divorce favors women

What culture is that?

 

[levitate]

Because the woman will never be happy.

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

What culture is that?

Doesn’t even need to be said. Those who know, know

 

[OVER]

It has never been a dream or goal of mine

 

[skeetsinternal]

1. People are highly indivualistic & mistakenly believe that they can get farther in life without a spouse.
2. Men falsely believe that single life is always the better option when statistics show that married men live longer, are healthier & happier than their single counterparts.
3. Men internalize the widely perceived & promoted imbalance of the divorce court system. They don’t realize that the vast majority of them are not in a tax bracket where they would be the victim of any alimony payments at all.
4. Too many people didn’t grow up around healthy marriages, so they are lost when it comes to choosing a partner. This is for women AND men. The people that were exposed to healthy relationships then have to exhaust themselves to teach others healthy boundaries...while having their own learnings to work on (I’m sorry, but this is basically double duty).
5. Too many people believe that child rearing between coparents vs healthy married couples are created equal.

BONUS: Why women aren’t getting married...

1. Women keep giving husband privileges to boyfriends. A boyfriend does not, and will never, deserve the gift of continuing his legacy through your womb. Cohabitation ain’t working in the best interest for women either...but if you must, have a timeline for marriage & stick to it or leave.
2. Women need to learn when to leave a dead end relationship & stop wasting their own damn time.

I negged you for this. The way you presented why women are not getting married is like an investment banker surfing and dabbling in the stock market

Women come to the table with community p*ssy where they invest in a dude and move to the next when they not getting wifed up after a certain amount of time. Any dude know if a bytch is that spectacular and worthy he would wife so if a dude ain't wifing that says alot about you.

nikkas on the other hand need to not fall into y'all trap and demands. It's other bytches out there. This is how we fail as men because men can't handle seeing the next nikka with their bytch

 

[The Fade]

We can’t run to the white man like they can when they feel they’re not getting enough control

 

[Lifejennings]

MGTOW is a beautiful thing. Along with opioids and their abysmal birth rates we may be able to get these demons out of here, and not even have to lift a finger. They absolutely hate each other, and are only trying to hold on, so that they can keep their power structure.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

This tall, great looking, fit black man will marry one day in my 30s.

It won't be to one of you western women, straight bagging me a latin or azn from over east.

I'll keep selling you girls the dream tho


I'm sure Brad Pitt type guy will save you, then you can make youtube videos together with your mixed babies

 

[Neuromancer]

I negged you for this. The way you presented why women are not getting married is like an investment banker surfing and dabbling in the stock market

Women come to the table with community p*ssy where they invest in a dude and move to the next when they not getting wifed up after a certain amount of time. Any dude know if a bytch is that spectacular and worthy he would wife so if a dude ain't wifing that says alot about you.

nikkas on the other hand need to not fall into y'all trap and demands. It's other bytches out there. This is how we fail as men because men can't handle seeing the next nikka with their bytch

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Marriage is the foundation to any functional society, this has been the case for millenia and goes beyond the ideals of feminists, Gmb and HOH agenda. Considering the ills facing western blacks, marriage is even more important than ever but I will let conventional Coli wisdom tell it GMB GMB GMB

 

[acri1]

Half of marriages end in divorce, and when that happens things usually end badly for everyone involved. Especially if there are kids.

A lot of people would rather just not take the risk.