Why are men avoiding marriage?

[WesCrook]

This and I also enjoy going to the bathroom without shyt being thrown everywhere and having to deal with every damn drain clogged. You don't know the struggle until you had to deal with a woman and trying to keep her from clogging drains

There is no point in replacing the bathroom sink counter top because you won't be able to see it anyway due it being completely covered with all kinds of shyt.

...and you're right about the drains. This is a mandatory item for married men:

 

[Amor fati]

Getting married to a western woman nowadays is like playing Russian Roulette or having faith in the lottery. This current era we are in ain't built for a successful marriage.

 

[semicko82]

Alot of older married men tell me not to get married, and most(well all) of them say when they married they didn't get sex anymore.

A few years ago an older co worker asked me was I married.
I said "no sir".
He said "smart man"

 

[Koba St]

I’m not married because I’m not financially in a position to, and most importantly I’m definitely not in an emotional position to get married.

 

[semicko82]

Getting married to a western woman nowadays is like playing Russian Roulette or having faith in the lottery.

yea most of these females are fickle as hell, don't have time to risk everything on a crap shoot.

 

[southern.girl]

1. Reread what I wrote. Is there anything in there that justifies your personal attack? You're just emotional because my ideas threaten your "sacred cow" -- state-sponsored church marriage, and the "validation" that comes with it. I hit a nerve and I'm glad my ideas scare you. Brothers -- that fear is a good sign.

Don't let her drag you down to her "guarantor", her "leverage" -- "the white man" -- to "validate" your love on some idiotic timetable.

The same bureau that "sanctifies" your state-sponsored marriage will rubber stamp your divorce if you come back one month later complaining that her breath stinks in the morning ...So why go to the state in the first place -- when we can use this anti-marriage trend in our culture to kill state-sponsored marriage FOR GOOD, and replace it with commitment in which the woman actually BELIEVES IN YOU, rather than just her "guarantor"?

My brothers, YOU are the "guarantor". If we insist on this kind of thinking in our culture, maybe women will begin to choose the men they fukk more wisely, so that YOU don't end up a target of her genocidal tendencies because of something Dirty dikk Rodney inevitably does to her. However, if we keep indulging them -- especially with shyt like church marriage (even though we KNOW the church is ratchet)... diamonds (even though we KNOW they're a scam)... and state-sponsored marriage (even though we KNOW it's a TRAP), things are NEVER going to get better for our culture.

2. "Ladies, please avoid these types of men at all costs"? Trust me, they won't. I'm tall, well-spoken, athletic, good looking and professional. If push comes to shove, I could just LIE to them, tapping into that "cinderella complex" to get way up in that ass -- but I don't even have to do that. Some women are actually attracted to and respect men of ideas, instead of those who just go along with the dusty ol' program (which, of course, has been working so well for the black community ).

3. My black brothers -- I know I don't have to tell you this but -- please avoid these types of WOMEN at all costs. She gets emotional and throws a personal attack because I posted ideas she disagrees with, instead of simply explaining the basis of her disagreement... Yes indeed -- please avoid this type of woman at all costs. Her ways won't work well in a relationship. Everyone but her knows this to be true.

I guess she feels "entitled" to never have her ideas challenged. lol -- This is the woman who wants you to marry her, on a timetable yet.

Marriage minded people and people like you do not share the same values. Me saying "avoid men like this at all costs" is obvious advice to any woman that desires a husband to have a family & build a legacy. If anyone is highly emotional, it is you.

Considering the negs I've received thus far, I've clearly gotten the life long bachelors' panties in a bunch. I hope more black women begin to see their worth and understand that they do not have to be a lifelong girlfriend or single mother. They can find a loving and respectful man who desires a spouse and children just as they do.

 

[Phitz]

I’m not married because I’m not financially in a position to, and most importantly I’m definitely not in an emotional position to get married.

It's getting like that for alot of men, even educated professionals especially when they live in a city with jobs but super expensive costs of living.

 

[Koba St]

Marriage is the foundation to any functional society, this has been the case for millenia and goes beyond the ideals of feminists, Gmb and HOH agenda. Considering the ills facing western blacks, marriage is even more important than ever but I will let conventional Coli wisdom tell it GMB GMB GMB

Slavery was also once the foundation of a functional society. shyt changes over time.

 

[NvrCMyNut]

I wonder if he got her from overseas

mail order?

the comment section is hilarious

 

[southern.girl]

what is a dead end relationship. As if marriage is always the goal and not a good relationship

I'm an all in or all out type of person. I personally do not value long term girlfriend/boyfriend relationships.

I negged you for this. The way you presented why women are not getting married is like an investment banker surfing and dabbling in the stock market

Women come to the table with community p*ssy where they invest in a dude and move to the next when they not getting wifed up after a certain amount of time. Any dude know if a bytch is that spectacular and worthy he would wife so if a dude ain't wifing that says alot about you.

nikkas on the other hand need to not fall into y'all trap and demands. It's other bytches out there. This is how we fail as men because men can't handle seeing the next nikka with their bytch

Your response is hilarious. You constantly screw loose women so your POV on women is clearly jaded.

And for the record, if you really think that the only thing that women are coming to the table with is vagina, that's clearly indicative of the type of women that you surround yourself with...a fact that is clearly documented on this site.

 

[the bossman]

Slavery was also once the foundation of a functional society. shyt changes over time.

Gotta be some of the dumbest shyt I've ever read on this website. Compare the institution of marriage to a history of genocide brehs.

 

[southern.girl]

Simple reason.

This is a very fair statement. However...

The Coli: Women don't want to build with men. That's why we are not married.
Also The Coli: I'm not married b/c I'm broke.

Women:

 

[semicko82]

Marriage minded people and people like you do not share the same values. Me saying "avoid men like this at all costs" is obvious advice to any woman that desires a husband to have a family & build a legacy. If anyone is highly emotional, it is you.

Considering the negs I've received thus far, I've clearly gotten the life long bachelors' panties in a bunch. I hope more black women begin to see their worth and understand that they do not have to be a lifelong girlfriend or single mother. They can find a loving and respectful man who desires a spouse and children just as they do.

Yea they can get that guy but will turn him down for an attractive dusty dude

 

[010101]

the contract is trash*

 

[southern.girl]

Alot of older married men tell me not to get married, and most(well all) of them say when they married they didn't get sex anymore.

It's unfortunate that many people don't know of a lot of happy marriages. I would dig deeper if I were you. I have a strange feeling that some of these old school (unhappy) marriages were shot gun weddings and that is the reason for such bitterness. In 2018 and beyond, we can marry on much better terms and that's empowering to me.