Why are men avoiding marriage?

[Thurgood Thurston III]

It can be boiled down to the women that has what I want in a woman do not want me.

 

[Lord Bison]

Coli brehs can either admit to it or not, cause some are too focused on what is or isnt "cac shyt" but the truth is that in todays society, all roads lead to MGTOW.

Whether you get married and get that ass whooped in court, get burned by a chick you're dating, or you just want to live a stress free lifestyle without the bickering and nagging, men are all finding the common ground that women just aren't worth the time and investment anymore.

Me personally, ever since I started my journey into MGTOW, I've been stacking more bread than I ever have and the energy I used to spend on taking women on dates turned into using that money on tripling my investments.

I cant speak for anyone but myself. But MGTOW has been working well for me

 

[panopticon]

Simple reason.

All jokes aside, I think this is a primary driver.

Most single men in the traditional age bracket for 1st marriages (25-34) aren't anywhere close to the level of financial stability that their fathers were at the same age.

 

[BigMan]

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2. Men internalize the widely perceived & promoted imbalance of the divorce court system. They don’t realize that the vast majority of them are not in a tax bracket where they would be the victim of any alimony payments at all.

i don't think this is true. this is just a diss towards black men. the vast majority of divorces that i know of include some type of alimony

Many women these days love the idea of "marriage" far more than they love the man they're marrying. That's part of why the institution is dying. Men are waking up to that.

i agree with this. vast majority of women cannot articulate just why they want to be married.

 

[Phitz]

I'm an all in or all out type of person. I personally do not value long term girlfriend/boyfriend relationships.



Your response is hilarious. You constantly screw loose women so your POV on women is clearly jaded.

And for the record, if you really think that the only thing that women are coming to the table with is vagina, that's clearly indicative of the type of women that you surround yourself with...a fact that is clearly documented on this site.

You come on a male forum attempting to sell men on risking their sanity in an environment that has been attacking it for decades now. You can't control who people interact with or their experiences. they'r e not talking against marriage, but the options are not worth their sanity.

 

[Phitz]

It's unfortunate that many people don't know of a lot of happy marriages. I would dig deeper if I were you. I have a strange feeling that some of these old school (unhappy) marriages were shot gun weddings and that is the reason for such bitterness. In 2018 and beyond, we can marry on much better terms and that's empowering to me.

what are the 'better' terms

who is being empowered and HOW are they empowered?

 

[KamikazePilot]

I saw how my dad go took to the cleaners he's lucky he bounced back I don't know if I ever want to take the risk with marriage or kids.

With the way these females are even my female family members have told me not to trust these hoes it's crazy out here.

 

[Phitz]

This is a very fair statement. However...

The Coli: Women don't want to build with men. That's why we are not married.
Also The Coli: I'm not married b/c I'm broke.

Women:

The truth is MOST men(even the smart and/or educated ones) will not be rich and most will be 1 or 2 paychecks from broke(even the self employed).

One of the greatest inventors in America died old and broke.

So if your happiness and choice in partner revolves around the system of commerce based on a rigged monopoly game....good luck.

 

[Shorty K]

what are the 'better' terms

who is being empowered and HOW are they empowered?

It seems like to the woman in this topic doing all the commentating being empowered means that cacs make it easy for her to break a family apart if she wants to and she enjoys that she has the ability to do it.

So its like, really, what kind of man with any kind of means and self respect would marry a woman like this? shyt crazy.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Men internalize the widely perceived & promoted imbalance of the divorce court system. They don’t realize that the vast majority of them are not in a tax bracket where they would be the victim of any alimony payments at all.

That's not how alimony works

 

[skeetsinternal]

I'm an all in or all out type of person. I personally do not value long term girlfriend/boyfriend relationships.



Your response is hilarious. You constantly screw loose women so your POV on women is clearly jaded.

And for the record, if you really think that the only thing that women are coming to the table with is vagina, that's clearly indicative of the type of women that you surround yourself with...a fact that is clearly documented on this site.

Yea it's documented. Lol @ labeling the women I fukk as loose. I bring the freak out a bytch or any chic I'm with. Every woman is loose. I done had first ladies of churches to doctors and bytches that think they shyt don't stink.

I'm not jaded, I'm validated and informed about bytches these days. Y'all come in costumes and with p*ssy shared with the neighborhood. Y'all talk about giving boyfriends husband privileges like y'all pussies ain't been sampled like samples given out at Costco or Sam's Club. The married nikka is the cleanup man. In many cases the p*ssy, mouth and anus have already been shared with the community..there is nothing left for a married breh except residuals of the last nikka(s) . Name something else y'all bring to the table? Don't say shared bank accounts, property or kids because those are all anchors attached to a breh's pockets.

 

[Koba St]

Gotta be some of the dumbest shyt I've ever read on this website. Compare the institution of marriage to a history of genocide brehs.

You’re extraordinarily stupid

 

[Dr. Acula]

Don't need watch to know the answer. Marriage for men in today's world is a losing game (from the system favoring females in court with a coin-toss chance of divorce to the limited quality of marriage worthy women) and men are slowly realizing that. Simple.

facts...

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

1. People are highly indivualistic & mistakenly believe that they can get farther in life without a spouse.
2. Men falsely believe that single life is always the better option when statistics show that married men live longer, are healthier & happier than their single counterparts.
3. Men internalize the widely perceived & promoted imbalance of the divorce court system. They don’t realize that the vast majority of them are not in a tax bracket where they would be the victim of any alimony payments at all.
4. Too many people didn’t grow up around healthy marriages, so they are lost when it comes to choosing a partner. This is for women AND men. The people that were exposed to healthy relationships then have to exhaust themselves to teach others healthy boundaries...while having their own learnings to work on (I’m sorry, but this is basically double duty).
5. Too many people believe that child rearing between coparents vs healthy married couples are created equal.

BONUS: Why women aren’t getting married...

1. Women keep giving husband privileges to boyfriends. A boyfriend does not, and will never, deserve the gift of continuing his legacy through your womb. Cohabitation ain’t working in the best interest for women either...but if you must, have a timeline for marriage & stick to it or leave.
2. Women need to learn when to leave a dead end relationship & stop wasting their own damn time.

u married?

 

[JerseyBoy23]

Easy, men in their late 20s/early 30s had to live with the recession in their formative adult years. This has led to men having to either pay off college loans or being underemployed if they went started working right after HS. Also add on to the fact that in demand dudes are well in demand, while other dudes are struggling to get women and we end up with millions of dudes who are single whether by choice or not.

Only reason a dude would get married in this day and age is if he's religious, wants to have kids with no baby mama drama, or both.