Why are men expected to provide and protect?

[MischievousMonkey]

I was never interested in being the sole provider of the household who dominates over his woman while she has little to no input on anything

I'm interested in an equal partnership not a pet that does what I say, I don't wanna rule over any woman

Exact same for me. It's really not complicated. It might be foolish but I just see women as equal to men in ability. That's how I was raised. Crazy that thinking like that trigger people that much.

But like some said in this thread, the women who think like this aren't for me and I'm not the man for them. It's going to be a power couple on my side.

 

[AlainLocke]

I ain't the self-sacrificing protecting providing type, that shyt is stupid as fukk.

If you ain't my sister, you on your own.

Protect and provide for grown ass adults at your own peril brehs.

 

[iBrowse]

So your 8 months pregnant wife is waddling to the car and someone runs up to her and tries to cut the baby out of her stomach, you gonna be like “not risking my life protecting some woman” and run the other way?

Lol at you waddling with slippers a granny gown and the ice cream/pickles combo from the grocery store.

 

[reasonable_doubter]

In this society, women don't need male protection....

 

[southern.girl]

Cold part is nikkas letting women who don't even have fathers telling them what a man is supposed to be

lol I've never seen a functional relationship

Where is this standard being practiced at?

Well ain’t this some pot calling the kettle black level of hypocrisy. Self awareness is just nonexistent. SMH.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

In this society, women don't need male protection....

I'm glad someone said it. If women walking around without a gun, some pepper spray, or some mma training they don't care about they own safety. They just running into burning buildings to see if you care.

Well ain’t this some pot calling the kettle black level of hypocrisy. Self awareness is just nonexistent. SMH.

Nope.

Op literally asking a question.

Women telling dudes working towards their benifit is masculinity.

They ain't remotely the same thing.

 

[Rack4K]

Nobody is saying you have to provide.

Nobody is saying you have to protect.

But if you expect to mate with women, you need to convince them you can do one or the other, preferably both because that's what women evolved to look for in males. Any woman you've dealt with dealt with you because they assumed you can do at least one of the things mentioned, even if they wrongly assumed it.

You can be the prettiest nikka in the world. If a woman thinks you're timid AND broke, good luck.

But maybe women - and being able to mate with them - is not a priority for you. In that case, do your thing.

 

[Rawtid]

This line of thinking can be cool as long as the dude isn’t expecting to be leader of the house and will fall into his role as a partner, but this hardly ever happens.

I’m all for abandoning tradition, but don’t be selective about it.

 

[krisdave]

*sigh

So let me get this straight (ha) yall only subscribe to nature's gender roles when it benefits you, until it has to do with shyt yall will do mental gymnastics to avoid like black lgbt livelihoods

According to yall i thought the man was supposed to be the provider and women the caretaker of the home?

so what is the truth?

 

[krisdave]

It's how it is. Unless you a fakkit

So according to this logic a proportionately large amount of nikkas in the USA are fakkits since they leave and shed any responsibility to take care of their kids

 

[TheGreatMTB]

there's someone out here for everyone.

If you feel you didn't sign up for the provider life...I'm not gonna mock you. Find a woman who is cool paying for her fair share.

If you take pride in providing everything for a woman and allowing her to live a stress-free lifestyle...I'm not gonna mock you. Find a woman that can contribute to your happiness in ways besides paying for a bill.


Regardless of where you are on the spectrum understand the pros and cons of it.

From the female side there's pros and cons too...a lot of women feel they have less power in the relationship is a dude is paying for everything. How you gonna stick your chest out and make decisions when you don't pay any bills in the house. On the other hand there's women who don't even want to make decisions

 

[jeh]

Nobody is saying you have to provide.

Nobody is saying you have to protect.

But if you expect to mate with women, you need to convince them you can do one or the other, preferably both because that's what women evolved to look for in males. Any woman you've dealt with dealt with you because they assumed you can do at least one of the things mentioned, even if they wrongly assumed it.

You can be the prettiest nikka in the world. If a woman thinks you're timid AND broke, good luck.

But maybe women - and being able to mate with them - is not a priority for you. In that case, do your thing.

Yes Sir. It just unwritten rules that will go on before we were born and after we gone. Like the oldest sitting up front when you got younger siblings, you and a woman walking to the door and you open it for her, on a bus and giving up your seat to a young or older lady...it is what it is. Not wrong or right, its your choice. You choose to do a thru z, a thru c or none its all on you.

No man or woman can tell you how to live, but in this dating game it is what it is. You will find a few that and not so few. All fair in love and war.

 

[UpAndComing]

but why not feel pride in shyt you accomplish and your goals

Feeling pride in my making a woman feel secure is like feeling pride you feed your pet dog.

No disrespect but that's a silly thing to take pride in. I rather build an empire and take pride in that

Your primary choice should be to build an empire for yourself and accomplish your individual goals

Your secondary choice should be to provide for others


That's how I look at it

 

[Benefited]

Because women are the child of man:respect:.
If you don't plan on having kids then providing for and protecting a woman isn't really neccessary.
For those of us who do,we are protecting our investment and legacy by providing for and protecting our women.
You keep your woman at home because women are too succeptable to being influenced,so too much outside influence,from too many sources is a bad thing for a woman. This is protecting your womans mind and spirit from the rest of these hellhounds we currently live among here in Babylon.
Protecting a woman physically from another man I think goes without explaining to a real man,that should just be in your gut when it comes to a stranger,whether you act on it or not. So a woman you love,I'm not bothering to explain that.

Most men are just protecting they women from other dikks though if we are being honest. While that is a valid protection it shouldn't be the only one you are focused on. Allowing your woman to watch non stop bullshyt reality shows poisoning her mind,which she will then spread to her daughters and other women.Letting her be brainwashed by white supremacy progamming in the media. Allowing your woman to eat like a pig and poison her body and become Gmo'd?Can't really say you protect your woman because you don't really know the terrain of what she needs protection from. If your not even protecting your womans womb,what are you really doing?

 

[Benefited]

In this society, women don't need male protection....

Your comfortable with black women having the white man to call on for protection I guess. Then yall wonder why black men ain't gettting respect. Call the white man should not always be your response:respect: