true but that only for your first year and a half really. after that you typically have 3.5 more years of just work and school
Why Are Men On TheColi so proud to be virgins :dahell:
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true but that only for your first year and a half really. after that you typically have 3.5 more years of just work and school
MajorVitaman
Superstar
I'm a 22yo technically not a 'virgin' because I've had sex with an 'escort' once. But yeah, I might as well be a virgin. I've never had a gf. I'm never "seen" with a woman, but people almost never question or inquire about my lack of a romance/sex life, which I appreciate. It's not that I'm "scared" of women, it's just that I very seldom interact with any woman who isn't in my family. I don't go to clubs, parties, social gatherings, etc. I certainly do not approach random woman in public either.
I try not to let it bother me, but I gotta admit, it'd be really nice to get laid once in a while. Or even have some type of non-sexual intimacy with a woman. But oh well. There are a few advantages of being celibate, albeit mostly involuntarily. The American black populace has very high rates of sti/std's compared to the rest of the American population, but I'm as clean as a newborn baby.
Also, stupid bullshyt drama in my life is next to nonexistent..
Lot's of free time and money too.
Was the escort a white woman?
Yeah @Madrasas you're gonna have to explain this logic to me. How can you fukk an escort then claim STD risks as an excuse to not approach black women?
Carter G. Hoodson
Tarik is my name ✊✊✊
I was told today by a therapist to reflect on aspects of my childhood when my innocence and joy was on full display. I spoke to her about not being happy with life today as it is. I have everything a man can want with a job, wife , healthy kids, home but I'm still empty. When I'm able to self reflect I don't see joy. Everything was forced upon me at an early age whether it was piano lessons when I wanted to play with friends, reading books when I wanted to watch cartoons, boxing when I wanted to play baseball. Never really had a true childhood. I get it, you want your child to have knowledge of self, but why did I have to attend every fukking gathering especially to a ppl who had no real unity that were ego tripping more like preachers than real action type ppl. The only reason I got into later was to help young ppl. They grow through alot, male and female. I feel as a man in today's world, it's my duty to be that big brother to those that are without a male figure in their life. But, to really watch over them so they don't get preyed on. I know something about being preyed on because my older brother preyed on me. And my older sister knew and did nothing to stop it. I was 9 yrs old being molested by my older brother. This is the real reason why we don't get along. My sister included. Why now? I've watched the bambaataa situation and been empowered to relive this in my mind but speaking up now. I don't give a fukk if I talked about this 17 yrs from now, the motherfukker molested me. Now look at him suffering from heart issues at an early age.....well deserved. I owed to my wife and my lil brother to tell them what happened to me because they've been on my side and trying to help me get through some days. There are days that I have it all and some days of deep depression. I feel liberated just writing this.
Carter G. Hoodson
Tarik is my name ✊✊✊
I was told today by a therapist to reflect on aspects of my childhood when my innocence and joy was on full display. I spoke to her about not being happy with life today as it is. I have everything a man can want with a job, wife , healthy kids, home but I'm still empty. When I'm able to self reflect I don't see joy. Everything was forced upon me at an early age whether it was piano lessons when I wanted to play with friends, reading books when I wanted to watch cartoons, boxing when I wanted to play baseball. Never really had a true childhood. I get it, you want your child to have knowledge of self, but why did I have to attend every fukking gathering especially to a ppl who had no real unity that were ego tripping more like preachers than real action type ppl. The only reason I got into later was to help young ppl. They grow through alot, male and female. I feel as a man in today's world, it's my duty to be that big brother to those that are without a male figure in their life. But, to really watch over them so they don't get preyed on. I know something about being preyed on because my older brother preyed on me. And my older sister knew and did nothing to stop it. I was 9 yrs old being molested by my older brother. This is the real reason why we don't get along. My sister included. Why now? I've watched the bambaataa situation and been empowered to relive this in my mind but speaking up now. I don't give a fukk if I talked about this 17 yrs from now, the motherfukker molested me. Now look at him suffering from heart issues at an early age.....well deserved. I owed to my wife and my lil brother to tell them what happened to me because they've been on my side and trying to help me get through some days. There are days that I have it all and some days of deep depression. I feel liberated just writing this.
Never used STD risks as an excuse not to approach. I just said that being involuntarily a virgin sucks, but never having to worry about STDs is one of the few benefits.
Was the escort a white woman?
Yeah @Madrasas you're gonna have to explain this logic to me. How can you fukk an escort then claim STD risks as an excuse to not approach black women?
As someone who lost his virginity last year, there is no rush to do it before or after losing it. Even now, I'm not in a rush to do it again with anybody because I believe sex should be something you want to do with someone you actually care about. I would rather make love than have sex. Sex is just cold and unemotional. Making love feels right. You can't make love to just anybody.
And if you're going to do it, make sure that either you get off or you get who you're fukking off too. Do it right. Give them something to remember because they know that you love them. Something to make their heart race and warm them up. I haven't done it in some months but I can wait.
And if you're going to do it, make sure that either you get off or you get who you're fukking off too. Do it right. Give them something to remember because they know that you love them. Something to make their heart race and warm them up. I haven't done it in some months but I can wait.
MajorVitaman
Superstar
It isn't a death sentence but a strange feeling to me. I sometimes get ashamed by it but then I realize that I don't want any of the guys out here so that's why I've kept my legs closed all these years. If there is nothing you want where you're at why lay down just to give it up? It's something I personally take seriously.
I've had old female friends as a late teen tell me I should have had several men already
. That's something I cannot do. I'm a grown woman and I honestly rather wait until I'm in a serious relationship and I'm ready for it. I wish there were more good looking men out there who were not sexually active to be honest. I would love to have those options 
Real Men could care less what another man doing with his own thread.
let me cook sheik
richaveli83
Veteran
It's better for these dudes to be virgins than to run around making b*stard children or spreading STD's. I don't have no problem with them as long as they don't take out their sexual frustration violently against innocent people.
you coli breh'sShe was in fact a black woman.
RandomDudeOnColi
Banned
Man this thread backfired on OP.
I don't know why someone would unless they're religious or just that scared of stds. Either way fukk that lol