Why Are Men Who Claim "Good/Nice" Hated Sohh?

[Will Ross]

Yeah, totally

Men and their self entitled bullshyt. Whiny ass lame

You guys are way more self entitled than we are.
You don't even want men to approach you.

 

[PartyHeart]

except thats all women do, especially black women. hell, right now there's a big movement trying to get guys to accept obese women.

You're talking about the fat shaming stuff? I think that's more about the ridicule they get for no reason, I don't think at large they are trying to force people to find them attractive. Even if you want to say they do though, they definitely don't feel entitled to affection just because they are fat like "nice guys" do.

 

[Amulet of Immortality]

Yes. I'm not talking about the avg polite guy who's nice because he's generally or genuinely actually just a nice guy and doesn't sweat over women like that. I'm talking about the self proclaimed "nice guys" with ulterior motives. The types who seem to put us on a pedestal and seem to view getting women they are interested as some sort of owed prize for their "niceness" then act all entitled and bytch & complain about how they're so nice then call women who aren't interested in them whores & shyt and bash them because they didn't get what they want. There's a lot of the later in denial.

Two entirely different types of people

You admitted to having a multitude of mental defects. You are in no proper space to speak on issues concerning the human brain. I also saw your photo on here, you look like complete shyt. No guy is sweating you.

 

[NotaPAWG]

You guys are way more self entitled than we are.
You don't even want men to approach you.

Lol yeah okay.

Not wanting to be bothered by strangers trying to hit on me isn't exactly a privilege.

I explained why I don't like men approaching me.

 

[marcuz]

You're talking about the fat shaming stuff? I think that's more about the ridicule they get for no reason, I don't think at large they are trying to force people to find them attractive.

i dont expect you to concede to my point, but its more than just fat women objecting to ridicule. hell, doesnt even matter cus black women have already won this particular battle w/black men. we all know
black men arent in a position to collectively demand black women present themselves a certain way.

 

[marcuz]

Lol yeah okay.

Not wanting to be bothered by strangers trying to hit on me isn't exactly a privilege.

I explained why I don't like men approaching me.

women are more entitled

probably comes from a lifetime of nobody checking women on their bullshyt cus we want to fukk them

 

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Neither can unattractive girls. Yet no one cries for them or creates a whole movement behind lying to them about why they aren't getting chose

Are you kidding me. They're talking about taking photoshop out of ads, changing the shape of barbie, and doing all this extra shyt to make women feel more comfortable in their body. There's a whole fat acceptance movement rewriting society so overweight women feel more comfortable. Why do you think we suddenly got all these fat models and actresses everywhere. It ain't cuz guys wanna see that.

Not to mention makeup, spanx, push up bras, weaves, and all that other fake shyt made to give unattractive girls a fighting chance.

It's funny how theyre rewriting society to make ugly chicks feel better and u still got this "what have u done for me lately" attitude

Ok "ex-dime" aka you turned flabby n sick. At least I don't whine about guys not liking me online

Ever thought the reason might be YOU and not them? Hard to accept, I know.

I didnt whine about girls not liking me. I was complaining cuz girls try to say nice guys are secretly creep as an excuse to go fukk with bad boys

Girls will spit all kinds of bullshyt so they dont have to admit how shallow they are.

 

[PartyHeart]

i dont expect you to concede to my point, but its more than just fat women objecting to ridicule. hell, doesnt even matter cus black women have already won this particular battle w/black men. we all know
black men arent in a position to collectively demand black women present themselves a certain way.

I don't know what you're talking about but I will say that the "fat shaming" movement isn't my forte so to speak because I don't really agree with it. I believe it started very positively in a way to get more realistic and more healthy female body types shown in the media, as opposed to the starving and/or photoshopped models usually seen, and then it went left and moved away from being about beauty and started imo lowering standards for healthiness. I think people need to strive to be healthy period so this particular issue is not one I go to bat for

 

[marcuz]

I don't know what you're talking about but I will say that the "fat shaming" movement isn't my forte so to speak because I don't really agree with it. I believe it started very positively in a way to get more realistic and more healthy female body types shown in the media, as opposed to the starving and/or photoshopped models usually seen, and then it went left and moved away from being about beauty and started imo lowering standards for healthiness. I think people need to strive to be healthy period so this particular issue is not one I go to bat for

this is about as close as you'll come to admitting you're completely wrong, so i'll take it.

 

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As far as nice guys feeling entitled to attraction, it's because they've been told by women and society that being nice is what makes you attractive to women.

And guess what, when a girl gets all dolled up and put on high heels and an extra short skirt on she feels entitled to some attention. Cuz that's what they've been led to believe gets them a guys attention.

Same shyt when a guy acts nice.

 

[marcuz]

As far as nice guys feeling entitled to attraction, it's because they've been told by women and society that being nice is what makes you attractive to women.

And guess what, when a girl gets all dolled up and put on high heels and an extra short skirt on she feels entitled to some attention. Cuz that's what they've been led to believe gets them a guys attention.

Same shyt when a guy acts nice.

pretty much. mothers teaching their sons bad game is what causes most of this.

a lot of the biggest a$$holes are dudes who bought into the nice guy lie, only to realize women arent attracted to that.

 

[PartyHeart]

this is about as close as you'll come to admitting you're completely wrong, so i'll take it.

lol I'm not wrong but whatever. There are far more pop culture examples in TV and film of guys who have nothing going for them physically getting an amazing model-type woman to be with them than the other way around. The two things society never lets women delude themselves about are our physicality and our sexuality.

Say what you want but larger women really do not get any reinforcement that being fat will get them the best of men.

 

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[marcuz]

lol I'm not wrong but whatever. There are far more instances of guys who have nothing going for them physically getting an amazing model-type woman to be with them than the other way around. The two things society never lets women delude themselves about are our physicality and our sexuality.

Say what you want but larger women really do not get any reinforcement that being fat will get them the best of men.

- because model-type girlfriends will still choose financial stability or long-dikk over a great psychical appearance. that doesn't change the fact big women can still get a plethora of dikk if they want.

- except when we talk about black women. stop attaching yourself to the dominant society. our women pioneered the whole confident, sexy BBW shyt. i could point out several movies where some sherri shepherd built character's boyfriend/love-interest is some terry crews looking dude.

- funny you say that because a lot of big women will tell you they dont lose weight cus black men like fat asses but i agree, theres little reinforcement that being big will get you the best of men. but there's also no reinforcement that being a "good black male" will get you the best of women.

 

[Easy-E]

So having one night stands disqualify you from being nice now?


In a matter of fact, I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing here. I think you're talking about dudes who say what ever a chick wants to hear when he knowingly only wants to have sex once or twice and move on.

I'm talking about dudes who are honest and genuinely nice, and are upfront about their intentions.


That should clear up the confusion. I think.

If you notice, I've been putting "nice" and "thug" into quotes. They're subjective labels.

No, what I've been addressing; apparently "nice guys" feel women should choose them over "thugs," even though they offer them the same exact thing, just with a different presentation.

I didn't even get into how goofy it is to constantly pursue a women who wants a "thug." It seems "nice guys" don't settle for anything else less than "Instagram Model."

Anyway.

All "nice guys" offer is "sexual intimacy" and seriously believe they should be picked first.

You said what is the difference between a nice guy and a thug and i gave you an answer. When i said nice guy though i wasn't speaking about a guy pretending to be nice only to switch up once they got what they want, that's why it was a little misunderstood.

Okay, let's do this; I have a female friend who's single.

You play the "nice guy." What do you offer to enrich her life, based on the fact that you're a "nice guy," and not a "thug"?