Why are most women terrible at conversation?

[re'up]

You can't say most women without specifying a little, I don't think...I meet less passionate, opinionated women, who are interested in more then their immediate world, then those who aren't....but, that's judging from the long view, I've met many intelligent women who are interesting and outspoken, I'd just like to meet more. I wouldn't say terrible at conversation either, just limited interests and passions, as well as world view. Also, women are socialized to be like that, they are taught from a young age to not express strong opinions, to be shallow, to be nice, and trivial, lest they be labeled a bytch, or unattractive to the opposite sex. It's really some archaic 18th century bullshyt.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

They don't care about the story of your life and other things you're into. It's about them and you have to speak their language.

So, what you're saying is they aren't good conversationalists?

 

[Shadow King]

Because for many women life revolves around them. You're not a partner in conversation. You're an entertainer. Hence why women get "bored." Many women look at us as games, toys or programs. Products to be consumed and not engaged. Think about it; are you taught to have conversations with consumer products? No. Neither are women. Luckily I'm not partnered with a consumer so I'm good over here.

150% true

 

[Shadow King]

He obviously isn't finding what he wants in women. I'm honestly trying to help him out and this is the thanks I get.

Yes

 

[Geek Nasty]

Women don't understand the pickup game from the male side. I remember this happening a lot when I was younger. Females just stare at you listening to you rap, but not really knowing what to say back. I don't even know if they realize it or maybe they're just too nervous or too worried to fukk up the situation. Just keep spinning if she's into you

EDIT: i remember times when a female gave me no feedback so i just and kept moving. Ran into them later that night or even weeks later and the same female is all gab. Now that I think about it, its probably just not knowing what they want to say back.

 

[SubZero]

So, what you're saying is they aren't good conversationalists?

Most of them aren't. A conversation is meant to be a two-way thing. But with women, it is always about them. You have to make it about them, else you're talking to yourself.

Even the ones that talk like parrots, it's always about them.

 

[BlackBall]

This^^ i live in nyc and ive meet tons of girls who are really interesting

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

You all have to stop with this "her conversation sucks because she's not into you" bullshyt. Sometimes, sure. But on the flip side I can call a number of women who have no interest in me and have wonderful conversations with them. There have been women who threw it at me and their conversation game was Some have it, most don't.

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

Then date men

If he came in here like "I'm so happy not to deal with women!" then this would make sense.

But dude just has issues with the women he's meeting and is expressing his own experience while looking for answers/advice I guess. This IS a forum...

But in that same breath, say as you please cause this IS a forum.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yes

ungrateful

 

[Ol’Otis]

It seems like a majority of chicks have no real interests, hobbies, or passions.

It's almost as if they just do the bare minimum in life and see themselves as a pair of boobs and an ass... but then they act like its disrespectful when all you can think of talking about is smashing it's not like you're interesting enough to give a nikka anything else to talk about

you're not supposed to converse with them
just shut up and listen

watch them panties drop unexpectedly like bird shyt

 

[Youseenmywork]

There is an easy answer but I'm let y'all cook thoe...

 

[Larry cumavelli]

like they expect me to sit here and be like " yeah totally john mayor totally slayed that gig, lets go get an espresso"

 

[Neil Tyson]

Girls always say this whenever a guy criticizes how poorly they behave in romance.

OP, girls are immature and catty. They're not like men. Men chat with each other. Women have been conditioned to not make it easy for men they don't wanna fukk.

For example I've been talking to a girl and I have to do the most to get her to say anything. Let somebody she's attracted to talk to her and watch how easy it is. Suddenly she has manners and knows how to carry a conversation.

It's never going to change my guy, so you shouldn't talk to girls that much, because honestly they ain't saying much anyway. If you're not trying to fukk don't speak to her, she's going to assume you're trying to fukk no matter what because that's what girls do.

this is accurate girl i wasn't interested was quiet. A taller, broad shouldered pawg.

until I made it clear that I wasn't interested she became more open. They always assume

 

[Neil Tyson]

You all have to stop with this "her conversation sucks because she's not into you" bullshyt. Sometimes, sure. But on the flip side I can call a number of women who have no interest in me and have wonderful conversations with them. There have been women who threw it at me and their conversation game was Some have it, most don't.

But they already know that you're not interested, which is my point.