Why are single moms the devil again?

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Unless I already had a child myself, there's no way I could pursue anything with one. Other than that, there's no real reason to hate

 

[O.T.I.S.]

What's the bigger offense? Choosing a partner who isn't worth a damn or creating a life and not supporting it?

I don't completely blame them but when it happens more than once? Were they ever engaged, were they ever married? Did that nikka have baby mothers before her? And they normally don't take responsibility for it..

Never said the dudes they fukk with arent shyt though. Most of the time they could tell a njgga wasn't shyt but still laid with him anyway.

 

[ezrathegreat]

How am I a feminist?

Only a disingenuous man or a delusional feminist would have made this thread. EVERYONE knows why having a mass amount of single mothers in any community is bad for that group of people. They're have been tons of studies done to show that children that have been raised in single parent homes are less productive socially and economically and more likely to end up in prison. The only people who try to go against the grain of rational thinking and having strong patriarchal homes as the foundation of a community are feminists.

 

[1 other person]

So for the guys who won't date single mothers (can't fault you, your choice). Do you have a lot of single mothers approaching you trying to connect?

Yes times 100

 

[The ADD]

I don't completely blame them but when it happens more than once? Were they ever engaged, were they ever married? Did that nikka have baby mothers before her? And they normally don't take responsibility for it..

Never said the dudes they fukk with arent shyt though. Most of the time they could tell a njgga wasn't shyt but still laid with him anyway.

I won't dispute that but the lack that same shame and accountability on the other side makes it seem disengenous.

I'm talking generally not specifically at you.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

truth.
this is why we should be expecting more from both our daughters and our sons.

I agree wholeheartedly. Until the males get their shyt together it's best that the females use birth control.

I realize that males can use birth control too. The consequences for the female are more dire since the male can flee, so with the most to lose, females have to be more careful.

 

[The ADD]

Yes times 100

How do you reject them?

 

[1 other person]

I agree wholeheartedly. Until the males get their shyt together it's best that the females use birth control.

I realize that males can use birth control too. The consequences for the female are more dire since the male can flee, so with the most to lose, females have to be more careful.

The fact that some fail to grasp this simple concept of life is mind boggling.

 

[ezrathegreat]

Because that's NOT my job, that's her baby father's job where ever the fukk he is. I refuse to be for these women that made poor choices in life. There's enough simps out here to pick up my slack.

this breh gets it.

 

[The ADD]

I agree wholeheartedly. Until the males get their shyt together it's best that the females use birth control.

I realize that males can use birth control too. The consequences for the female are more dire since the male can flee, so with the most to lose, females have to be more careful.

Accurate but no one ever here seems to care about the females as individuals. The complaint is about the impact on the community.

 

[1 other person]

How do you reject them?

If I'm not interested I just don't give them a firm no. Like for example, she ask if I want to get something to eat. I say, 'maybe later' and leave it at that. If they keep trying, I keep curving. They usually move on.

If I want to have some fun, I will hang out with them and have sex but let them know if asked - that I'm only interested in having fun, nothing serious. I'll go with the 'flow' until they try to give me the commit talk. Then its the bushes

 

[The ADD]

If I'm not interested I just don't give them a firm no. Like for example, she ask if I want to get something to eat. I say, 'maybe later' and leave it at that. If they keep trying, I keep curving. They usually move on.

If I want to have some fun, I will hang out with them and have sex but let them know if asked - that I'm only interested in having fun, nothing serious. I'll go with the 'flow' until they try to give me the commit talk. Then its the bushes

So really you treat them like any woman you aren't interested in long term.

 

[1 other person]

So really you treat them like any woman you aren't interested in long term.

Yes

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I don't think they the devil. I just don't like how they feel entitled to great men and some don't bring much to the table. It's complex situation. They not everyone cup of tea. I think they cool long as they kids good and they do for themselves and bring something to the table. Not just try to use a good man

 

[Black Bolt]

becuz these dudes hate being accountable

their 2nd favorite scapegoat after white ppl is black women

nah they hate BW more than white folks on the coli. shyt's disturbing.