Why are women so terrible at communicating within a relationship?

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If something is going wrong within a relationship they will drop hints and vent to their friends but almost never directly articulate what’s bothering them.Until they can’t take it anymore and hit you out of left field with something you didn’t know was a problem.Why is that?
 

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They don’t want to teach you how to be a man. Because it’s a turn off and they don’t know how to teach you. As a man you’re expected to just know what’s wrong and how to rectify it, which means shifting her emotions from negative to positive, no matter what the original issue was (or whether or not it gets fixed). As long as you focus on changing her emotions from negative to positive you’re good.
 

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Most likely, you already know whats up lol

Like for me, chicks would always want more & more attention.... More & more time.

They always want MORE of something.

Its up to you whether you wanna submit to what shes demanding.

And if you geniunely dont know whats up.... Just tell her to be straight up about it & stop wasting your time.

If she doesnt wanna talk..... Wait until she does.
 

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If something is going wrong within a relationship
the women Ive dealt with will drop hints and vent to their friends but almost never directly articulate what’s bothering them.Until they can’t take it anymore and hit you out of left field with something you didn’t know was a problem.Why is that?

Sounds like youve been dealing with women who lack emotional maturity. Most women, Id assume, dont have a problem discussing issues in a relationship.
 
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