Why are women so terrible at communicating within a relationship?

[CinnaSlim]

Men and women communicate differently. Women are more adept at sending and recognizing subtle signals/ changes. Men are not.

 

[karim]

Men and women communicate differently. Women are more adept at sending and recognizing subtle signals/ changes. Men are not.

no they are not. Try sending out subtle signals to a woman as a man and see how far it will get you

 

[karim]

Yes. Because you acting stupid is gaslighting.

I’ll give you an example. We go out with a group of your friends. Someone invites a girl in the mix that you know I don’t mess with. You’re all up in her face, pay me little attention. On the drive home, I’m dead silent. You ask me what’s wrong. I’m so heated, I say “nothing”.

I say nothing because 1, I know that in expressing myself, I’m going to get the label of being b*tchy, etc. I’m penalized for asserting myself. I also think that if you don’t know, maybe I’m just being “crazy”.

We go to lay, you try to f*ck, I turn to the wall.

This is when most of y’all go
“I shouldn’t have xyz with shorty. It wasn’t like that blasé blasé blah”

The whole time YOU KNEW what the problem was and you just wanted me to confirm what YOU ALREADY KNEW.

Lol, no, Im asking so we can talk about it and solve the issue. But you decided to pout instead. That is what will get you labeled as bytchy. Clearly communicating why you are unhappy (That doesn't mean accusations, yelling, crying or other stupid shyt, but explaining why you are mad so we can talk about this constructively) will not get you labeled as bytchy, because you aren't bytching, you're acting like a grown up.

 

[old_timer]

Life is a ton of compromises

I don't agitate by reminding people each time I don't get my first preference
I don't make others negotiate each "win"

I wanted chicken shack.. you wanted captain D's
So I eat the fish sticks and keep up a positive energy
I don't spoil your enjoyment of captain D's by moping
Or provoking a ten minute dialog

I only hang with people who approach life the same way

I'm not sure this is a gender thing, either
Moreso, I see it as the powerless people who focus on minor "wins" and debating each compromise

 

[Eclipser]

Man- "what's the matter"
Woman: "nothing"

man: "Are you sure"

woman "if you don't know why I'm mad at you then forget it"

man: "well I'm not a mind reader"

Woman; "I just think it's funny that. . . .

man: sighs, in his mind, "here we go again"

10/10 execution

 

[HARLEM AL]

Women communicate differently then men. They’ll use all of their words lol. And you won’t get shyt out of it. You have to be a women to understand them. Men, we use and understand plain English...

 

[RARI_Godwind]

They father

 

[Rawtid]

Because men are terrible at understanding.

 

[Bubba T]

^ Men don't communicate in riddles. It shouldn't have to be a guessing game for two people to say how they feel. That's infuriating.

 

[ZoeGod]

Because we have to walk around on eggshells to protect ur fragile egos.


(Watch what happens next for a prime example of EXACTLY what I'm talking about. Men HATE any criticism from women and find self reflection extremely difficult. They say they want the truth but really they dont.)

I love you sis cuz you a dope poster but as if women can take any criticism. I love women but a lot of y’all never take responsibility for anything. Any time women get criticized by men you call us all types of names regardless of race. Call us bitter,dry dikk,small dikk,fakkits,creepy etc etc. All race of women do this shyt it’s crazy. Tell a women she need to do better is like telling a wall it’s needs to move.

 

[010101]

generalizing stupidity according to gender is ass backwards

you are simply describing the average ain't shyte human beings

*

 

[Henri Christophe]

I love you sis cuz you a dope poster but as if women can take any criticism. I love women but a lot of y’all never take responsibility for anything. Any time women get criticized by men you call us all types of names regardless of race. Call us bitter,dry dikk,small dikk,fakkits,creepy etc etc. All race of women do this shyt it’s crazy. Tell a women she need to do better is like telling a wall it’s needs to move.

Nah women are smart... they just say those things to push your buttons emotionally.... And most men fall for it.

They know when theyre on some bullshyt. Dont fall for the games.

I just tell them "either you're playing dumb or you're genuinely stupid"

And then I stop talking.

When they insult you... Question their intelligence.

 

[Henri Christophe]

An angry woman has the IQ of an infant.

 

[010101]

An angry woman has the IQ of an infant.

cats get angry & throw their lives away just as quick*

 

[Henri Christophe]

cats get angry & throw their lives away just as quick*

Big facts


We call those brehs.... "bytches"... "Feminine"

A man doesnt operate on emotion.

Plenty brehs in prison for operating off emotion.