Why are women so terrible at communicating within a relationship?

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If something is going wrong within a relationship they will drop hints and vent to their friends but almost never directly articulate what’s bothering them.Until they can’t take it anymore and hit you out of left field with something you didn’t know was a problem.Why is that?

because a lot of them have no idea how to communicate with men....

so they employ the same passive aggressive tactics on men that they use on other women
 

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They don’t want to teach you how to be a man. Because it’s a turn off and they don’t know how to teach you. As a man you’re expected to just know what’s wrong and how to rectify it, which means shifting her emotions from negative to positive, no matter what the original issue was (or whether or not it gets fixed). As long as you focus on changing her emotions from negative to positive you’re good.

For some reason, this type of logic rubs me the wrong way. This isn't directly towards you, BR, but this is how I see things...

Being a man has nothing to do with a woman having whatever issue(s) with said man. No man can read minds!

Any woman who expect a man to just know what is bothering her and being able to resolve whatever issue is very delusional and unrealistic.

Common sense should tell anyone that if there is an issue with a person, then you bring said issue to that person, not those who are outside the relationship.

Any person who struggles with communicating with their sig other may not be ready to be in a relationship.

If you are an adult, then it is expected of you to act like one and stop playing kiddie games! Since we gonna talk about expectations and all..
 
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My girl or soon to be my ex is petty as fukk and like holding shyt in and wait like 30 minutes to a hour to let me know she's mad at me...

I walked out of her place on monday and haven't talk to her since

you did the right thing.....

left my ex like that too....except she was in mid-scream when i walked out.....

calmly left the room....closed the door and started packing

i was married by the way.....

the look on her face when she came to see what i was doing is one i'll never forget :francis:......face dropped to the floor.....she composed herself and started in again....i didnt say a word and kept packing :mjgrin:
 

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because a lot of them have no idea how to communicate with men....

so they employ the same passive aggressive tactics on men that they use on other women

Real shyt though bro sometimes they cant verbalize how they feel because they genuinely don't even know how they feel


If you ask her enough questions you'll find out that she's just in an attitude over something you did 7 months ago

Women are retarded like that

Silence is the best remedy
 

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Because they have been taught since birth that a man is responsible for their happiness. And if she is not happy then it has nothing to do with her, so she expects that you already know or can figure out through telepathy, what the issue is and resolve it.

So with all that said why would a woman feel like she needs to tell you what is bothering her?

This is science :troll:
 

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If something is going wrong within a relationship they will drop hints and vent to their friends but almost never directly articulate what’s bothering them.Until they can’t take it anymore and hit you out of left field with something you didn’t know was a problem.Why is that?


OP..

Any person who behaves this way has maturity issues, IMO..

If you are in a relationship wih someone, it isn't your responsibility to automatically know what is inside the mind of your partner. The onus is on that person to let you know whatever issue(s) they may have with you and be able to communicate those issues with you.

However, you have to be open to hearing whatever issues there may be and be willing to clearly communicate with her by listening and responding to her issues in a caring and respectable manner..

Communication is extremely important and that foundation should be laid down before you and your partner start a relationship. Passive aggressive behavior and other forms of subtle bs need to be nipped in the bud right away or else you will end up having issues that could have been avoided a long time ago.
 
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Because they have been taught since birth that a man is responsible for their happiness. And if she is not happy then it has nothing to do with her, so she expects that you already know or can figure out through telepathy, what the issue is and resolve it.

So with all that said why would a woman feel like she needs to tell you what is bothering her?

This is science :troll:

Yup.

It's why some women bounce from man to man. They think they'll find one that'll fill that empty void they have.
 

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Most women are not adults but children.

Well sir, if that is how you feel about women, then why get into a relationship with one?


I already know that a lot of men view women as children and treat them like one. However, if you gonna treat a woman like a child, then why would you expect them to behave like anything other than a child?

I don't think of women as children, but I do believe that women are no more or less mature than men. There are many women who act like grown adults and handle their business like an adult. Just not the majority of them. Like men, it is a toss up on what you may deal wih depending on the person you are dealing with .
 
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1. Because men and women communicate differently.

2. Because how a women “feels” can change by the hour.


If you want a truly feminine woman, than you have to accept that they have a feminine communication style that won’t always be comprehensible to you as a masculine male.

Most issues that women have in relationships come down to “not feeling heard” OR “they don’t feel safe or secure”
 
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