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a woman doesn't either
i don't excuse goofy behavior just because a individual has a vagina ovaries & all the rest
fukk all the goofy stereotypes everybody act right
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Why are women so terrible at communicating within a relationship?
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i don't excuse goofy behavior just because a individual has a vagina ovaries & all the rest
fukk all the goofy stereotypes everybody act right
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Maybe yall need to choose better, more emotionally intelligent partners that know how to articulate their feelings effectively.
To keep it 100... We usually just want yall to shut up & stop killin the vibe
Women always startin beef during times of peace
In my head... I be like "not this shyt again"
women really dont kno when to shut the fukk up..talk ya goddam head off..birds
This but my god this seems like a headache.
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
Simply the way women communicate. Women are better at picking up small changes in demeanor, body language, tone etc. the reason why a woman can hop in the car with her girl and immediately her girl will look at her and be like “what’s wrong”. I think women tend to expect that from men. But y’all dont function like that, y’all need things spelled out directly.
I think early on in the dating life of a woman or early ina relationship, women will continue to try that micro aggressive behavior, but eventually you learn to be forthcoming. So yea, all I can say is if it’s early in your relationship, bear with it, she should move past it. Now if y’all 1-2 years deep and this is always the way she deals with things about you or your relationship you need to be straight up with her and tell her it’s more helpful for her to just be direct/address things head on.
This. OP, how old are the "women" you've been dealing with? And if both of ya'll are over 25/30 why do you keep choosing women with the emotional maturity of teenagers?Because I've had the exact opposite experience. In fact, many men complain about having women who won't shut up about what's bothering them.
Half of the threads on here about "women" are actually teenage/ early twenties immaturity parading as relationship wisdom.
psgchisolm
Pro
Women communicate indirectly and men communicate directly. It's why they have a round about way of getting a point across.
"Girls are born with power talk
Women learn from a very early age how to powertalk with each other, they need to, the competition and bytchiness between woman requires them to be fluent. If not, they are quickly ostracised or labeled "the weird girl". I won't go into the definitions of powertalk here, it's best you read it from people who can explain it vastly better than I can. Women default to power talk (especially with each other), while men default to straight-talk (especially with each other, if not posturing). This is especially true in serious situations, like "The Chat"
Women use power talk as a way of telling you "no", "go away" or "shut up". They craft their words in a way so that you may even think the conversation was polite, or that you came out the winner. Don't be fooled though, she had you right from the beginning, and when you tried to "communicate" your thoughts to her, she just told you to fukk off in a very sweet way.
The reason for this is obviously because the vast majority of unplugged don't know how to recognise power talk. There is a huge dissonance in conversation when a couple have "The Chat". The two are speaking a different language.
When a guy hears "We need to talk" (itself an invitation to power talk), his translation is "this is going to be a serious topic". Hence, the man puts on his "Straight Talk".
When a girl hears "We need to talk", her translation is "a verbal battle is about to take place, how do I win?". The woman then puts on her "Power Talk".
The two are speaking different languages. The guy cannot read through the lines of the girls speech, he interprets it as straight talk. He accepts her justfications and hamstering as real truths, "she wouldn't be lying to me during this heart-to-heart, relationship defining talk would she?".
The girl listens to the guy whine with real contempt, and then covertly tells him his feelings don't matter to her and he should drop the subject.
Because that's how women see "communication" from their partners. Whining"
"Girls are born with power talk
Women learn from a very early age how to powertalk with each other, they need to, the competition and bytchiness between woman requires them to be fluent. If not, they are quickly ostracised or labeled "the weird girl". I won't go into the definitions of powertalk here, it's best you read it from people who can explain it vastly better than I can. Women default to power talk (especially with each other), while men default to straight-talk (especially with each other, if not posturing). This is especially true in serious situations, like "The Chat"
Women use power talk as a way of telling you "no", "go away" or "shut up". They craft their words in a way so that you may even think the conversation was polite, or that you came out the winner. Don't be fooled though, she had you right from the beginning, and when you tried to "communicate" your thoughts to her, she just told you to fukk off in a very sweet way.
The reason for this is obviously because the vast majority of unplugged don't know how to recognise power talk. There is a huge dissonance in conversation when a couple have "The Chat". The two are speaking a different language.
When a guy hears "We need to talk" (itself an invitation to power talk), his translation is "this is going to be a serious topic". Hence, the man puts on his "Straight Talk".
When a girl hears "We need to talk", her translation is "a verbal battle is about to take place, how do I win?". The woman then puts on her "Power Talk".
The two are speaking different languages. The guy cannot read through the lines of the girls speech, he interprets it as straight talk. He accepts her justfications and hamstering as real truths, "she wouldn't be lying to me during this heart-to-heart, relationship defining talk would she?".
The girl listens to the guy whine with real contempt, and then covertly tells him his feelings don't matter to her and he should drop the subject.
Because that's how women see "communication" from their partners. Whining"
Man Down
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King Harlem
Superstar
This just happened to me. I'm thinking things are cool and she starts sending me weird texts over the weekend and when I talk to her she's mad at me talking about "I was talking to my friends and they said...". I'm literally baffled.
