Long and short of it, I am not really putting forth the effort and it just doesn't feel like a pressing issue to me. If it happens, it happens. I'm of the opinion that on some level, it's meant to be easy and the one you're supposed to be with will come along while you're out there living your life and all of that. I've had my eye on a couple potential cuffs in the past several months, but there are some red flags (read: shyt that just doesn't mesh well with my personality and what I'd be cool with) so I'm on
I guess I just don't care that much, if I did, then maybe I'd try to change it. As far as I'm concerned, it's just whatever.
Granted, there's other reasons such as being introverted, wanting to get to a point and I'm happy with my standing financially or whatever (for myself, and no one else) but the fact is, I'm just not that fukked up about it and I refuse to stress over it. I'm not at a point where I feel compelled to go lock somebody down and I have no intention on cuffing for the sake of cuffing. If I cuff, it's because a newfound value has been added to whatever it is I do from day to day.