Why are you single?

BrehWyatt

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Long and short of it, I am not really putting forth the effort and it just doesn't feel like a pressing issue to me. If it happens, it happens. I'm of the opinion that on some level, it's meant to be easy and the one you're supposed to be with will come along while you're out there living your life and all of that. I've had my eye on a couple potential cuffs in the past several months, but there are some red flags (read: shyt that just doesn't mesh well with my personality and what I'd be cool with) so I'm on :whoa:

I guess I just don't care that much, if I did, then maybe I'd try to change it. As far as I'm concerned, it's just whatever.

Granted, there's other reasons such as being introverted, wanting to get to a point and I'm happy with my standing financially or whatever (for myself, and no one else) but the fact is, I'm just not that fukked up about it and I refuse to stress over it. I'm not at a point where I feel compelled to go lock somebody down and I have no intention on cuffing for the sake of cuffing. If I cuff, it's because a newfound value has been added to whatever it is I do from day to day.
 

LezJepzin

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I'm too much of an introvert deep down. I would love to be in a relationship but don't put the effort in to pursue one. That plus the way most women these days are programmed to be attention seekers and desire a man that can give them the world, I'm not rich enough to provide that. Sometimes I can't decide whether I want someone, or to be by myself.

1. Trust issues
2. Horrible work hours
3. No one takes relationships serious anymore

Along with the fact that women are too shallow for the most part because the simps make them think they don't need to offer anything in a relationship other than their looks and sex.

"Too mature"

Trust issues

I want to be her One and Only, not another dude on her roster :beli:


Comfortable with my freedom and independence.
 

TheGumpkin

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I'm single because the woman I loved wasn't ready to settle down so I broke it off. Also ignored a couple red flags in relation to her which probably would have caused way more problems down the line.

Still in love with that girl though :mjcry:

its like you writing my life breh same shyt happened to me a month ago :mjcry:
 

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Right now I'm just too lazy....

I work a lot during prime dating hours....I would need someone close in proximity and for them to come to me since I'm lazy about exerting too much effort right now....I realize that's unfair to the woman so I'd need a pushy, clingy type woman that doesn't mind sweating me (that woman typically isn't my type aesthetically )...and that woman can't have kids since she'd need to be able to get up and go at a moments notice (women without kids have too much pride for me in my current state, they realize the bullshyt I'm offering and can't be bothered to move forward)...

She'll need to really put her self out there for me to change my tune...and it's unlikely considering my g-real expectations ..
 

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yall gone look up and be 50, single and lonely....is it really that bad out there? yall need to get your self esteem right because it's obvious you don't think to high of yourselves..it's nothing to pull a female, I've never gone 6 months without having someone, back when I was dating. Time flys and before you know it, it's over, quit being scary.
 

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All I have for now is a heart of gold, and my dikk. That's not enough for bytches these days :mjcry:
 

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Honestly, I'm probably one of the most unlucky FAITHFUL men out there when it comes to being in a relationship with certain females. The cheating, lieing, arguments, is not worth it in my opinion. Some of time I rather stay single and enjoy being an 20 year old black man. I've been with OLDER women around their mid twenties to mid thirties. I rather stay focus on my goals and enjoy my youth. Need to finish school, and make more money. Don't understand why most young adults get married so early.
 

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And you can look up and be 50 divorced paying child support while some other Man is dikking down your wife

Nothing is guaranteed in life

I'll never be in a relationship to fill some sort of void


yall gone look up and be 50, single and lonely....is it really that bad out there? yall need to get your self esteem right because it's obvious you don't think to high of yourselves..it's nothing to pull a female, I've never gone 6 months without having someone, back when I was dating. Time flys and before you know it, it's over, quit being scary.
 
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