Why did my female coworker do this?

Calibrated

Superstar
Joined
Dec 27, 2017
Messages
4,747
Reputation
7,970
Daps
47,033
SHE PROBABLY THINK THIS DUDE WANTS TO FIGHT. :laff:

full
"Main entrance. 4 o' clock. BE THERE!"
 

Mr Uncle Leroy

All Star
Joined
May 19, 2012
Messages
10,364
Reputation
-170
Daps
4,625
A little situation just happened right now at work and I wanted to get you guys take on it

There's this female coworker of mines that has been giving me heavy "choosing signals" for a while now

I don't like talking to girls that I work with so I never decided to act upon her choosing signals

But I try to put myself in other people's shoes and I started to feel a bit sorry for her because perhaps she was shy and insecure and was too scared to approach me.

So just a few hours ago, I approached her and told her to meet me at the main entrance when she got off work

The interesting thing however though is that when I asked her what time she was leaving, she said 4 but I already knew she was leaving at 3, so that's interesting

So at around 3, she actually already left, so at 4pm, I didn't see her at the main entrance.

So what do yall think is going on here, is this just a classical case of a girl wanting your validation?

For context, not too sound arrogant, but I'm a tall good looking dude, and there is a tendency for girls to give me choosing signals at work

I also dont really talk to people, and dont really pay attention to girls at work

So I think that in some of these cases, these girls just want my attention because they might

be wondering why I dont pay attention to them like the other guys at work
She left at 3pm
You were there at 4pm
 
Top