Listen up you dumb divest whores, No one can make you a baby mama, only YOU can make that decision. If you are unmarried and don't want kids, abstain from sex (it won't kill you) if that's too extreme for you then go ahead have sex but take advantage of one or more of the numerous forms of birth control available to you.
Why do black folks that only date white have the same origin story?
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I was about to say this. I got roasted by both white and black kids growing up. It wasn't till I started hanging with other nerds, both black and white, that I felt sorta accepted. Lames and cornballs are looked down upon by every race.
But your experience wasn’t necessarily the same as hers. Maybe it comes down to parenting and teaching as well. I just don’t understand why people rush to dismiss someone else’s experiences. Shot on her for what she’s saying now. No problem. But the “I was bullied and I was fine” group are dismissing her experiences.
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What she doesn't want to say is that she feels validated when she dates cacs, you know the same ones that created the socio-racial caste system in america, you know the one that promoted light skin as being somehow better because it's closer to pink flesh. She doesn't want to admit that she's so damaged from WS she just wants her abusers (cac society) to love her and not see her as a ni..er. We got to stop trying to save these ones. Let that hoe go. if you're past 21 y/o with some education and still think white ice is colder, by all means have at it. just don't come back running home when you find out the shyt is poisoned. 
Honestly I get it, you truly have to mentally tough to navigate through- society that puts whiteness on a pedestal.
Most people ain’t built for that conversation or train of thought. It’s much easier to conform to the status quo.
What is incredibly telling about each and every one of these stories is that the person never "really" reflects on what their experience was like.
They compare their middle school experience with their college experience - as if life at 12 is the same as life at 20.
What you know she's doing is purposely leaving out all of the Black friends she had, the community that supported and raised her to allow her the opportunity to go to college, and every good experience she had - because she's so desperate to prove that White people are better than Black people.
She even moved to a country known for its racism and relegation of Black people to objects of lust - and thinks that men hitting on her means they "accept" her.
She's going to raise some fukked up children.
They compare their middle school experience with their college experience - as if life at 12 is the same as life at 20.
What you know she's doing is purposely leaving out all of the Black friends she had, the community that supported and raised her to allow her the opportunity to go to college, and every good experience she had - because she's so desperate to prove that White people are better than Black people.
She even moved to a country known for its racism and relegation of Black people to objects of lust - and thinks that men hitting on her means they "accept" her.
She's going to raise some fukked up children.
Too many black people seem to have the same story. And I know when I was in elementary and middle school, the darker you were, the fatter you were, the nappier you were, the ashier you were, the cornier you were, you got it bad. And it was consistent. We wouldn't let up.
A Nigerian girl that I was in elementary school got teased to no end. She was, as far as I could remember, not attractive. We thought she was ugly. She constantly got teased. Today, she is drop dead gorgeous. But to this day she will not post full pictures of herself on social media.
That shyt stays with you. And I'm not judging nobody for how they react to mental, physical, and verbal trauma that they had to endure as kids.
It's fight or flight. That is the natural human response. I am not going to judge you if you decide to flee.
We need to be more introspective as a people with the factors that are causing people to want to leave.
We're too small in numbers to have some among our ranks working against us. That's a house divided.
A Nigerian girl that I was in elementary school got teased to no end. She was, as far as I could remember, not attractive. We thought she was ugly. She constantly got teased. Today, she is drop dead gorgeous. But to this day she will not post full pictures of herself on social media.
That shyt stays with you. And I'm not judging nobody for how they react to mental, physical, and verbal trauma that they had to endure as kids.
It's fight or flight. That is the natural human response. I am not going to judge you if you decide to flee.
We need to be more introspective as a people with the factors that are causing people to want to leave.
We're too small in numbers to have some among our ranks working against us. That's a house divided.
BlackDiBiase
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I’ll fye yo ass up if we joaning but I can’t say that I’m a fan of that part of the culture. It has nothing to do with being soft or weak.
We just have to stop ingraining the denigration of black people into black children. I don’t know how you expect someone to love their black features if you tease them for having them most of their life....
We just have to stop ingraining the denigration of black people into black children. I don’t know how you expect someone to love their black features if you tease them for having them most of their life....
Elle Driver
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It has a totally different effect on you when it’s your own people and family. If you don’t have that support you may become mentally stunted and emotionally immature when it comes to it.
This seems ironic.
I honestly think we need to move beyond excuses regarding our behavior.
We are the generations that came after our own black power and black is beautiful movements.
We are out of excuses really.
This thread reminds me of the Lauryn Hill thread. Just cause yall went through something and came out ok dont mean everyone is the same. I swear this place has the dumbest nikkas imaginable. I got roasted and I'm good. So? 
I got roasted and I'm good too but y ole girl gotta be all types of bytches and dumbasses?
I got roasted and I'm good too but y ole girl gotta be all types of bytches and dumbasses?
Cel 510 kid ados forever
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Mosr swirlers would of have swirled anyway due to lack of self esteem not being made fun of by blacks.
Plenty of blacks who never been made fun of before swirled
This chick making excuses up just say u like white people
Plenty of blacks who never been made fun of before swirled
This chick making excuses up just say u like white people
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
I personally never gave a fukk with what color a person dates. Just date who you want. Keep the extra shyt out of it because its bullshyt. Its so many single black women out here that they should try to date other nationalities.
Also, the dating market don't seem to be working for her. If she was happy with her white man she wouldn't be so pressed.
Also, the dating market don't seem to be working for her. If she was happy with her white man she wouldn't be so pressed.
...and the next post on her twitter feed is a retweet of a picture of a black cop and a caption saying he was killed last night by a violent protestor, and asking why his life didn't matter.
Two seconds of google and you find out he was killed last year on a domestic violence call that they think was a botched suicide by cop attempt
there's some deep psychological shyt with these types
Two seconds of google and you find out he was killed last year on a domestic violence call that they think was a botched suicide by cop attempt
there's some deep psychological shyt with these types
most of time these backstories used to provide reasons for why to date a certain way are bullshyt.
They usually have just as many stories with white men, but they choose the ignore them because their preference is already made.
You think white men don't subscribe to colorism? they invented it. They will tell you your hair looks ghetto and unprofessional at work, they will your kids the same thing at school. They will emphasis being darker with all things negative and will be very critical of any body type that isn't flat as an ironing board.
Thats all it is at the end of the day preference. You have a preference for white men, none of that other shyt matters. There are woman out there who have been raped and beaten, shrugged off that baggage and continued to date people of same race as the perpetrator. To carry some immature gradeschool bullying with you your whole life is just pitiful at best. dishonest juelzing at worst.
They usually have just as many stories with white men, but they choose the ignore them because their preference is already made.
You think white men don't subscribe to colorism? they invented it. They will tell you your hair looks ghetto and unprofessional at work, they will your kids the same thing at school. They will emphasis being darker with all things negative and will be very critical of any body type that isn't flat as an ironing board.
Thats all it is at the end of the day preference. You have a preference for white men, none of that other shyt matters. There are woman out there who have been raped and beaten, shrugged off that baggage and continued to date people of same race as the perpetrator. To carry some immature gradeschool bullying with you your whole life is just pitiful at best. dishonest juelzing at worst.