Why do black folks that only date white have the same origin story?

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

What’s the end goal for these people? All end up married with white/non-black men?

On social media they front like they’re all about and for the interests of black women, specifically dark skinned black women, but surely marrying and reproducing with non-black men is counter-intuitive and counter-productive to anything pertaining the advancement and existence of black women, no?

I don’t think they realize they are producing the light skinned women they claim get more attention, however, people can’t just be alone forever.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

But your experience wasn’t necessarily the same as hers. Maybe it comes down to parenting and teaching as well. I just don’t understand why people rush to dismiss someone else’s experiences. Shot on her for what she’s saying now. No problem. But the “I was bullied and I was fine” group are dismissing her experiences.

I read the words she stated that were made by the kids bullying her...

They were similar to the ones I heard growing.. (I had glasses and braces too..) Even more than that because I was extremely shy.
I had people trying to beat me up, spit on me, called me ugly multiple times.. picked
on me because I didn’t defend myself.. Even my own family bullied me..The only difference between me and her are our complexions

There was absolutely nothing she said that was worse then my experiences and I still don’t use any of it as an excuse for who I choose to date..

That’s just stupid.

 

[Hopeofmypeople]

That excuse don’t hold water no more, we are more connected than ever thanks to the internet and social media, you telling me you can’t find black people just like you? Just look at how all the weirdos on the coli congregate... if weird nikkas can find a kindred on here why can’t others in other places.

 

[EBK String]

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I caught all kinds of dark skin jokes and I've been made fun of by mostly black women.

Yet, I don't bytch about it.

I'm always defending the same women who've made me the OG of uglygang.

I guess some people are just weak....

 

[CopiousX]

Damn my cousin said the same shyt when we first moved out to Minnesota that niqqa got 3 white baby mommas now

 

[Rell84shots]

Self hatred is the only reason. I hate the "black kids teased me because of my looks" excuse, because they end up dating the very people who determined that their looks were ugly.

 

[CopiousX]

I feel like it’s mental illness. This one was wild to me too. Chick tore up a book by MLK in the name of the divest movement bc he was allegedly smashing white hoes

Aught to be ashamed of her demented , mentally ill assss. This the same person who wouldnt in a million years take that bullet MLK took and still enjoys the benefits and swirling that King's sacrifice allows her to do





Must be bad or non-existent parenting

 

[seabreeze80]

This is why I don't judge everyone who chooses to date outside of their race. As long as they have never publicly disrespected black people, I have no issues with them. Taye Diggs said something about being picked on for his skin color too. I think a lot of black people hate themselves and project their self hate onto others. Everyone doesn't heal the same and some are still recovering.

 

[VertigoKnight]

How can you 'divest' from an entire community?

Just straight up laughable nonsense.

These dumb chicks aren't as special as they want to be. People grow up, get stronger, stop giving a fuxk what other people think of them.

 

[SAINT]

I feel like it’s mental illness. This one was wild to me too. Chick tore up a book by MLK in the name of the divest movement bc he was allegedly smashing white hoes

I can tell by her wrists and her voice that she’s Incredibly ugly

 

[SAINT]

I can tell by her wrists and her voice that she’s Incredibly ugly

ayoooo

 

[wastedmermaid]

Yeah, and a lot of girls made fun of me in school because I was nerdy,skinny, short. Maybe I should start dating men because of the bullying too

 

[The Plug]

Nigerian brehs like when they seen that Flag was an American one.

we been knew most of the bedwenches on twitter are FBA/ADOS. We can count.

 

[Commish]

This is why I don't judge everyone who chooses to date outside of their race. As long as they have never publicly disrespected black people, I have no issues with them. Taye Diggs said something about being picked on for his skin color too. I think a lot of black people hate themselves and project their self hate onto others. Everyone doesn't heal the same and some are still recovering.

I have a question for you or anyone for that matter...

Why is it that the only Black people who gets accused of self loathing are those who choose to have non-Black significant others/spouses? Why only those people? So, a Black person who dates/marries endogamously can’t possibly be self loathing based off of having someone that shares their ethnic/cultural background?

I am glad you don’t judge those who date nBs, but many people do whether they know the reason or not. People will hold court on that person on site knowing that they don’t know anything about that person. This is why I don’t accept most people who say “well as long as they are not down talking Black people” because most are FOS!

Lastly, I don’t agree with that woman’s mentality now, but I definitely understand why she feels how she feels. Everyone isn’t gonna “get over it” no more than someone would get over a loved one getting harmed. People react and respond to trauma differently.