Why do black men have more smoke for "simps" than irresponsible or deadbeat men?

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I've never met a stepfather and I cant remember the last time anyone let me know they were a stepchild. That's probably why this is just "internet" shyt. I'd laugh at any of my friends or family if I heard they were seriously dating a single mother and they would probably laugh at me too
 

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The smoke for simps is directly related to men wanting to see women fail. There's a very bizarre idea that Russel Wilson somehow "saved" Ciara, a woman with a very accomplished music career and made the "grave error" of dating and procreating with someone. The idea is that women only have one chance to get it right and if they "mess up" and date thugs, they should carry that burden and be doomed to perpetual loneliness.

It's actually not that deep.

It's simply self-preservation.

I've said it out right that the reason I personally hate simps is because they make it harder to get women.

A woman with too many options is forced to raise her standards.

fukk simps. Just be happy I'm not blaming women.

1. Sexual predators
2. White supremacists
3. Simps.

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The same reason why we shame cowardice.

You think about the times where you had to draw a line with a woman you care about. It isn't easy and has you looking at them like :francis:

Feel that simps get a lot of flack in order to validate decisions made. If it seen as acceptable, people would tolerate far more.
 

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I don’t hate them at all. But to the people saying it’s not real life thing that’s not true. My moms sisters and aunts all told me don’t mess with single mothers, and some of them were single mothers. They knew the baggage and the mistakes they made and they want you to help clean it up
 

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Simps gon do what they do they cool with somebody else's sloppy seconds more power to them, the other nikkas do get the smoke it's just women justify them so what's the point why waste my time.

For all the stupid motherfukkers talking about we don't have smoke for thugs, women in the black community (moreso than other communities) LIKE fukkING THUGS. With real life men, regardless of the logical, philosophical, legal, sociocultural reasons for them to not move the way they do, if they are getting p*ssy, especially with minimal effort, they'll be hard pressed to change, and if you're a man telling them they're living wrong they'll tell you to ""'get the fukk out my face, mayne" :stopitslime:. So there's no point in talking about it when there are literally millions of men that measure their total value solely in how much p*ssy they get/have got.

Simps are annoying in various ways.
1. The girl doesn't even want to fukk him, she's not primally attracted, she's just willing to be there for all the other shyt buddy is willing to do. (Pay for shyt, fix her messes, watch/raise her existing children). Often these women are vulnerable to their true attractions, hence fukkery.

2. Simps inflate the market of worthy women. Like fat/sloppy folk used to have decorum and know they ain't built like that, and keep that shyt in dresses, oversized hoodies, sweats, etc. Then simps championed body positivity AKA not only settling for sloppily built broads, but gassing them. Now when I work near the beaches there's all types of fat mufukkas tryna squeeze into shyt they shouldn't, fukking up my eyes and shyt. My point in that anecdote is that the bar was lowered. Simps lower the bar on how women can live their lives/be, and still be taken care of like a women who did everything right.

Which leads to men opting out of dating/marriage. Less is being given by women with the same if not in many case more expectations of men. Even a simple dude knows a bad/uneven deal.

Men really hate simps, because they know they along with the internet/social media have fukked up dating. You can hate an/app company, but that's a concept/conglomerate easier to hate a person, because you know to some degree they CHOOSE to do this. The apps/companies and people that run them are slaves to money. But the simp is just a low self esteem sucker
 
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Because single mothers have always been perceived as the low hanging fruit in communities.

Their purpose was to provide recreational activity for men going through a drought or suffering from low self-esteem until they get the confidence to pull the woman they actually want.

Once brehs started cuffin’ that created brain drain and sexual frustration for men who used to slide thru, eat the kids snacks and get their release.

Now they’re stuck at home with Handgelina Jergens & Mrs. Palmer :skip:

Childless women are now even fussier and harder to bag and top tier men are being harassed into lowering their standards to fit the “simp” mentality of the masses.

Everybody mad.
 

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I've never met a stepfather and I cant remember the last time anyone let me know they were a stepchild. That's probably why this is just "internet" shyt. I'd laugh at any of my friends or family if I heard they were seriously dating a single mother and they would probably laugh at me too
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