Why do men give up on love so fast?

[InDePickWest]

Your view on men and what is it to be a man is as twisted as some of these coli nikka's views on women. Ironic since you said you grew up with a bunch of dudes.

I'm a realist

 

[Ronnie Macho]

It's kinda like this.

Most, not all, but most men were raised to believe women were these angelic, flawless creatures. And we believed we had to be on top of our shyt, basically be the best man we could be in order to attract the best woman.
When that first inevitable betrayal comes, it literally shakes the foundation of a man. You learn that everything you thought women were is a lie. You learn how selfish and cold and callous a woman can be when you no longer have her favor.
Then, the rules change.
You learn that you don't have to be the best man or really even be a good man. All you have to do is be a little bit more exciting and a little bit flashier than the dude she's with now. That's it. There's no honor or depth to it.
You learn that women are as simple as we are.
So we adapt.
We stop giving our all, because it wasn't going to matter anyway.
We stop being honest, because we learn that ya'll don't covet honesty.
We look out for ourselves, because it's what you would do in our situation.

That one woman who got the best of us, well she'll never know, nor would she care.

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This shyt needs to be sigged and stickied...saved this answer because no other answer could explain better...except maybe the first reply to this thread...

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[Scientific Playa]

And everyday I wake up celebratin' shyt, why?
Cause I just dodged a bullet from a crazy bytch

 

[Bondye Vodou]

cause some women are goat frauds. It ain't got nuttin to do with "love, this is what a lot of em truly want (not all but a lot):

1.) Status
2.) Money
3.) Good dikk
4) Nikka with Looks

N all you'll ever out their lying moufs is love this, love that.
Sad part is a nikka can have all dose things listed above n she'll still fukk the next nikka behind his back.

Now now fembo nazis & lipstick alley trolls calm down I'm not saying all women are like this but its hard to tell who is who sometimes.

 

[Diondon]

As a man you can't afford to be outchea in the streets nose wide open with regards to females
The possible L's can be astronomical and I'm not talking about just a broken heart
Like @Cat piss martini said, I've had the good luck, I would call it to see the foul dirt the most angelic women do
To be its quite simple, learn game or die

 

[jeh]

Not all men are players
Not all men are simps
Not all men are heartbreakers
Not all men fall in love quickly with every chick they meet

So on and so forth.

 

[1thouwow]

It's kinda like this.

Most, not all, but most men were raised to believe women were these angelic, flawless creatures. And we believed we had to be on top of our shyt, basically be the best man we could be in order to attract the best woman.
When that first inevitable betrayal comes, it literally shakes the foundation of a man. You learn that everything you thought women were is a lie. You learn how selfish and cold and callous a woman can be when you no longer have her favor.
Then, the rules change.
You learn that you don't have to be the best man or really even be a good man. All you have to do is be a little bit more exciting and a little bit flashier than the dude she's with now. That's it. There's no honor or depth to it.
You learn that women are as simple as we are.
So we adapt.
We stop giving our all, because it wasn't going to matter anyway.
We stop being honest, because we learn that ya'll don't covet honesty.
We look out for ourselves, because it's what you would do in our situation.

That one woman who got the best of us, well she'll never know, nor would she care.

 

[jeh]

And everyday I wake up celebratin' shyt, why?
Cause I just dodged a bullet from a crazy bytch

And then some big homie....I was talking this chick, and she asked me about my past relationships, saying do I still have some type of emotional connection with them, im like no. End of story. Once you out, im like this

Cause when you investing your time, and sharing things with people that are coming into your world you taking chances on your life. That's why folks can't heal. How men/women get into a new relationships with the flavor of the week, and still got feelings for their ex.

getting used and thrown away nah. mfers gon learn a woman want leave the nest until she got a new nest on deck....she aint letting go of that branch until she can grab another one.

Emotional unstable
Unstable living conditions/situations

No job or aint trying to further education

If you got a profile(on dating sites), and the join date of said profile is when BUSH was president


Always got to have something negative to say or add to the topic


Asking me for money for (hair, nails, clothes, phone bill misc..)

Period. Point blank. That's half the battle, I told my cousin the other day, breh you calling this chick wife cause she had you seed lol be easy. Cause as soon as something better come along, she giving you them paper's, walking papers cuz. Stop fukking with these no good trash chicks. Stay tight, stay sharp, keep your heart, and when she tripping......


we grown, take that puppy love high school shyt outta here

 

[MikelArteta]

As well when you've been fd over left for dead dissed and forgotten by a woman you loved, your not going to dive in as easily as before.


Like I said though there is nothing a woman can do to hurt me anymore, disappoint me yeah? But I'll never love a woman so much that I can't walk away and not look back if she disrespects me

 

[jeh]

As well when you've been fd over left for dead dissed and forgotten by a woman you loved, your not going to dive in as easily as before.


Like I said though there is nothing a woman can do to hurt me anymore, disappoint me yeah? But I'll never love a woman so much that I can't walk away and not look back if she disrespects me

 

[Turk]

Cuz "love " is some bullshyt. Its conditional and only based on what you have to offer a woman.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Even tho women are the ones made of emotions, men are the most unrealistic when it comes to the opposite sex. Most women know love=work. We know the nitty gritty ins and outs.

But men reside in a world of fantasy when it comes to women. For some their only teachers in intimacy is porn. So when faced with the reality that women are, oh I dunno, human, some can't handle it.

Not to mention the choices some are making in women. Oftentimes, men resent women so much for their initial choice in a chick, that they can't emotionally bounce back.

Then they go around trying to punish all women for their impaired judgement...

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Also add to the fact that most people are herd individuals and putting in work isn't a popular concept now a days.

Most subscribe to a culture of immediate gratification, resenting any sense of effort or responsibility needed to make something real work.

 

[StickStickly]

But men reside in a world of fantasy when it comes to women. For some their only teachers in intimacy is porn. So when faced with the reality that women are, oh I dunno, human, some can't handle it.
...

It's almost as if they bought into the Disney fantasy bs too.

 

[Warren Moon]

I still miss her