Why do men take child support so personally?

[EndDomination]

If they aren't going to be the ones taking care of the child?

 

[KinksandCoils]

Because it cuts into their pocket deep. It's a selfish mentality.

 

[Michael9100]

Women shouldn't have custody in the first place according to statistics...

 

[feelosofer]

The problem is that child support, has become punitive, rather than something meant to help the child/children. What compounds it is that, fathers who want custody of the children rarely get it.

 

[Lil Gangsta]

Why the fukk should a man who wants to be in his childrens life have to pay child support?

 

[DarrynCobretti]

Whats next we gon ask why someone takes being shot at so personally?
#clownquestionbro

 

[sayyestothis]

Why the fukk should a man who wants to be in his childrens life have to pay child support?

^^^exactly - as soon as you bring your child in the world your life should shift to them rather than you. People are so freaking selfish and demand their own happiness but quick to say f the happiness and development of my child...smh

 

[wet landscapes]

Why the fukk should a man who wants to be in his childrens life have to pay child support?

be in the childs life is a pretty vague concept
does that mean supporting the financial aspects 50%? Not trying to lead into an argument, I really don't know what that means
and being on child support is being in the childs life already, just with legal consequences following failure, or am I mistaken?

I feel for dudes tho, some of the things you hear are pretty sad
inequality is inequality and sometimes the way they treat dudes like they can just be alright with losing custody of their kids is really sad
men need to retire that "sow your wild oats" shyt, I feel like it's fukking over custody judgements

 

[Groanman]

Give her your sperm, she hands you a child support notice.
Give her your sperm, she aborts the seed because it's her body.
Another dude gives her his sperm, she insists that it's YOUR child.


Yep. That all seems fair.

 

[Silkk]

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

I'm married 4 kids... I got boys who pay support... its sad...

My boy was paying for stuff, taking the kids etc... they got into an argument then she sues for support and wins... He still does stuff for the kids...

The way I see it ... 50/50 custody should not include child support.
full custody support will depend on visitation...if its never, then cool .. take the max 20%... but if the father there, can be depended on 24/7 amd the only issue was the parents didnt work out then it should be less...

 

[BrehWyatt]

I'd take it personally if the child support I paid wasn't going toward supporting the child.

But in any event, I don't intend to find out. If I fukk around and put a kid on this earth, I'm there 24/7, whatever he or she needs.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Because it cuts into their pocket deep. It's a selfish mentality.

Not really. Its partially spiteful.

 

[the cac mamba]

If they aren't going to be the ones taking care of the child?

because according to the courts, the woman has first dibs on the kid

 

[KinksandCoils]

Not really. Its partially spiteful.

spiteful to financial support your child that you made