Why do men take child support so personally?

[fscballin]

^^^exactly - as soon as you bring your child in the world your life should shift to them rather than you. People are so freaking selfish and demand their own happiness but quick to say f the happiness and development of my child...smh

the way these white devils tell us we need to develop them?


that cac mentality

 

[fscballin]

"If they aren't going to be the ones taking care of the child?"

so explain why they should be sentenced to debtors jail/prison

 

[fscballin]

I have never understood it... It's like motherfukker you helped make the child At least support the lil motherfukker...

or what, the white man should imprison us?

yall let these cacs brainwash you

 

[fscballin]

Because most of the time they aren't around at all so they look at it like paying some random persons bills. That's the attitude I hear from people who pay child support and aren't in their kids lives at all.

just be happen we don't mass abort/murder the babies just because we not ready to be a parent

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

or what, the white man should imprison us?

yall let these cacs brainwash you

The fukk the white man got to do with nikkas taking care of they baby? fukk are you talking about b?... When did I say folks should go to jail?And I'm brainwashed how?

 

[fscballin]

Wanting to be in your child's life isn't enough.

why not

welfare queen state dependent mothers don't do sh*t for their kids. The state is basically the father.

 

[toomanydoses]

I'm 27 and dont have kids cause I'm responsible so I can't say I feel bad for friends that gotta pay CS. Im not against abortion (not to derail the thread), there are 7 billion ppl on the planet as it is now. Until all can have an OK quality of life then why add more especially if the parents aren't ready to be parents.

just be happen we don't mass abort/murder the babies just because we not ready to be a parent

 

[fscballin]

I'm 27 and dont have kids cause I'm responsible so I can't say I feel bad for friends that gotta pay CS. Im not against abortion (not to derail the thread), there are 7 billion ppl on the planet as it is now. Until all can have an OK quality of life then why add more especially if the parents aren't ready to be parents.

you can't determine who lives or dies breh... if men thought like that, you would call us all murderers. Women think like that, and they are called strong, courageous, persevering, etc

 

[BezO]

If they aren't going to be the ones taking care of the child?

Are you askin', if the man has little to no visitation, why does he have a problem with child support? Because he's frustrated by his lack of forethought.



Assumin' the father is not a deadbeat, I think the problems are:

The system is outdated. Dudes havin' their kids half the time & still payin' is a problem.

And the penalty... when a man can't afford to care for his kid, he goes to jail. When a women can't afford it, she gets help from the state.



As for women spendin' the money on themselves, I don't know about that one. Hard to say what dollar went where. You have to be fairly wealthy to pay enough to notice a woman spendin' your kid's money.

 

[fscballin]

The fukk the white man got to do with nikkas taking care of they baby? fukk are you talking about b?... When did I say folks should go to jail?And I'm brainwashed how?

we are talking about the child support process right?

you forgot that white people are involved in the process and that jail or prison can be a result


lets not get amnesia brehs

 

[wet landscapes]

I have no problems with it.

I just think child support payments should go on a debit card so you can track all expenditures.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

fukk you fakkit ass nikka

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

we are talking about the child support process right?

you forgot that white people are involved in the process and that jail or prison can be a result


lets not get amnesia brehs

Okay? All I said is I don't understand why folks don't wanna support they child... fukk is you whining about nikka?

 

[toomanydoses]

OK youbever heard of gun violence...... Do I need to go on. Your permise is faulty because your argument is theological in nature and we aren't talking about religion. Man has had the power to take and give life since the beginning of time.....

you can't determine who lives or dies breh... if men thought like that, you would call us all murderers. Women think like that, and they are called strong, courageous, persevering, etc

 

[fscballin]

OK youbever heard of gun violence...... Do I need to go on. Your permise is faulty because your argument is theological in nature and we aren't talking about religion. Man has had the power to take and give life since the beginning of time.....

and if n*ggaz wanted to start killing unborn babies by force the way women do, society would have have our black asses hanging like strange fruit from the east to the west