Why do men who actually get pu$$y (usually) respect women more than those who don’t?

[Benefited]

Yes,the more p*ssy you get and the more you disrespect women by getting it from outside sources. The more you realize how many good women you fukked over,just to lay up with these thots. Which brings you to the realization there are alot of good women out here,and guys like you are probably the reason there are so many "aint shyt women" and ho's out here.

Respect is probably a bad choice of words,as I was disrespecting plenty of women,while still respecting them. You probably are reffering to guys who hate women,trash them,and put them all in the same category.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I'm a generally upbeat positive dude who just happens to get some every once in a while.

But I treat women just like dudes, no special treatment or nothing but my normal somewhat friendly self

 

[Benefited]

Being Nice =/= respect

A lot of these so called nice guys, still treat women like sexual objects. They just think being "nice" entitles them to sex so they go through motions and it shows. Hence why they dont get the p*ssy most times.

Some dudes are more convincing, and these tend to be the ones called fukkboys.

Then there are guys who respect woman as people and since they do, they can get the p*ssy. Since they see women as more than sexual objects and have it easily available, they dont stress it.

Treating girls like the homie because p*ssy comes easily doesn't mean you respect women either. I got a homie who has a gang of female "friends",but only keeps them around long term if they are down to be part of the rotation and get fukked. Nice guy though,remembers there birthdays,calls to check up on them,will loan a few dollars etc.

I stop talking to a woman who just wants to be friends,that doesn't mean I only view women as sex objects. It just means I respect my self and I don't want to be forced to pretend I'm something I'm not,which is a friend and friend alone to women. After I scratch the itch and we fukk,then we can be friends.

I could say women who aren't fukking their male "friends" don't respect men,more than male "friends" don't respect female friends. Just by and large in general.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

To further add to this thread, there are a lot of women who think a man being an a$$hole/disrespectful as a sign of being masculine and view men who are nice as weak. You think a respectful man is going to be able to pull a woman who thinks like this "I want a nicca that can check me". She will dismiss homie real quick. These women will eventually go to appreciate a man that treat them well but the emotional baggage they carry from dating disrespectful is going to be a lot to deal you.

Also a guy that's too respectful is going to be afraid to be too forward about his intentions of fukking which leads to him getting less p*ssy lol.

 

[King Eros]

Being a p*ssy magnet is not about RESPECTING women in general...

Because all women aren't deserving of respect.

It's about not being ANGRY towards women. Which a lot of dudes are.

They can feel that energy.


With that anger, you can't even joke and keep it lighthearted and playful with a female you're attracted to (which they love).

Instead, you come off thirsty and edgy. You're the dude when she says "no thanks", you call her a bytch.

You should have a general respect for ANYONE when you first meet them. As you should demand it for yourself. The deeper level of respect are earned.

So it's really about resolving your anger towards women moreso than respecting them.

 

[ignorethis]

To further add to this thread, there are a lot of women who think a man being an a$$hole/disrespectful as a sign of being masculine and view men who are nice as weak. You think a respectful man is going to be able to pull a woman who thinks like this "I want a nicca that can check me". She will dismiss homie real quick. These women will eventually go to appreciate a man that treat them well but the emotional baggage they carry from dating disrespectful is going to be a lot to deal you.

Also a guy that's too respectful is going to be afraid to be too forward about his intentions of fukking which leads to him getting less p*ssy lol.

Big facts

I've missed out on hella p*ssy trying to be reserved and respectful, because I never want to be the dude that oversteps boundaries and makes a woman uncomfortable. But the more dating experience I got the more I realized that women really only have boundaries for nikkas they aren't that attracted to.

And The phrase "take your kindness for weakness" was made with women in mind.

I've heard the "I need a nikka that can check me" from so many women including my best friend.

I had to tell my baby brother you rather have a woman say you're kinda an a$$hole rather than you're too nice, if you're trying to fukk.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Between all the recent “respect women” threads I figure I would share this since she just hit me.

Lmao last month I posted about how I was talking to a female who basically pulled me and made it clear that she wanted to fukk me.

I wasn’t pressed to fukk her so I was playing the cool calm respectful route, but the more I did that the more she would play games and low key try to play me.

I got annoyed and decided fukk it imma just get bold with her, if she is put off by it fukk it imma just bush her.

Once I stopped pretending I gave a fukk about her life, her family, etc. Let it be known I’m just trying to fukk you. And started to talk down condescending to her... she became super reactive and open. I basically told her when I was gonna come over and fukk and she cleared her schedule.

She didn’t want to be treated like a lady, all that respectful shyt I swear made her p*ssy dry. She wanted to be her true self, a hoe, with me.

Now I’ll be chilling browsing the Coli and she’ll just randomly hit me when she gets drunk or horny like this



Like I said I’ve gotten the “you’re a good man/you were raised right/you’ll be a good husband/your friends should be more like you” from dozen of women... none of those women gave me p*ssy except for one. In fact most of the time they would get ran through/fukked by one of my bros, the same ones they claim need to be more like me.

So you can’t take what women say at face value, just watch their actions and move accordingly.

Most broads today are told to fukk and have fun..

Treating them like they some old school,traditional women don't sit right with them.

Me personally I'm just a respectful dude..it's my nature.

When I was living and it was a broad I was with who ended up high amd nodded off...

I let her ass sleep, she got right..then left..then later said I was a bytch because I didn't fukk her. She's a hoe and is used to getting treated like a hoe. I didn't feel it was right to take advantage of her all high and shyt.




You gotta know the type of woman you're dealing with..

That 100% nice guy,be respectful shyt might work on the small population who are religious, and traditional...but for the average chick...nah

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Too much simping

If there's a downside then it would be a cost of some sort

A waste of time or a waste of money. These are the only real costs.. perhaps one could be physically hurt by "simping"... so that's another - unlikely - potential cost.

In my case I waste neither time nor money. Whatever I do to please them is largely stuff that pleases me too (making them cum if we're on that page, or simply sharing a laugh if it's only friendly)

Whatever 'simp' moves I make usually don't lead to losing (time money or health) soooo

It's never too much. Perhaps just enough.

BUT the bottom line is: I am enjoying them so it's a benefit to me

 

[semicko82]

If there's a downside then it would be a cost of some sort

A waste of time or a waste of money. These are the only real costs.. perhaps one could be physically hurt by "simping"... so that's another - unlikely - potential cost.

In my case I waste neither time nor money. Whatever I do to please them is largely stuff that pleases me too (making them cum if we're on that page, or simply sharing a laugh if it's only friendly)

Whatever 'simp' moves I make usually don't lead to losing (time money or health) soooo

It's never too much. Perhaps just enough.

BUT the bottom line is: I am enjoying them so it's a benefit to me

I feel you. Every straight male has their own way of attracting women. I guess that works for you.

 

[MMA]

Woman are more respectful and acknowledged about you when they want something out of you and knows it comes with a certain price

 

[Ohene]

i get a lot of p*ssy...dont think i respect women anymore
the more i rspect them the dumber they act. only a handful of women I know that i truly respect

 

[Ghost Utmost]

I feel you. Every straight male has their own way of attracting women. I guess that works for you.

It's not a tactic

When I was young they'd just come to me

And I would treat them like I treat them

And some would stick like glue

Just adding some color to the topic

 

[Serious]

i get a lot of p*ssy...dont think i respect women anymore
the more i rspect them the dumber they act. only a handful of women I know that i truly respect

I think the bigger issue isn't so much about respect as is that now you can see through their ways and fukked up games. Gotta deal with a better selection and higher tier women though.

 

[Ohene]

I think the bigger isn't so much about respect as is that now you can see through their ways and fukked up games. Gotta deal with a better selection and higher tier women though.

touche...but i can tell you right now everytime i tried to do things the right way with a chick, move at her pace , etc...not because i had an ulterior motive but because I genuinely liked the girl...shyt hit the fan one way or another. all of a sudden they become aloof, uninterested, "busy" etc.

but beyond that...one thing I've noticed is women generally have an "I dont owe you shyt " mentality while I have a moral "were all human beings so off the strength of that I owe you some respect, honesty...etc' sort of mentality.

if a girl likes you, she will respect you and treat you well. But if she doesnt know or like you like that...all bets are off. I've had girls And thats why I dont respect them. I treat them with respect because theyre humans and I'm naturally a nice guy but i dont respect them if that makes sense lol. Judge a person by how he/she treats (perceived) inferiors...not equals.

 

[kevm3]

Men who get the most women usually respect women LESS because they've seen behind the veil and know the tricks and tactics to bend women to their will. The main difference is they know how to publicly pander to women and make it seem like they are on their side to procure sex from them.