Why do men who actually get pu$$y (usually) respect women more than those who don’t?

[Gravity]

Does respecting women increase your chances of getting box?


Or does getting box increase how much you respect women?

You’re not really talking about respect, you’re talking about simping. Outside of the common decency that you should have for everyone, respect is earned. When people say “men should respect women”, they’re really saying men should put women on a pedestal.

If the question is “does putting women on a pedestal alone increase your success with women/Are the men who are successful with women the same men who put them on a pedestal?”, the answer is no. Men who put women in general on a pedestal just because they’re female aren’t even genuinely respected by women themselves because insecurity isn’t attractive. Men who are successful with women are good at making individual women feel special even when it’s a lie.

 

[Ciggavelli]

In my experience, being an a$$hole gets you more p*ssy and better looking girls. I’d cheat on them, not be available emotionally, be flaky and shyt, and p*ssy would just fall in my lap. It doesn’t make sense

I will say this though. When it comes to quality, all of the girls I was with that are the total package, I got by being sensitive, understanding and respectful. Those A1 girls don’t take games and bullshyt. I’m not just talking about looks. I mean looks, intelligence, personality...the total package.

So yeah, in my experience, you’ll get more p*ssy when you’re an a$$hole, but you’ll get better quality women by being respectful

 

[Bumblebreh]

The fastest way to get p*ssy is to be disrespectful. Men that don't get women are openly insecure and women simple don't like that

No the fastest way is to buy p*ssy.

 

[Bumblebreh]

In my experience, being an a$$hole gets you more p*ssy and better looking girls. I’d cheat on them, not be available emotionally, be flaky and shyt, and p*ssy would just fall in my lap. It doesn’t make sense

I will say this though. When it comes to quality, all of the girls I was with that are the total package, I got by being sensitive, understanding and respectful. Those A1 girls don’t take games and bullshyt. I’m not just talking about looks. I mean looks, intelligence, personality...the total package.

So yeah, in my experience, you’ll get more p*ssy when you’re an a$$hole, but you’ll get better quality women by being respectful

yeah being a rich,successful,good looking a$$hole that can offer clout.

 

[hayesc0]

I never get these coli generalizations. Plenty of women are in abusive relationships and plenty are in situations where men respect them it goes both ways lol.

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

I don't see any correlation between respecting women and getting p*ssy whatsoever.

How do yall think of this stuff.

 

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What you are referring to is the bitterness and resentment some NOT all of these dudes are exuding along with thirst in a lot of cases.

If u desperate for sex b/c u not getting any, ur energy is ENTIRELY different from dudes who are. This is also true for highly attractive men too. Men who are in command and very attractive on several levels are some of the most carefree types of guys around. Also some of the legitimately nicest dudes too. They not really slut-shaming or concerned about chicks body count. They not mad or resentful at women. None of the rules apply to them. Because they swimming in p*ssy and potential p*ssy. So they can afford to be nice and carefree.

Look at Jason Mamoa.

LMAO! This dude can obviously pull whoever, whenever. (That's ole girls's husband in that first pic. "It's Mr. Steal Yo Girl.")
You think Jason sitting around mad, seething about bytches and hoes and that shyt? HOHs for what? This dude literally married who the fukk he wanted even tho Lisa Bonet is like 20 years older than him. People be talking shyt talm bout why a fine dude didn't choose somebody younger? B/c he's Jason Mamoa. He is free to date, marry, impregnate anybody he chooses b/c he has nothing to prove. Ain't gotta be disrespectful or an a$$hole.

Some very attractive people are legitimate a$$holes. Others are sweet and have a totally different energy b/c they ain't got nothing to prove, so they can enjoy life and women instead of worrying about em. They not on edge or frustrated. And if they face rejection, they get over it. I can't envision Mustafa Shakir sitting around hating women. He too busy making chicks shiver in his presence.


Same thing goes with women too.

I respect your point, but in typical woman fashion, using celebrities to prove a point takes away credibility because we don't know these peoples lives. It's much better to use regular people you know as examples.

Still agree with you for the most part.

 

[Claudex]

Most broads today are told to fukk and have fun..

Treating them like they some old school,traditional women don't sit right with them.

Me personally I'm just a respectful dude..it's my nature.

When I was living and it was a broad I was with who ended up high amd nodded off...

I let her ass sleep, she got right..then left..then later said I was a bytch because I didn't fukk her. She's a hoe and is used to getting treated like a hoe. I didn't feel it was right to take advantage of her all high and shyt.




You gotta know the type of woman you're dealing with..

That 100% nice guy,be respectful shyt might work on the small population who are religious, and traditional...but for the average chick...nah

The hilarious part about the bolded is that, it (being 100% nice guy) only works on the religious and traditional type because those are often "ready" to sacrifice love and butterflies for a stable home, from an early age sometimes. So they'll consciously search and marry a man that won't give them too much work – this often includes a man that loves them enough to respect their every wish and not try to have too much sex with them – and that won't jeopardize their goals of building a solid/successful family (here read anything that will make their girlfriends jealous; vacations, a private school/pool, super smart children, etc...).

Except that sacrifice not only weights heavily on the relationship (when the wives don't feel a iota of love for their husbands; cause as the husband you feel it eventually) but it's also a sacrifice not all of those goal driven women can make in reality. That's when you get your religious and traditional soccer mum cheating on the husband with anybody really that can bring her the butterflies she thought she could fend off for "the greater good". From the priest/pastor to the pool boy.

So all in all, being a 100% nice guy is really mothers setting up their boys for failure.
Be respectful of others, but also be respectful to yourself. Niceness has a time and a place, just like everything else. That's how we should be raising children.

 

[Contrefaire]

It's not that they "respect women more" off GP or some shyt, it's that most of the ones you see being belligerent and outspoken about their hatred of women aren't getting any p*ssy. There are plenty of men who get p*ssy and still hate women. They just "put up with them" to get to the end goal, but because they mostly DO get to the end goal, they have no reason to spend too much time complaining about women on the internet.

On the other hand, you do have some dudes who have been with such a wide variety of women that they've seen enough differences in personalities and behaviors to not fall for or go around repeating the "all women are __" or "women only want __" and "bytches don't care about __" rhetoric that some of these dry dikked lames do.

But mostly, nikkas who get regular p*ssy are much less likely to be angry, bitter MFs in general so sitting around constantly vocally disrespecting or hating women is a pointless, time wasting exercise. As long as they get what they want outta women, they couldn't give a fukk what they do otherwise.

 

[Kings County]

Between all the recent “respect women” threads I figure I would share this since she just hit me.

Lmao last month I posted about how I was talking to a female who basically pulled me and made it clear that she wanted to fukk me.

I wasn’t pressed to fukk her so I was playing the cool calm respectful route, but the more I did that the more she would play games and low key try to play me.

I got annoyed and decided fukk it imma just get bold with her, if she is put off by it fukk it imma just bush her.

Once I stopped pretending I gave a fukk about her life, her family, etc. Let it be known I’m just trying to fukk you. And started to talk down condescending to her... she became super reactive and open. I basically told her when I was gonna come over and fukk and she cleared her schedule.

She didn’t want to be treated like a lady, all that respectful shyt I swear made her p*ssy dry. She wanted to be her true self, a hoe, with me.

Now I’ll be chilling browsing the Coli and she’ll just randomly hit me when she gets drunk or horny like this



Like I said I’ve gotten the “you’re a good man/you were raised right/you’ll be a good husband/your friends should be more like you” from dozen of women... none of those women gave me p*ssy except for one. In fact most of the time they would get ran through/fukked by one of my bros, the same ones they claim need to be more like me.

So you can’t take what women say at face value, just watch their actions and move accordingly.

somewhat accurate i feel like if u make bold statements like "i want u and im gonna have u" or "shut up before i come over there and make u" little things like that u can be respectful just make bold from left field comments women love excitement and nikkas with a little edge to them
u bring a chick flowers and open her door for her u might have a boring date and she bushes you, you coulda been nervous or whatever once she gets he vibe you're nice and predictable most women check out they want a challenge
you gotta activate her brain make her wanna unlock the mystery that is you
ive almost always got p*ssy the first day we met up if it was an online thing even chicks that want a relationship kinda start wanting sexual relationships because you've piqued her interest that much, once a woman is sexually attracted to your personality theres no going back, when u get in her presence look her in the eye, tell her how pretty she looks, touch her leg shes gonna want u after that first kiss its over u in there
its always right to let a girl know up front if u arent looking for a relationship that kinda helps so u dont fukk her up mentally she has to know what it is and what you're about the problems start to arise after u smash a few times, treat her amazing the feelings are deep then she hits u with the what are we or "we cant keep doing this make a decision"

 

[TheCPA]

I respect people no matter what and i don't approach women who let themselves treat with no respect, they're not worth the effort.

 

[Babymama Magnet]

What you are referring to is the bitterness and resentment some NOT all of these dudes are exuding along with thirst in a lot of cases.

If u desperate for sex b/c u not getting any, ur energy is ENTIRELY different from dudes who are. This is also true for highly attractive men too. Men who are in command and very attractive on several levels are some of the most carefree types of guys around. Also some of the legitimately nicest dudes too. They not really slut-shaming or concerned about chicks body count. They not mad or resentful at women. None of the rules apply to them. Because they swimming in p*ssy and potential p*ssy. So they can afford to be nice and carefree.

Look at Jason Mamoa.

LMAO! This dude can obviously pull whoever, whenever. (That's ole girls's husband in that first pic. "It's Mr. Steal Yo Girl.")
You think Jason sitting around mad, seething about bytches and hoes and that shyt? HOHs for what? This dude literally married who the fukk he wanted even tho Lisa Bonet is like 20 years older than him. People be talking shyt talm bout why a fine dude didn't choose somebody younger? B/c he's Jason Mamoa. He is free to date, marry, impregnate anybody he chooses b/c he has nothing to prove. Ain't gotta be disrespectful or an a$$hole.

Some very attractive people are legitimate a$$holes. Others are sweet and have a totally different energy b/c they ain't got nothing to prove, so they can enjoy life and women instead of worrying about em. They not on edge or frustrated. And if they face rejection, they get over it. I can't envision Mustafa Shakir sitting around hating women. He too busy making chicks shiver in his presence.

Same thing goes with women too.

Fellas.... read this post and apply it!!

 

[-deleted-]

Also, to play Devil’s Advocate, Women, who naturally have all the sexual options in the universe from the moment they are born, will never understand the frustration of a man who does not or is not naturally attractive. Hell, they’ll never understand the frustration of men who are naturally attractive. So while I entirely agree that hating women is NOT the way to go, at the same time women have ZERO idea how easy it is for any man to fall into that kind of energy. As men we are always judged by how much women we “have” so it’s easy to feel worthless if you’re not eating like you feel like you should.

Not saying women should try to understand dudes who hate women because it makes no difference but at least understand how easy it is for men to hate women.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

IF YOU TREAT WOMEN WITH RESPECT, THEY WILL GIVE YOU p*ssy

even if you don't mean it

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I respect your point, but in typical woman fashion, using celebrities to prove a point takes away credibility because we don't know these peoples lives. It's much better to use regular people you know as examples.

Still agree with you for the most part.

I gotcha but I see this play out in reality too. Some of my good male friends are legit beautiful. Inside and out. The type of corny sweet that a lot of ya'll criticize. I was in Canada and I guess I underestimated the cold. Dude looked at me, rolled his eyes and took his jacket off and bundled me up like a 3 year old. He could have ran thru me and every female in our circle.
Dude had a herd of male frienemies who was ALWAYS hating but he is one of the sweetest dudes ever.

I learn so much about male dynamics from these dudes. I never really thought about how a good man can make enemies JUST by being real or successful. I used to think that was some catty female shyt. Nope.

But I digress. Their energy is completely different as men, b/c I've known some other dudes too. They talk to me about their frustrations with chicks and I can tell they make women uncomfortable.

It would be easy to say this is just about looks but it's not. Sure looks can be a cheat card but there are men out there who would not be every woman's cup of tea, but the way they make you feel is indescribable. Magnetic. Calming yet energizing at the same time. Men have that power and when they tap into it, they ain't gotta be pressed, or be a$$holes, or nasty or hateful. Life ain't easy, but they not stressed.