Why do men who actually get pu$$y (usually) respect women more than those who don’t?

[Lweezy]

I think the resentment comes from the games women play. If you know you dont like a dude then let him know. Dont lead him on just to boost your ego.Dont collect orbiters for your attention fix.

A lot of these narcissistic women cannot lock down the top men, so they are content to just be fvcked..However there is still a void and this is where the nice guys come in.

The nice guys serve a purpose.. That being to act as emotional tampons and feed the female narcissist the shot of attention she needs on a daily basis.

And anyone that downplays consistent rejection hasnt been through it. Obviously most women havent been through it.

Especially the kind of rejection that comes at the end of a 3 month string along or however long nice guys get played..

Sorry to say but there is a price to pay for rejection. If you string a guy along for months then turn around fvck a different guy after 10 minutes that will result in rage fuel for Mr nice guy.

You lose your right to call someone entitled when you play these games. Make one guy take you out on dates and jump 50 hoops while a different guy gets the box asap. One guy has a 50 line list of demands to meet while the other guy none.

In and of itself misogny is not a thing..Not a bad thing that is or at least it doesnt have to be. You as an average man cannot afford to be naive towards women and if even a little bit of misogyny pulls the wool from your eyes then it serves your interest. So long as you dont go George Sodini on anyone.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Guess I gotta learn how to tap into that power. I used to be in that woman-hating phase, but after a while of understanding women I get why you all do the things you do. At this point, after being battle-scarred, I have a very aloof mentality towards them, to the point I don’t really want to deal with women right now, because I’m not at the level where I want to be in life. So yeah, while I personally don’t disrespect women, these days I’m not inclined to shoot my shot anymore. Besides, if a woman likes you and wants you she will make it known these days, so no sense in shooting for it when I’m not even where I’d like to be yet (looks, finances, etc.) even though I am working on being more sociable.

It’s kinda boring, but I totally get it. If you want a woman to be attracted to you you have to give her something to be attracted to. Personality can only get you so far. So now I’m just living life woman-less, but at some point when everything is decent then I’ll put myself out there again.

It ain't completely all you tho b/c I've been running into some female birdbrain recently that made me go "yeah if I had to deal with u, I'd hate chicks".

I'm talm bout some INSUFFERABLE bytches. Jesus Christ.

 

[Lweezy]

Guess I gotta learn how to tap into that power. I used to be in that woman-hating phase, but after a while of understanding women I get why you all do the things you do. At this point, after being battle-scarred, I have a very aloof mentality towards them, to the point I don’t really want to deal with women right now, because I’m not at the level where I want to be in life. So yeah, while I personally don’t disrespect women, these days I’m not inclined to shoot my shot anymore. Besides, if a woman likes you and wants you she will make it known these days, so no sense in shooting for it when I’m not even where I’d like to be yet (looks, finances, etc.) even though I am working on being more sociable.

It’s kinda boring, but I totally get it. If you want a woman to be attracted to you you have to give her something to be attracted to. Personality can only get you so far. So now I’m just living life woman-less, but at some point when everything is decent then I’ll put myself out there again.

Nope... You lost. You werent born with it. Cannot be taught. The older you are the truer this is. Money will only help you in a sugar daddy arrangement. You are not select..my condolences.

She made a comment about how that guy could have ran thru her and all her female friends...

He prolly already did. Women will tell on themselves. You just have to pay attention.

While that one guy is running through her/ entire circle the other guys are stuck on the sidelines. This is female nature. This is where that male anger comes from. Anger btw, that is natural and inevitable.

No non select man is suppose to be happy about this when hes on the losing end. It is male nature to "be a hater" and gemmed up about not getting the women you want. Whats not natural is pretending to take the high road while in reality you are seething inside.

 

[Wiles]

You can be hoh still respect women..

 

[semicko82]

Nope... You lost. You werent born with it. Cannot be taught. The older you are the truer this is. Money will only help you in a sugar daddy arrangement. You are not select..my condolences.

She made a comment about how that guy could have ran thru her and all her female friends...

He prolly already did. Women will tell on themselves. You just have to pay attention.

While that one guy is running through her/ entire circle the other guys are stuck on the sidelines. This is female nature. This is where that male anger comes from. Anger btw, that is natural and inevitable.

No non select man is suppose to be happy about this when hes on the losing end. It is male nature to "be a hater" and gemmed up about not getting the women you want. Whats not natural is pretending to take the high road while in reality you are seething inside.

Hammer on nail

 

[1thouwow]

Mind games.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

So men who are inferior to these men should commit suicide, since they'll always be inferior, logically

I don't believe in levels. I've known dudes who looked like Biggie who had a never ending flow of p*ssy. They just make people feel good being around them. The ambiance you create around you can sometimes determine who is in ur circle.

Lmao! The shyt is hard to explain and people will look at a dude and underestimate him but if he got that energy, it is what it is. Yeah looking like Mustafa helps. Hell, having Trump money does too.

But there are those who ain't got nothing like that, but they play to their strengths, are comfortable in their own skin and people enjoy being around them. They don't simp or try to buy love or bully their way into the p*ssy. They not sleezebags or selling dreams either.

Sometimes attractive doesn't mean money or looks. Sometimes it's about charisma. Ur conversation. The energy you exude. How you carry urself.

 

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Nope... You lost. You werent born with it. Cannot be taught. The older you are the truer this is. Money will only help you in a sugar daddy arrangement. You are not select..my condolences.

She made a comment about how that guy could have ran thru her and all her female friends...

He prolly already did. Women will tell on themselves. You just have to pay attention.

While that one guy is running through her/ entire circle the other guys are stuck on the sidelines. This is female nature. This is where that male anger comes from. Anger btw, that is natural and inevitable.

No non select man is suppose to be happy about this when hes on the losing end. It is male nature to "be a hater" and gemmed up about not getting the women you want. Whats not natural is pretending to take the high road while in reality you are seething inside.

Yeah right. This is where I call bullshyt. shyt ain’t that serious, either you vibe with someone or not. It’s just a matter of controlling your charisma. Every dude can do what she’s referring to, it’s not a you got it or you don’t thing.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I gotcha but I see this play out in reality too. Some of my good male friends are legit beautiful. Inside and out. The type of corny sweet that a lot of ya'll criticize. I was in Canada and I guess I underestimated the cold. Dude looked at me, rolled his eyes and took his jacket off and bundled me up like a 3 year old. He could have ran thru me and every female in our circle.
Dude had a herd of male frienemies who was ALWAYS hating but he is one of the sweetest dudes ever.

I learn so much about male dynamics from these dudes. I never really thought about how a good man can make enemies JUST by being real or successful. I used to think that was some catty female shyt. Nope.

But I digress. Their energy is completely different as men, b/c I've known some other dudes too. They talk to me about their frustrations with chicks and I can tell they make women uncomfortable.

It would be easy to say this is just about looks but it's not. Sure looks can be a cheat card but there are men out there who would not be every woman's cup of tea, but the way they make you feel is indescribable. Magnetic. Calming yet energizing at the same time. Men have that power and when they tap into it, they ain't gotta be pressed, or be a$$holes, or nasty or hateful. Life ain't easy, but they not stressed.

A breh who can get women easily if he tried, but doesn't really put in effort to be a p*ssy hound brings out some hating ass dudes

 

[Neuromancer]

I don't believe in levels. I've known dudes who looked like Biggie who had a never ending flow of p*ssy. They just make people feel good being around them. The ambiance you create around you can sometimes determine who is in ur circle.

Lmao! The shyt is hard to explain and people will look at a dude and underestimate him but if he got that energy, it is what it is. Yeah looking like Mustafa helps. Hell, having Trump money does too.

But there are those who ain't got nothing like that, but they play to their strengths, are comfortable in their own skin and people enjoy being around them. They don't simp or try to buy love or bully their way into the p*ssy. They not sleezebags or selling dreams either.

Sometimes attractive doesn't mean money or looks. Sometimes it's about charisma. Ur conversation. The energy you exude. How you carry urself.

How does one get over the bitterness caused by a lack of?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

A breh who can get women easily if he tried, but doesn't really put in effort to be a p*ssy hound brings out some hating ass dudes

I've seen it first hand. Even talked to a guy I watched cockblock his "homie".
Dude legit asked a chick why she would want a guy like him.

Girl looked at him with the face and STILL proceeded to sleep with his homeboy.

I'm like how you do ur friend like that. Dude said "he's an a$$hole!" I'm like "that's between him and her tho?!"
I lie to u not, his homeboy was one of the chillest people alive.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I don't believe in levels. I've known dudes who looked like Biggie who had a never ending flow of p*ssy. They just make people feel good being around them. The ambiance you create around you can sometimes determine who is in ur circle.

Lmao! The shyt is hard to explain and people will look at a dude and underestimate him but if he got that energy, it is what it is. Yeah looking like Mustafa helps. Hell, having Trump money does too.

But there are those who ain't got nothing like that, but they play to their strengths, are comfortable in their own skin and people enjoy being around them. They don't simp or try to buy love or bully their way into the p*ssy. They not sleezebags or selling dreams either.

Sometimes attractive doesn't mean money or looks. Sometimes it's about charisma. Ur conversation. The energy you exude. How you carry urself.

Yup.

It's just your natural self...i've had a homie say "I don't know why but I feel better when I see you". Have had people I didn't know at the park , who went to get up and asked me to watch their stuff without knowing me for more than 5minutes.

It's like people who say they feel the holy spirit or whatever in some people.

 

[Blackout]

Lol you clearly don’t know any real playas if you saying this bullshyt.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Yeah right. This is where I call bullshyt. shyt ain’t that serious, either you vibe with someone or not. It’s just a matter of controlling your charisma. Every dude can do what she’s referring to, it’s not a you got it or you don’t thing.

A true nice person you can tell, between someone who is faking nice to get something out of someone.

It's like that elliot rodgers kid...dude looked decent, and had money..but i'm sure he came across as a malicious a$$hole and got no play.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Y'all putting too much thought into this. The only time you should respect anyone is when they have earned your respect and not a moment sooner. But at the end of the day, you don't have to play these games if you have something the woman desires.