Why do men who actually get pu$$y (usually) respect women more than those who don’t?

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I gotcha but I see this play out in reality too. Some of my good male friends are legit beautiful. Inside and out. The type of corny sweet that a lot of ya'll criticize. I was in Canada and I guess I underestimated the cold. Dude looked at me, rolled his eyes and took his jacket off and bundled me up like a 3 year old. He could have ran thru me and every female in our circle.
Dude had a herd of male frienemies who was ALWAYS hating but he is one of the sweetest dudes ever.

I learn so much about male dynamics from these dudes. I never really thought about how a good man can make enemies JUST by being real or successful. I used to think that was some catty female shyt. Nope.

But I digress. Their energy is completely different as men, b/c I've known some other dudes too. They talk to me about their frustrations with chicks and I can tell they make women uncomfortable.

It would be easy to say this is just about looks but it's not. Sure looks can be a cheat card but there are men out there who would not be every woman's cup of tea, but the way they make you feel is indescribable. Magnetic. Calming yet energizing at the same time. Men have that power and when they tap into it, they ain't gotta be pressed, or be a$$holes, or nasty or hateful. Life ain't easy, but they not stressed.

Guess I gotta learn how to tap into that power. I used to be in that woman-hating phase, but after a while of understanding women I get why you all do the things you do. At this point, after being battle-scarred, I have a very aloof mentality towards them, to the point I don’t really want to deal with women right now, because I’m not at the level where I want to be in life. So yeah, while I personally don’t disrespect women, these days I’m not inclined to shoot my shot anymore. Besides, if a woman likes you and wants you she will make it known these days, so no sense in shooting for it when I’m not even where I’d like to be yet (looks, finances, etc.) even though I am working on being more sociable.

It’s kinda boring, but I totally get it. If you want a woman to be attracted to you you have to give her something to be attracted to. Personality can only get you so far. So now I’m just living life woman-less, but at some point when everything is decent then I’ll put myself out there again.

 

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But overall guys, just treat them with the same respect you’d treat anyone, regardless if you get to have sex with them or not. I get it, trust me I do, but at the end of the day... sexual desires aren’t that big a deal.

 

[semicko82]

Also, to play Devil’s Advocate, Women, who naturally have all the sexual options in the universe from the moment they are born, will never understand the frustration of a man who does not or is not naturally attractive. Hell, they’ll never understand the frustration of men who are naturally attractive. So while I entirely agree that hating women is NOT the way to go, at the same time women have ZERO idea how easy it is for any man to fall into that kind of energy. As men we are always judged by how much women we “have” so it’s easy to feel worthless if you’re not eating like you feel like you should.

Not saying women should try to understand dudes who hate women because it makes no difference but at least understand how easy it is for men to hate women.

Yup a person born into wealth will never understand what its like being on skid row.

 

[semicko82]

Guess I gotta learn how to tap into that power. I used to be in that woman-hating phase, but after a while of understanding women I get why you all do the things you do. At this point, after being battle-scarred, I have a very aloof mentality towards them, to the point I don’t really want to deal with women right now, because I’m not at the level where I want to be in life. So yeah, while I personally don’t disrespect women, these days I’m not inclined to shoot my shot anymore. Besides, if a woman likes you and wants you she will make it known these days, so no sense in shooting for it when I’m not even where I’d like to be yet (looks, finances, etc.) even though I am working on being more sociable.

It’s kinda boring, but I totally get it. If you want a woman to be attracted to you you have to give her something to be attracted to. Personality can only get you so far. So now I’m just living life woman-less, but at some point when everything is decent then I’ll put myself out there again.

What makes one a woman hater? Pimps are the biggest woman haters and still get play.

 

[Reality]

Yes,the more p*ssy you get and the more you disrespect women by getting it from outside sources. The more you realize how many good women you fukked over,just to lay up with these thots. Which brings you to the realization there are alot of good women out here,and guys like you are probably the reason there are so many "aint shyt women" and ho's out here.

Respect is probably a bad choice of words,as I was disrespecting plenty of women,while still respecting them. You probably are reffering to guys who hate women,trash them,and put them all in the same category.

This. Respect is a bad word - it's more like sympathizing with their condition

It's like watching a small child cry, throw a tantrum, or act selfishly - to a person that understands the nature of childhood, this is a situation that elicits neither contempt nor vitriol. you simply understand the situation and, depending on the situation, potentially even sympathize with the child

I have female friends who consistently chase the opposite of what they say they want. I don't get angry or chastise them though. I simply understand.

When you've been the chased, been the guy that's been chosen when there are more respectful / commitment-ready / emotionally available options, how can you hate the woman you're laying up with - the one that chose you - with without hating yourself?

 

[Prince Mongo]

What you are referring to is the bitterness and resentment some NOT all of these dudes are exuding along with thirst in a lot of cases.

If u desperate for sex b/c u not getting any, ur energy is ENTIRELY different from dudes who are. This is also true for highly attractive men too. Men who are in command and very attractive on several levels are some of the most carefree types of guys around. Also some of the legitimately nicest dudes too. They not really slut-shaming or concerned about chicks body count. They not mad or resentful at women. None of the rules apply to them. Because they swimming in p*ssy and potential p*ssy. So they can afford to be nice and carefree.

Look at Jason Mamoa.

LMAO! This dude can obviously pull whoever, whenever. (That's ole girls's husband in that first pic. "It's Mr. Steal Yo Girl.")
You think Jason sitting around mad, seething about bytches and hoes and that shyt? HOHs for what? This dude literally married who the fukk he wanted even tho Lisa Bonet is like 20 years older than him. People be talking shyt talm bout why a fine dude didn't choose somebody younger? B/c he's Jason Mamoa. He is free to date, marry, impregnate anybody he chooses b/c he has nothing to prove. Ain't gotta be disrespectful or an a$$hole.

Some very attractive people are legitimate a$$holes. Others are sweet and have a totally different energy b/c they ain't got nothing to prove, so they can enjoy life and women instead of worrying about em. They not on edge or frustrated. And if they face rejection, they get over it. I can't envision Mustafa Shakir sitting around hating women. He too busy making chicks shiver in his presence.

Same thing goes with women too.

I gotcha but I see this play out in reality too. Some of my good male friends are legit beautiful. Inside and out. The type of corny sweet that a lot of ya'll criticize. I was in Canada and I guess I underestimated the cold. Dude looked at me, rolled his eyes and took his jacket off and bundled me up like a 3 year old. He could have ran thru me and every female in our circle.
Dude had a herd of male frienemies who was ALWAYS hating but he is one of the sweetest dudes ever.

I learn so much about male dynamics from these dudes. I never really thought about how a good man can make enemies JUST by being real or successful. I used to think that was some catty female shyt. Nope.

But I digress. Their energy is completely different as men, b/c I've known some other dudes too. They talk to me about their frustrations with chicks and I can tell they make women uncomfortable.

It would be easy to say this is just about looks but it's not. Sure looks can be a cheat card but there are men out there who would not be every woman's cup of tea, but the way they make you feel is indescribable. Magnetic. Calming yet energizing at the same time. Men have that power and when they tap into it, they ain't gotta be pressed, or be a$$holes, or nasty or hateful. Life ain't easy, but they not stressed.

So men who are inferior to these men should commit suicide, since they'll always be inferior, logically

 

[Prince Mongo]

On my life, some of y'all who claim to get all these hoes be sounding real creepy and lame with all this scientific theory sounding ass shyt about how to talk to females

 

[semicko82]

This. Respect is a bad word - it's more like sympathizing with their condition

It's like watching a small child cry, throw a tantrum, or act selfishly - to a person that understands the nature of childhood, this is a situation that elicits neither contempt nor vitriol. you simply understand the situation and, depending on the situation, potentially even sympathize with the child

I have female friends who consistently chase the opposite of what they say they want. I don't get angry or chastise them though. I simply understand.

When you've been the chased, been the guy that's been chosen when there are more respectful / commitment-ready / emotionally available options, how can you hate the woman you're laying up with - the one that chose you - with without hating yourself?

Low esteem will make you hate yourself, when its better options available

 

[010101]

her physical follows her mental

unless she is retarded she will not seek disrespect

i command respect & when it is given i return it equally

when you giving a female mental.jewelry & squeezing the juice out her puzzy that love is forever

i'll always have a connection on some level based on the fact i keep it real on every level

that wannabe iceberg.slim bs is repulsive

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[King Jae]

....Simple....they ppl...not just body parts...once they see u not just bout p*ssy and they actually like u they open up more...over the years more than a handful of chix have said "I don't know why I'm telling u this, u just make me feel comfortable" in some variation...most chix that ain't on bullshyt just want a cool dude to kick it with...somebody that they can have fun with and learn shyt from....most of the times when u put a "woman" not girl up on game they appreciate u...they say that shyt is refreshing cuz most dudes convo consists of " so what position u like"....easiest way to fukk a woman is to not talk bout sex like that...if u do, do it sparingly and in passing....not the center of convo....she wants the dikk...she's not naive..she knows why ur talking to her...she likes to fukk just as much as u do...u can't hate what u are trying to pursue...ur energy gonna be all off...works for a lot dudes tho...p*ssy ain't the be all end all of life...once u have dealt with enough women u will realize this...

 

[T'krm]

like attracts like

fukk.bois that adhere to "savage" principles be fukking with the lowest of the low

treating broads like trash because they are trash

creating opps & putting dirt on they rep

it's better to keep it cool & just that way all these women praise your name in the streets

the only thing she should be able to say is he's real



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I do agree that the OP's opinion is somewhat of a 'simp tale', but this is somewhat facts, too; bc most of those women getting wit these dudes ain't, shyt themselves, & wouldn't see it for a 'nice guy', anyways! Depends on what you what in terms of quality vs quantity..

 

[010101]

I do agree that the OP's opinion is somewhat of a 'simp narrative', but this is somewhat facts, too; bc most of those women getting wit these ain't shyt themselves, & wouldn't see it for a 'nice guy', anyways! Depends on what you what in terms of quality vs quantity..

thing is it's not about being nice

it's about embodying the truth

cats think in the frame of keeping a dominant position over females by lightweight abusing them verbally & emotionally

that's some hoeish insecure shyte

i show love to who i deem worth it not in hope to keep them but because it pleases me

because i am not trying to stay one up on a broad or
cuff



like the stars that fill the heavens i give light not for the sake of others but simply because it's my nature to

females come & enjoy my light of their own volition

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[T'krm]

Between all the recent “respect women” threads I figure I would share this since she just hit me.

Lmao last month I posted about how I was talking to a female who basically pulled me and made it clear that she wanted to fukk me.

I wasn’t pressed to fukk her so I was playing the cool calm respectful route, but the more I did that the more she would play games and low key try to play me.

I got annoyed and decided fukk it imma just get bold with her, if she is put off by it fukk it imma just bush her.

Once I stopped pretending I gave a fukk about her life, her family, etc. Let it be known I’m just trying to fukk you. And started to talk down condescending to her... she became super reactive and open. I basically told her when I was gonna come over and fukk and she cleared her schedule.

She didn’t want to be treated like a lady, all that respectful shyt I swear made her p*ssy dry. She wanted to be her true self, a hoe, with me.

Now I’ll be chilling browsing the Coli and she’ll just randomly hit me when she gets drunk or horny like this



Like I said I’ve gotten the “you’re a good man/you were raised right/you’ll be a good husband/your friends should be more like you” from dozen of women... none of those women gave me p*ssy except for one. In fact most of the time they would get ran through/fukked by one of my bros, the same ones they claim need to be more like me.

So you can’t take what women say at face value, just watch their actions and move accordingly.

Very true.
Same time, some ppl are just bad at reading signals, and still attempt to 'Longs walk on the beach' types on ig & pof bend over, or showing off their tongue ring in the profile pics

 

[Lweezy]

I wouldn't say that they respect women more. If a guy is getting his then that's all he cares about for the most part. A lot of dudes will be quicker to make fun of a dude that doesn't get women rather than help them.

That's why men that previously were invisible to women can go from "women only like thugs and bad boys" to "if you can't get women the problem is you" once they finally find a woman that wants them.

Getting women doesn't have much to do with respect. A lot of men that get women damn sure aren't respecting them. Having looks, status, money and being interesting to be around all are more important than actually respecting women. A lot of these dudes that simp and defend women every chance they get would be sounding a lot like the "incels" that people like to make fun of if they weren't getting any attention from women. It's phony and not truly about having respect for women. If people really want to see who respects women then have all women close their legs and then we would see what's real.

 

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What makes one a woman hater? Pimps are the biggest woman haters and still get play.

Frustration stemming from not having women giving him sex or even liking him enough to give him the time of day. Pimps aren’t women haters. They understand and value women because they earn them money.

Life is too short to hate anyone, however. Except for yourself.