Why do online dating has a low success rate for men

[Lweezy]

Truth is a lot of men are not getting laid, while a lot of women are getting played. Eventually there will be a meet point as women become less delusional as they get older. I get attractive matches in Tinder but it feels like I have to jump another layer to keep their attention lol.

Social media has made dating hard for young men in general. Same women will be single months later.

I met this fine girl on Tinder, everything is going great...She tells how her ex had a whole bunch of women and how she was tired of games. I would have cuffed..lol I got the run around..months later she is single.

Social media and woman's ability to sex up had made it hard for average male.

Major red flag. She told on herself

 

[Big Simpin Losing Cheese]

I don't date. And online dating... yeah ok.

Just an opinion, the ratio of male to female imo is off balance for instance take IG as an example you got like 50 - 100+ [estimated guess] blowing a chicks DM's out of that set of guys you might have 2-3 guys that get a response back.

So it's probably the same shyt on POF, Tagged, & Tinder you get a select few bad women but hundreds of guys trying to shoot their shot. Then there are the women who are bisexual so that's a whole other level to deal with.

What you mean by that

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I miss the age when using Tinder was like ordering a pizza, but for p*ssy. It still is in some aspects but it's not the same

Online in the 90s was
If I knew what I knew now I would have just been straight up tricking on mocospace for a good time

 

[null]

Because that's how aggregated markets work. Race to the *ahem* "bottom"

 

[The Fade]

Y’all need to hop on Facebook dating before they fukk up the algorithm like Tinder

If you spend a good 5 mins swiping you will get hella matches

 

[shutterguy]

Creeps and lames got the block hot.

 

[SNG]

I eat off online dating. It's how you sell yourself on there take good picture and make an outlandish profile. I met my new chick off Tinder so can't say you can't meet someone fof there.

 

[Balla]

I had accounts on POF, Christian Mingle & BlackPeopleMeet....didn't pay, and haven't used them yet, because I revised my dating/relationship goals.

With POF & CM, I was surprised at the amount of black women who said NO BLACK MEN/some pun with vanilla/chocolate on their profile

Likewise, on BPM I was blown away at the amount of white/Spanish women on a site called Black People Meet

C00n wenches still doing that today

fukk em

 

[Balla]

I eat off online dating. It's how you sell yourself on there take good picture and make an outlandish profile. I met my new chick off Tinder so can't say you can't meet someone fof there.

Outlandish like what? What are good pictures?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I've had a total of 4 matches on Tinder after 2 years and 2 were bots

 

[Json]

Cause women don’t actually need Tinder.


Most cities aren’t the size of NY or Chicago whet you get so many people plus tourist to choose from.

Most cities, a woman would run into the guy they would sleep with off Tinder in the the grocery store or at a library. They usually just aren’t in the mood.

 

[Nobu]

Root cause: from an evolutionary perspective, Men are naturally less choosy about where we spread our seed because having a baby is less of an investment vs women who have to carry for 9 months and be primary caregiver.

This theory is backed up by the fact that women rate men's looks more harshly than men judge women. Men find a wider range of women attractive than vice versa.

Plus, according to some studies, men have a higher sex drive. Testosterone is a helluva drug.

 

[Crude]

Women are more selective online because their mailboxes are flooded with messages.

Quoted for emphasis.

Men tend to go after what they can fukk easy.

Women that have use a dating site to begin with are likely using it because they aren't getting a lot of action in settings outside the internet. Not always the case, but most of the time it is.

It's a lot easier to be selective when you have an inbox with dozens of messages especially amongst ladies that aren't accustomed to getting that kind of attention.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Go from being weirdos in chat rooms..
To being a weirdo if you don’t have social media..
If I could go back in time..
I would be the black Biff Tannen

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Go from being weirdos in chat rooms..
To being a weirdo if you don’t have social media..
If I could go back in time..
I would be the black Biff Tannen

If you’re a fly dude and tell em you ain’t on any of that then it’s a turn on. The mysterious cat makes a return.