Why do online dating has a low success rate for men

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I do pretty good online. But in this day in age you have an advantage if your approaching girls in the real world. Dating apps should only be a supplement and not the main way in approaching girls.
 
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Casual sex:

Men = lower their standards
Women = raise their standards

Why? Historically if a woman got knocked up before she was married, there would be no way to prove who the daddy is. She and her family would be stuck raising some random brehs offspring if he bounced. A woman wasn't going to risk some casual dyck unless it was "worth it."

Men - because of this, we need either incredible looks/money/power/mouth piece or the flexibility to lower our standards a little to get that casual puzzy. That's why hookers and thots of all shapes and sizes can make good money but only Mens Health magazine models with extra eggplant could make regular cash off lots of women just using their bodies.
 

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I had accounts on POF, Christian Mingle & BlackPeopleMeet....didn't pay, and haven't used them yet, because I revised my dating/relationship goals.

With POF & CM, I was surprised at the amount of black women who said NO BLACK MEN/some pun with vanilla/chocolate on their profile:picard:

Likewise, on BPM I was blown away at the amount of white/Spanish women on a site called Black People Meet:picard:

They’re probably hookers if I’m up to speed on my e-hoe terminology.
 

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Because it's wide open for everyone including lames who wouldn't talk to a woman in real life.. so the field gets crowded giving women too many options and making them super picky.

The women choose up and ignore the men that are actually in their league.
The average man can still eat you just won't get the quality of woman you can get offline.
 

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Truth is a lot of men are not getting laid, while a lot of women are getting played. Eventually there will be a meet point as women become less delusional as they get older. I get attractive matches in Tinder but it feels like I have to jump another layer to keep their attention lol.

Social media has made dating hard for young men in general. Same women will be single months later.

I met this fine girl on Tinder, everything is going great...She tells how her ex had a whole bunch of women and how she was tired of games. I would have cuffed..lol I got the run around..months later she is single.

Social media and woman's ability to sex up had made it hard for average male.
 
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