Why do online dating has a low success rate for men

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I miss the age when using Tinder was like ordering a pizza, but for p*ssy. It still is in some aspects but it's not the same
The online game in general really is nothing like it once was.
Bytches don't even fill in their bios no more it's just them promoting their IG and they rarely see a convo through to the end even be deleting their profile on me mid convo :mjcry:.
 
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Because it's wide open for everyone including lames who wouldn't talk to a woman in real life.. so the field gets crowded giving women too many options and making them super picky.

The women choose up and ignore the men that are actually in their league.
The average man can still eat you just won't get the quality of woman you can get offline.

Yep. Women want equality with men when it comes to sex but they are way pickier. Women won't settle for an ugly breh with top shelf pipe game (not for casual sex) so good looking dudes run through them. Women have an advantage but give all the leverage away to pretty dudes. A man that's a 4 will run through a buffet of 2s and 3s. A woman that's a 4 will hold out for a 6 or 7. Sexual level doesn't equal relationship level lol.
 

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Also I noticed that women from small Podunk towns are receptive or forward to message but the problem is that they are too far meet them. While local women in metro areas to don't respond or go ghost after a few messages
 

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It was made to make it easier for men to meet women who lack a socia life, shy or unattractive, but I read horror stories and people being disillusioned by it. So give your opinions on why it doesn't work for majority of people

It’s the worse because you are competing with thirsty men who harass some of these women online and a lot of the women who are bambarded with messages will either not hit you back or take like a week to do so or skip over your message.

Then you have the women who look way better in their pics then in person.

Also I’m paranoid so when a woman is too good to be true and giving me all the attention I think it’s a set up!

I refuse to go out like that lol
 

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In my opinion is no better than cold approaching at least with that right away you know if someone is attracted to you or not
nothing beats spittin live out in the field. and its so easy now because nobody really does it anymore.

shyt...most nikkas didn't even do it before all these apps flooded the scene. :heh:

i tell nikkas all the time, start approaching these broads in person. since dudes are online so heavy, you'll stand out even more.

the lane is WIDE open :wow:
 

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Online dating kinda sucks. You can eat....but only if you lower your standards unless you are in the top 10% looks wise.

Dating period these days is a lot harder. The easiest way to meet women is meeting them through someone else.
Pretty much like getting a job.
 

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I don't date. And online dating... yeah ok.

Just an opinion, the ratio of male to female imo is off balance for instance take IG as an example you got like 50 - 100+ [estimated guess] blowing a chicks DM's out of that set of guys you might have 2-3 guys that get a response back.

So it's probably the same shyt on POF, Tagged, & Tinder you get a select few bad women but hundreds of guys trying to shoot their shot. Then there are the women who are bisexual so that's a whole other level to deal with.
 

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Online dating really do suck. Tired of all these "meet me" requests and it's by all of these following reasons:

  1. By women who is old enough to be your mother or grandmother.
  2. By women who doesn't live in your city or country.
  3. By non colored women that you really not interested in.
  4. By women who is overweight as fukk.
  5. And this should have been number 1, but by gay men pretending to be women.
I do this online dating thing on general purpose of looking for a decent woman to start an relationship with, but looking at all the following reasons and women online scamming and selling p*ssy on there, I would rather just meet someone outside of the online dating thing. At least it would be more organic than meeting someone online.
 

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It was made to make it easier for men to meet women who lack a socia life, shy or unattractive, but I read horror stories and people being disillusioned by it. So give your opinions on why it doesn't work for majority of people

Dudes are scavengers. Women use online dating to get the exact guy that they're looking for in any capacity, whether the guy is looking for a relationship or not.

Guys get online looking for any chick that will open her legs.

If all men that are online ask themselves "what kind of woman would I marry?" And described that in their profile, without saying that they're looking for marriage, the dynamic would start to change.


TLDR: women use online dating to low-key get in touch with higher-quality men, and men use online dating to approach low-quality women without the embarrassment of actually speaking to one in public
 
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