Why do online dating has a low success rate for men

[Kinguno]

In a way it's like going to a party when you on line before you go in you see a mix of people in line then as you get inside it's dark with it being hard to see, the ratio of men to women is 5 to 1, the women ain't that fine as they look in their pictures ( a sliding weight scale of an extra 25 to 55 pounds I'm serious an extra TWENTY FIVE TO FIFFTY FIVE POUND AVERAGE INCREASE), there's always an "artificial" VIP to lure men to spend more, there's actual tranny men posing as women to confuse men, there's tranny men putting that their tranny and try to get at you, there's women with no jobs at all, there's women there to get followers on socials, there's women with kids and it shows, there's gay men who should be put to death doing what the trannys do, there's some beautiful women but there's no way to reach them because if you an alright woman hundreds of men come through freezing her phone, if a woman hits you up and she's alright and you don't respond quick enough she blocks you, fat women (non BBW ONES) hit you up, ugly women hit you up, and those old white women who want BBC

Now some of them are going a non nude chaturbate way of letting them get paid to go live it's going to get a lot worse

When you look at it like that it's nastyyyyy but depending where you at you can eat I've got stories of how women are women

Low-key if you in a black area where actual black people live I recommend Soul Swipe

if you are in an international city or a city with an airport at minimum Badoo for international baddies that be flying in all the time

I don't use them as my main way to get women but as a wise man once told me "The Yankees always scouting"

 

[Inf1ne]

I’m eating

Real shyt whenever I need to add contacts to my phone pof is the way to go only tips I got is DONT.EXPECT.ANYTHING.
I usually send out a duplicate msg to a 50 mile radius to about 20 ppl check it after a couple weeks and MAKE PLANS (this is key) from there fucc the small talk and sending pics I also video chat hours b4 we meet . I think where nggz lose at is either being corny "ill drink ya bathwater" or being too forward " hey bytch lets fukk "

Its just pictures be detached and you'll get what u looking for

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

It’s a scam. Try opening your mouth in public if you want friends/girlfriends...

 

[Inf1ne]

This man know what's up

Of course there's trannys ,bytches"for sale" jackboys and scammers. But those apps also got quality ppl on there that might work busy jobs (nurses lawyers cops etc.)
I had a logistics manager give me a warehouse job w no exp. Off that okc shyt like 5 years ago just to be something to look at. That caved in after a few months when I started fukking around tho

 

[feelosofer]

I have a friend that is a programmer for OKCupid. The way the algorithms and programming are set up are to give women as much power as possible. If you notice most sites have more restrictions on men for who they can message (age). Men have to have a certain amount of content on the profile, etc. You also have to remember a lot of dating sites the male/female ratio is as much as 10:1. Women don't need dating apps to get men and the ones that use it are flawed in one way or another, they have unattractive bodies, they have children, STDs, unemployed, disabled or some combo of these and even then the average woman is getting upwards of 50 messages a day. There was a thread a few years back where a poster made a female profile on POF, I believe and that profile got 100 messages in the 1st hour. It's crazy out there.

 

[Inf1ne]

It’s a scam. Try opening your mouth in public if you want friends/girlfriends...

Best to use it as a supplement to real life...more of a gas station smoke shop or grocery store guy myself

 

[Inf1ne]

It's just pictures
Maybe I'm a sociopath or some shyt but I see most ppl as interchangeable tbh

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Because it's always been easier for women to find a mate. As unattractive as some women are, their is always that one dude who will smash regardless.

 

[The Mad Titan]

The numbers are off and real life social parameters are not there to keep egos in check.

You can't only show the top half of your body and crop out 3 of your chins when you walk into a room.

That's why you have 300lb bytches running down their list of demands like a bond villain.

 

[Inf1ne]

For quality linkden is the top one

Y'all just dnt know...

 

[intruder]

It was made to make it easier for men to meet women who lack a socia life, shy or unattractive, but I read horror stories and people being disillusioned by it. So give your opinions on why it doesn't work for majority of people

Define success

Basically if you failed to seal the deal that's not online dating's fault. It's purpose is to initiate the connection. The rest is up to you. Horror stories existed way before the internet ever existed. Men were meeting strange women and vice versa way before we had computer. Look doggy everything is invented to make a certain task more convenient. That's the reason we have all kinds of communication devices like phone, cars, etc. Online dating apps only makes it easier to break the ice for those of us who struggle in that department. I've dated many women ive met only and some of those that it didn twork out with remain my closest friends to this day

I've had plenty of success with online dating. Ive met people on Craigslist, Tinder, Friendster, onlineBootycall.com, web forums, etc. Only place i "failed" was SOHH and TheColi but i'm still wrking on putting a baby in @Rawtid so i havent lost hope. Not like i ever really tried to link up with anyone on the coli or sohh anyway.

. The following are just a fewexamples of women ive met online

http://www.thecoli.com/posts/28823238/

As far as Tinder goes, it all depends on what you are using it for. Some people use it to meet new friends. Some people use it to look for jumpoffs. SOme people use it to date or find their future husbands/wives. Just like anything else before it there will be success stories and there will be horror stories. You're either gonna be scared and stay in the corner by yourself or join the fun

 

[Reno89]

Weather in real life, or online, men are responsible for the struggles of other men.

When you message a chick online that is below your standards, because you think she would be easy, you make it hard for the guy that's actually on her level.

Online, the women should be drooling all over the men. In reality, let's face it: The reason why women are online, is because everyone she knows and real life rejected her for a relationship.

 

[SNG]

I have a friend that is a programmer for OKCupid. The way the algorithms and programming are set up are to give women as much power as possible. If you notice most sites have more restrictions on men for who they can message (age). Men have to have a certain amount of content on the profile, etc. You also have to remember a lot of dating sites the male/female ratio is as much as 10:1. Women don't need dating apps to get men and the ones that use it are flawed in one way or another, they have unattractive bodies, they have children, STDs, unemployed, disabled or some combo of these and even then the average woman is getting upwards of 50 messages a day. There was a thread a few years back where a poster made a female profile on POF, I believe and that profile got 100 messages in the 1st hour. It's crazy out there.

This I remember I had this crazy ass broad messaging me and I kept ignoring her. I mean she was pretty cute but just based of what she was messaging me I could tell she was a little bat-shyt. She showed me her inbox and it had 448 messages in it and she said the reason way she was into me was because I was ignoring her messages and that my eyes were mysterious and that she would picture me passionately kissing her. To me something don't sound right about that and she claims she a christian girl. But you'll be surprised on how many lame nikkaz are out there when you search on the competition you have. shyt makes you want to log off and go out there and start talking to girls.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Because woman are getting hit on by thirsty men who they normally wouldnt have been approached by or seen in reality.

Online dating gives even the most unattractive women some form of fake high esteem.

 

[kingjones29]

Truth is a lot of men are not getting laid, while a lot of women are getting played. Eventually there will be a meet point as women become less delusional as they get older. I get attractive matches in Tinder but it feels like I have to jump another layer to keep their attention lol.

Social media has made dating hard for young men in general. Same women will be single months later.

I met this fine girl on Tinder, everything is going great...She tells how her ex had a whole bunch of women and how she was tired of games. I would have cuffed..lol I got the run around..months later she is single.

Social media and woman's ability to sex up had made it hard for average male.

a lot of woman are getting comfortable just being single and don't see it as a problem anymore for them