Why do people hit 30 and get all depressing n shyt?

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Everywhere...You never there.
Single, relationships, married, moms, not moms. And that’s not rare...most people in their 30’s are mature enough to evaluate their overall life. That’s the whole beauty of being in your 30’s

ehhh ... look at this thread ... I dont think “most” is appropriate . Maybe “some”
is better .
 

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Props. You probably have yet to peak. Stick to your craft.

I think your 30s for the most part is the post nut clarity moment of your life cycle. The rude awakening.

If I had to describe the difference between my 20s and 30s it would be as follows.

My 20s was having the time of my life in every club and every city. Think of BMF before the indictments.

My early 30s was when they turned the lights on in the club and I realized I had no business still being there with the drunks and degenerates.

My mid 30s is like BMF after sentencing. My late 30s is coming home after that bid and realizing that while I was out “partying” gentrifiers was out making all the music that I partied to. I no longer recognize the place that once was so I try to find a place in a land where no longer exist.

Great post. I am north of 30, and despite me looking like Im 23-24, I feel lost people blasting songs from artists I never heard in my life. Like, who the fukk is Lizzo? Post Malone? Pop Smoke? I feel like the old dude in the club status.
 

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ehhh ... look at this thread ... I dont think “most” is appropriate . Maybe “some”
is better .
I read most - not all - the thread and everyone seems to be looking across multiple aspects of life. Please point me to those whose outlook on life is solely tied to their relationship status?
 

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When you accomplish your dreams before you hit 30. Coupled with being single with no kids and std free. :wow:

feels like I’m playing life on cheat mode right now :wow: This bachelor shyt is addicting.
 

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You guys in your late teens and early 20s are lucky to have a Coli. The Coli has its fukkery, but the amount of knowledge and wisdom from some posters are worth it's weight in gold. Not just The Coli , but you can Google a thousand dollars worth of information for free.
I'm 37, so guys around our age had to pretty much figure shyt out.
 

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You guys in your late teens and early 20s are lucky to have a Coli. The Coli has its fukkery, but the amount of knowledge and wisdom from some posters are worth it's weight in gold. Not just The Coli , but you can Google a thousand dollars worth of information for free.
I'm 37, so guys around our age had to pretty much figure shyt out.

They had no Idea what life was like before Facebook. Even Black Planet was scarce compared to what FB was when it first launched. The internet back in the late 90s and early 00s was the Wild, Wild West.
 

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The dark ages

That's an understatement. That was pre-historic times. No GPS either. You really had to research from mad people just to make a move, or else going to a new area back in the late 90s to early 00s recklessly really meant that you may never come home......:merchant: . I didnt even have a Cell Phone till 2003, my senior year in HS.
 
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