Why do people like messing with quiet people?

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I really only talk to dope fiends, crack addicts, thugs, lil kids and elderly people..

They skip the small talk and im actually interested in their genuine conversation...

Women I pretty much go by vibes and mood...most are intimidated by me anyways:yeshrug:

Im not a virgin so its whatever..
 

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It's really annoying how some people respond to me being a social phobic. I remember one girl on the first day at school back in 2010(I mean the first five minutes of her walking in the classroom) wondered why I hated her even though I never saw her until she spoke to me(I was on the computer) the same girl and her brother even said I scared them cause I like to stand outside in the rain alone. other than that, people usually gave me the "I got to get you out of your shell" speech.
 
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Well street dudes don't like real quiet people around them because they figure they're snitches.
Bullshyt. They're intimidated in general because it's difficult to read really quiet people. Matter of fact, people in general are intimidated by quiet people usually.

People who talk TOO MUCH are viewed as rats. I'm pretty much quiet at work or in other social settings unless I'm drinking, other than that I don't fukk with small talk shyt with strangers. As the old saying goes "The wise speak because they have something to say while the foolish speak because they have to say something"
 

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Bullshyt. They're intimidated in general because it's difficult to read really quiet people.

People who talk TOO MUCH are viewed as rats. I'm pretty much quiet at work or in other social settings unless I'm drinking, other than that I don't fukk with small talk shyt with strangers. As the old saying goes "The wise speak because they have something to say while the foolish speak because they have to say something"

Yeah it is hard to read quiet dudes. Hence why street dudes are cautious with quiet people they don't know.
 

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People just like to run their mouths. :francis:

They don't really care about you not talking, they just want you to ask them questions so that they can bore you with their dull stories. I'm not quiet per se, but I'm definitely not the life of the party, and avoid being the center of attention.
 
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They're looking for self-validation. When you don't talk to them, you're not validating their existence. Some people will take it personally, and well, that's their own damn fault. Extroverts get their energy and validation externally, an introvert's energy and validation comes from within. That's why they bother people like you and me.

Yes, girls have asked me that question since as far back as I can remember. Recently, I just stopped giving a shyt. I realized that it's because they thought I was attractive because they didn't bother the other quiet asian ugly kid in class.

I was like "What about him? He's quiet too." she told me to stop trying to change the subject. lol
 
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