Why do people like messing with quiet people?

[the artist known az]

The amount of females that have asked me this in my life

Another saying they say after that is "you gotta watch them quiet ones"

 

[Flay Mayweather]

They expect people to be vocal about everything. Idk why but loud people are seen as more confident while quiet people are seen as weak.

In reality loud mfers always catching the beats

Im not a quiet person but around large social settings i dont feel like I have the need to make my presence known. I stand out on my own without talking

 

[Another Man]

They're looking for self-validation. When you don't talk to them, you're not validating their existence. Some people will take it personally, and well, that's their own damn fault. Extroverts get their energy and validation externally, an introvert's energy and validation comes from within. That's why they bother people like you and me.

Yes, girls have asked me that question since as far back as I can remember. Recently, I just stopped giving a shyt. I realized that it's because they thought I was attractive because they didn't bother the other quiet asian ugly kid in class.

I was like "What about him? He's quiet too." she told me to stop trying to change the subject. lol

This too. Extroverts take it as a blow to their ego when people don't acknowledge their existence. They have to have all eyes and ears on them and stay showing out. I'm an introvert, so I stay in my mind, and hate having too much attention on me....and ESPECIALLY hate having my thoughts interrupted by corny motherfukkers who wanna strike a convo. Most of the people who try striking convo never even come with a topic that interests me, like they'll come up talking about basketball or some shyt as if they assume I follow the shyt, only sports I follow are combat sports I also tend to have a general distrust of people who talk too fukking much, and especially those who ask a lot of questions

 

[hatechall]

As a quiet person, I can relate. My whole life it's been, "why are you so quiet?"

Um, I dunno??? I would rather deal with those types of questions than sit next to another quiet person tho. There's nothing more awkward than that.

 

[semtex]

I always get it

If you want to talk to me then talk

They expect you to be the aggressive lpud mouth negro

My first few months at my job had my white coworkers with a permanent face.

They were all like "are you always this reserved?"

 

[Citi Trends]

i imagine its because i'm ugly and have a resting angry face so people are trying to pity me

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I kinda get this too i just prefer being by myself now. Don't really care for making small talk

 

[aXiom]

If I wanna shoot the shyt, I got friends I can do that with.. Not interested in convos with random people unless I'm gonna learn something from said convo.

I'm introverted, but I can be social when I need to be, especially if it's for a reason that benefits me.

And no I'm not shy, I just choose to keep to myself.

 

[Arithmetic]

Well street dudes don't like real quiet people around them because they figure they're snitches.

The Coli y'all.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

It's feels wierd as hell trying to inject myself i get vibes that i'm unwanted. Then the looks on the faces

 

[JayBaldacci]

The Coli y'all.

From my experience.

 

[Arithmetic]

From my experience.

Homie all my nikkas silent

 

[Tunez]

My real life personality is quiet and laid back...pretty similar to Shikamaru from Naruto. I'm not real talkative but people insist on talking and bothering me. "Why are you so quiet?" "You should talk more" Some people just arent social butterflies

Im the same way

 

[JayBaldacci]

Homie all my nikkas silent

Lol. You know them though.

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

I just hate people asking me if im ok, nikka im chillin stfu