Why do people like messing with quiet people?

[The God Poster]

Some of y'all just seem quiet & shy which is a no no

I'm quiet , stay to myself unless I really fukk wit you. Because people see how I get down(I'm quiet not shy)
They always assume I'm on some sneaky shyt
Especially females

 

[Scuti]

i got called out for this shyt at a dinner once. back in hs, it was the end of the year so all the athletes go to a dinner. the manager of our bball team was taking shots at everyone on the team and when it got to me she said,
'and flexta, idk about him, he never talks. he must be planning to take over the world'

i laughed it off cause everyone was fukin staring at me but on the inside im like bytch you never even tried to talk to me foh with that

i think people are intimidated by quiet people. im lucky im good looking or i'd be fukked

 

[Turk]

You must be attractive..... I'm quiet and have never had that said to me...

Its mostly females who do say this....but nah that can't be the reason why

 

[SirShaktus]

I used to eat while reading a book or watching a video on YouTube, minding my own business...

Suddenly...

Person: "Shaktus! Hey, can I sit here?"

Me: "I was just (insert solitary activity here) and grabbing a bite, but you can sit here... How you been? "

Person: "Me? Well, I was.... (proceeds to talk about ABSOLUTELY NOTHING for 20 minutes)"

Me:

 

[Neil Tyson]

My first few months at my job had my white coworkers with a permanent face.

They were all like "are you always this reserved?"

Now at work, I think I've stressed this before. You have to be approachable. You're just making yourself replaceable if they find someone with your skills... And they happen to be friendly too. Outside of work, cool. I can be who I want.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I used to eat while reading a book or watching a video on YouTube, minding my own business...

Suddenly...

Person: "Shaktus! Hey, can I sit here?"

Me: "I was just (insert solitary activity here) and grabbing a bite, but you can sit here... How you been? "

Person: "Me? Well, I was.... (proceeds to talk about ABSOLUTELY NOTHING for 20 minutes)"

Me:

You did open that floodgate

 

[Brofato]

As a quiet person, I can relate. My whole life it's been, "why are you so quiet?"

Um, I dunno??? I would rather deal with those types of questions than sit next to another quiet person tho. There's nothing more awkward than that.

My high school experience was filled with these types of friendships. Dudes who were quiet like me and it was sort of a bond over that. But as time goes on people usually get more comfortable and those mfers always ended up annoying me lol.

 

[semtex]

Now at work, I think I've stressed this before. You have to be approachable. You're just making yourself replaceable if they find someone with your skills... And they happen to be friendly too. Outside of work, cool. I can be who I want.

I'm approachable just reserved. Plus I drink with them all the damn time

 

[Neil Tyson]

You did open that floodgate

Yeah but people will think you're weird if you don't end something with "what about you?" pretending like you give a fukk. Lose-lose.

 

[Conscious Pilot]

They want to me take a take on a new role at work and say, "I'm too quiet",you need to be more "loud"

 

[EVILRICO]

Im real quiet , but usually when im real high. I just keep my ear phones on.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Some of y'all just seem quiet & shy which is a no no

I'm quiet, but I was never shy

 

[Kokoro]

I feel the same way

The worst question is when people ask, "Why are you so quiet?"

 

[ALonelyDad]

I am quiet too..I can talk loud and be that guy around my friends..but random people, I don't give enough of a fukk to be that guy.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I guess the real question is should we compromise?