Why do so many men have low self esteem?

MajesticLion

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1. men used to oppress women because they understood the power of p*ssy
2. feminism started to reverse it
3. the empowerment/liberation of women swung the pendulum. it got to a healthy point (call it equilibrium) somewhere in the 90s/00s, but now its completely swung to the opposite side
4. women are now in a position where they can abuse the power they have over men
5. this is exacerbated by social media which essentially provides more mediums and a higher access to the demand pool of men for women who are essentially suppliers of sex
6. as a result of the increased market size to sell their goods, and the resultant excess demand, the price of whatever women provide (call it sex, companionship) has risen exponentially

porn is actually a good thing. take away porn and i am telling yall it would be far worse in terms of the shyt men do for p*ssy

i am writing a book about this shyt (literally finished it last weekend) so i wont go into much more detail but thats essentially whats happened in a nutshell. ppl talk that sexual market value stuff and its not just redpill/incel nonsense. It's the truth. I started realizing it before i even heard of this redpill shyt but yea


The fact that adult content has been positioned to be any kind of social safety valve at all is really wild. That's one strong ingredient in the entire mix.
 

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The shyt that trips me out is how social media has straight up made more dudes scared to approach women on the street. Instead they slide into the DM's with hundreds of other dudes hoping for a chance.

Social media is a tool, women have decided that tool is what should be used to approach them (for some good reasons tbf) but it has gone too far. Don't underestimate the amount of women that fear men, backed by movements such as #metoo where the radicals have weaponized this fear. In this climate what exactly should a man do when the wrong interaction can lead to ruination
 

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Access to a wider world.

People blame pornography but I think the real game changer is the growing gap between the rich and poor, paired with being able to see how the extremely rich live.

On a day by day basis, people are being reminded that they ain't shyt.
 

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i agree that its wild and even sad but post-nut clarity honestly helps

Brothers had better train themselves up to pre-nut-clarity levels, because this post-nut thing ain't enough.


Frickin' @Coco Loco has me dying as it is with that "street meat" talk in the Tristan Thompson thread, but she's not wrong. Can't afford to be moving reckless out here.
 

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Its a lot of things. For me personally I was always seeking validation from other people and thought making the people around me happy would make me happy. I only had two modes either idgaf or im breaking my back trying to be super man. Porn didn't help. Videos games didnt help. Choosing internet interaction over real life ones didn't help. No discernable talents or skills to fall back on. 90% of the media being presented to me telling me I'm less than if I don't achieve XYZ :francis:

And thats just the personal stuff not even factoring in race, politics, etc
 

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:skip:If they broke why are they buying farts off the internet for 1k?:heh:

Those kinda guys have the money but not the social skills to get at women. I’d say a lot of men are socially broke not financially.

Plus a lot of these guys prefer online interaction vs in person they feel they can control online better and it gives them an equal playing field

the sort of guys buying farts are the sort of guys who watch Vtubers and tip women 100 dollars whilst sitting on their twitch
 

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u act like :cape: is new. this shyt been going on since these days.

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Since the beginning of time.

If these “eww girls” nikkas was around thousands of years ago humanity would be done by now.
 
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