Why do so many men have low self esteem?

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The same way there's an ideal image of what a woman should be that's shoved down women's throats, the same exist for men.

Our sense of value and worth comes from being desirable to women.

If women don't find you desirable it will make you feel inadequate as a man.

We can claim those men should stop "putting p*ssy on a pedestal" but having any aspect of your life as a man that makes you feel less than or not equal to what you believe a man should be has the potential to affect a man's self esteem.

Not much different than not having financial stability, which also adds to the lower self esteem men of today have.

Combine that with no incentive to change because the outlets we as men have to go to instead of self improvement and getting better with women are wide and more available now than ever, and you get what we have today.
 
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Lack of working on, or understanding the dynamics of being attractive to women.

So you'll have alot of unattractive dudes that know no other way of attaining female attention, than to give them things.

Its not even porn man. I watched porn, and even was a late bloomer, and I still fukk girls regularly when i choose to, and have a rotation.

But i also workout, am attractive, have interesting hobbies, and fun work, and a decent social life. I work to make myself appealing. They dont.
 

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I don’t understand the only fans nor buying farts and bathwater. I was outcasted in middle school for not being able to pull bytches.

I still suck with women as an adult (more strike outs than success) but yeah it’s part of why I struggle and don’t like to make friends too.

When people make you feel like a loser (even family) for struggling with women. That shyt don’t ever completely go away even after fukking multiple women.
 
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My self esteem is very low.

Cause I have zero hoes now.

(Last touched on some new new around Thxgvg so its not super dire yet)

Whenever I have a good woman in my corner my self esteem is high

A shame that it depends on that, but what else can you judge by?

I would never buy anything from a woman that was supposed to be a kink. Never bought puzzy before so damn sure not gonna buy a pair of worn drawls

I thought you had a 10 year running fwb?
 
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