Why do so many men have low self esteem?

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AngryBaby said:
Lack of working on, or understanding the dynamics of being attractive to women.

So you'll have alot of unattractive dudes that know no other way of attaining female attention, than to give them things.

Its not even porn man. I watched porn, and even was a late bloomer, and I still fukk girls regularly when i choose to, and have a rotation.

But i also workout, am attractive, have interesting hobbies, and fun work, and a decent social life. I work to make myself appealing. They dont.
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Basically it’s 50% lotto genetics and 50% effort. Society is kinder to attractive people.

One of my friends met her ex whilst he was living on the street/couch surfing.

I asked her why she’s dealing with a bum and she said, “he looks like a young Ginuwine; once I fix him up watch how fine he’ll be.” :myman:

She kept him FRESH but he ended up in jail for hustling. Gotta have life skills :francis:
 
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Rozay Oro said:
I don’t understand the only fans nor buying farts and bathwater. I was outcasted in middle school for not being able to pull bytches.

I still suck with women as an adult (more strike outs than success) but yeah it’s part of why I struggle and don’t like to make friends too.

When people make you feel like a loser (even family) for struggling with women. That shyt don’t ever completely go away even after fukking multiple women.
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This right here is the issue. People treat you the way you allow them to treat you. It’s attitude and mindset.

Why do you struggle to make friends? Do you think they will judge you?
 
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Ghost Utmost said:
My self esteem is very low.

Cause I have zero hoes now.

(Last touched on some new new around Thxgvg so its not super dire yet)

Whenever I have a good woman in my corner my self esteem is high

A shame that it depends on that, but what else can you judge by?

I would never buy anything from a woman that was supposed to be a kink. Never bought puzzy before so damn sure not gonna buy a pair of worn drawls
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What else do you have going on in your life?
 
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I think it comes from lack of purpose. A lot of men have no goals and nothing to take pride in. Like others have mentioned they aren't receiving the positive affirmations and feedback which IMO men need.

For example I sent out 'thank you' emails to some people who came to our site because we were short staffed last week. I sent it to 2 women initially because I had never met them. But there 2 men who also came out whom I met before. We don't have the greatest relationship but I decided to send them emails also.

One guy replied back that he really needed to hear that he was appreciated. I was kinda taken back. And made me realize I need to make sure I give more positive reinforcement especially to the guys.

So I sent a few guys on my team positive feedback and they were overly appreciative. It really made me realize that men aren't told how much their contributions are appreciated enough

I am going to do better
 
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GreenGhxst said:
no discipline, no fukkin work ethic, no balls

scared to get hands dirty

doesn't even try to self develop through books, goals and facing fears[/QUOTE]

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I don’t think it’s a case of not trying. I think some people think it weakens them to admit they have a problem. Also, sometimes the trauma runs very deep
 
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