Why Do So Many Women Walk Around W A Chip On Their Shoulder?

[5n0man]

Why bother? In 5 minutes this clown gonna be in another thread talmbout

"How dare you toxic males not outline your intentions for a relationship from the onset, you owe her that much. How dare you not be respectful and courteous, you black men have no decency or respect! Rape by deception!!"

Next thread
"She can do what she wants, nobody owes you nothing, youre entitled for expecting deceny and common courtesy "

Video pops up of a woman getting her ass beat by her boyfriend, a bunch of men stand around and watch it happens.

@Matt504 gonna be like "How they not gonna jump in and help that random person? Those aren't real men!!"

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Harm doesn't necessarily have to be a qualifier for something to be incorrect. If you see a child wandering on the sidewalk towards traffic while their parent isn't paying attention, will you pull the child away from traffic expecting thanks or will you pull the child away because you believe it's the right thing to do.

If we're acting in ways that seek to net kind responses instead acting in those ways because it's the correct thing to do, then we should reassess our behaviors and question our true motivations.

Harm does not have to be, but it is usually the method of standard.

To answer your question; yes, I would expect thanks, on a subconscious level. It is ingrained into our minds to expect gratitude for genuine acts of kindness. Expecting gratification on a level of a "thank you," does not make an act any less genuine, by the way. The issue arises in the fact that the lack of even the most basic form of gratitude, a simple thank you, is jarring. Thus, it will become a topic of discussion.

Let me ask you this; if your mother, friend, or significant other provides you with an unsolicited act of kindness do you say thank you to them? Why, or why not? Also, once again, why do you feel this is a societal norm that requires pushback? Whom does it harm? And if it harms no one then what is the basis for it needing to change?

 

[MindOverMatter]

Because dudes lie to them about how old they are then ghost them.

 

[Entropy Fan]

Talked shyt then completely avoided me.


Just like the fakkit he is

 

[Bondye Vodou]

Ppl these days are rude and angry fam, this is why I don't engage in outdated norms and customs any more.

 

[Entropy Fan]

Ppl these days are rude and angry fam, this is why I don't engage in outdated norms and customs any more.

We live in a every man for himself society.

Those who hold on to a sense of community and common courtesy will get burnt.

 

[Matt504]

Harm does not have to be, but it is usually the method of standard.

To answer your question; yes, I would expect thanks, on a subconscious level. It is ingrained into our minds to expect gratitude for genuine acts of kindness. Expecting gratification on a level of a "thank you," does not make an act any less genuine, by the way. The issue arises in the fact that the lack of even the most basic form of gratitude, a simple thank you, is jarring. Thus, it will become a topic of discussion.

Let me ask you this; if your mother, friend, or significant other provides you with an unsolicited act of kindness do you say thank you to them? Why, or why not? Also, once again, why do you feel this is a societal norm that requires pushback? Whom does it harm? And if it harms no one then what is the basis for it needing to change?

I'm always vocally grateful towards anyone who renders acts of kindness, that's how I personally am. The societal norm that deserves pushback is the expectation or entitlement to a kind response for rendering that act of kindness, the reason is because everyone doesn't respond to those acts in equal fashion which is why I encourage people to stop doing those acts if they're doing them with expectations. Doing things and not getting the expected outcomes can be harmful to the person doing those things and potentially harmful to the person not expressing their gratitude. Speak to women about how they've been called names for not responding in ways that men expect them to.

 

[Vilify]

I already know who the biggest offenders are but I won't say

 

[BmoreGorilla]

If I open the door im not expecting a blowjob. Just a simple thank u.

U have serious issues.

Expecting a simple cordial thank u doesnt mean Im trying to be a fake nice guy.

But thanks for reminding me why I never offer simple courtesies. They dont owe me anything & I dont either.

That’s the thing tho breh. We cant expect shyt from anyone. We have these expectations and when people don’t meet them we feel some type of way

 

[jwonder]

its an act

most older people (especially older black people from my personal experience) despise younger people

alot of older black people have the same views as most racist cacs have about young black men

the c00n gene was contagious back in the day it seems

This is a little off. The majority of older black people I encountered don't like the younger ones because they are fukking up their city making it unsafe. I think this is something depending on where you live.

 

[Matt504]

That’s the thing tho breh. We cant expect shyt from anyone. We have these expectations and when people don’t meet them we feel some type of way

This is exactly what I'm getting at and why I suggest that nikkas simply stop holding doors if they're going to be pissy about not getting a thank you.

 

[Roid Jones]

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

Young Women in general, of all races, have no respect for anybody except other women and the 10-15 percent of men they’re physically attracted to

Other than that, they have no issue disrespecting you which is why I’m through being nice/cordial/respectful to them, especially all white women and hoodrat Latinas. I won’t even fake it, not even at work.

 

[jwonder]

On a day to day basis

This comes from the Men Offering UnSolicited Advice thread

A lot of women act rude bitter and like they can’t be bothered if u say good morning, hi, offer to open door, help, etc . The only women who seem to appreciate it or say thank u are older women & foreign women

I cant how many times I seen a breh hold a door open for a girl and she walks thru without saying a simple thank you

I dont have this problem any more cus I do none of the above and havent since high school years but for the brehs who do I know y’all feeling it

Now I’m an a$$hole but Im atleast cordial to most people unless given a reason not to be

Why are so many women walking around with a chip on their shoulder? Is it a regional thing (big cities)? If so why do men not have this issue?

A lot of women act like this because they are jaded. I think we can all agree that most American women make poor decisions over and over again. So when a guy does a nice gesture, they automatically think they are trying to fukk. Which in most cases could be true, but no need for the shytty attitude.

Another thing is social media.Their heads are blown up by simps and no p*ssy getting dudes. So they have a false "superstar" celebrity status about them. You know how you hear about a "real celebrity" being snooty? They are emulating that behavior.

I ignore women or people in general that look like ass holes. No I don't open doors and other shyt like that. I need to get where I'm going.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

This is exactly what I'm getting at and why I suggest that nikkas simply stop holding doors if they're going to be pissy about not getting a thank you.

Me personally I try to be polite and show gratitude when someone does something for me. But I learned along time ago some people don’t make that a priority. Ain’t no need in getting salty over something out of your control