Why do some men act like talking to women is rocket science?

[Colin X]

Who raised y'all nikkas?



If you see a chick showing some interests at all.


Go talk to her, don't say some creep shyt, and don't be a lame.


In fact, if you're an attractive breh you literally gotta try to talk yourself out of some p*ssy


Nigggas treat females like unicorns and get all flabbergasted talking to them, talk like a human being damn.

 

[iFightSeagullsForBread]

I was on unemployment getting p*ssy

 

[Colin X]

I was on unemployment getting p*ssy

Breh, some dudes really need to get out of their own head.


Short nikkas out here eatin
Ugly nikkas out here eatin
Broke nikkas out here eatin
Fat nikkas out here eatin.

 

[Weaver31]

This is the first website I've been on where you got niqqaz writing theses and essays on how to get women, mouthpiece, and shyt like this. Niqqas saying u gotta have a mouthpiece/swag to get a woman, some say u just cant be a lame, some say u need to know Brazilian jujitsu, some say u need enough money, some say u need to be brolic and go to gym, etc. I respond to some of those threads because it is interesting but I never known so many dudes who had problems attracting women. I see fat and obese dudes get girls, same with dudes who are introverted, boring, lame, square, broke as shyt, lacking ambition, out of shape, etc.

People like who and what they like and if u like someone and they like u...that's where it starts. It isn't rocket science. And if a woman isn't interested in you, just accept it and keep it moving. It doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with u or her, ur just not what she is looking for or just not a good match for her.

I do notice people nowadays in general do lack people skills.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Most people struggle with walking up to strangers and engaging in conversation.

The fact you don't know whether that person would want to be bothered is the biggest fear.

You can wait for a woman to "show interest" but depending on how attractive you are/versus how picky you are, it could be a while before you get a good opportunity.

It's not rocket science if a woman you deem attractive is eyeballing you. But for a lot of brehs, that doesn't happen, therefore they have to force the issue and put pressure on their conversation skills to create the opportunity.

Also, for some guys, they have to hold their personality back, to not come off as lame. I had to learn through years of trial and error as to what not to say around women.

 

[Tanahashi Coates]

This is the first website where you got niqqaz writing theses and essays on how to get women, mouthpiece, and shyt like this.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

This is the first website where you got niqqaz writing theses and essays on how to get women, mouthpiece, and shyt like this.

No it's not

 

[FSP]

shameless dap fishing

 

[Colin X]

shameless dap fishing

nikka are you aware of what website you are posting on?

 

[FSP]

nikka are you aware of what website you are posting on?

Look breh all this shyt is not necessary

If you wanted some ass all you had to do was hit me up

 

[Weaver31]

No it's not

I mean the first website I been on. I didn't know it was so hard. My issue is finding the right woman.

 

[re'up]

I think the rise of app based 'dating' like Tinder, Bumble, etc etc, will show a long term effect on men and women's ability to connect in a personal interaction.....obviously, sites like Tinder streamline the whole process, from a veil of relative 'safety', and a rejection is easy as swiping one way or another, not the sometimes messy, uncomfortable, reaction that's possible from in person interactions. And, those sites build confidence differently, and I think on a more shallow, and fleeting level.... Dozens of conversations on Tinder, but scared to approach a women (or man) in person, I see dynamics like this from some friends of mine.

I agree, in a sense that, treating everyone as simply another person, first, is important to me. For me, there's that, and then skipping small talk, (obviously not bluntly or without social grace) and talking about things that are interesting to you, or the other party. That may be less effective for every person, as men and women LOVE the dumb banter, but for me, it eliminates people who are boring, and not intelligent enough to merit interacting worth. At a base level, I think it's gender stereotypes that provide create this sometimes imaginary rift between men and women, conversation wise.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

nikkas on here be in their mid 30's writing long ass essays trying to explain getting a woman. My nikka just talk to a bytch, if she likes you, she likes you. It isnt that serious.

 

[NuWorldOrder]

I had to learn through years of trial and error as to what not to say around women.

What are some of the most important Ones

 

[Blackrogue]

Getting women is easy. Balancing them is hard. I think the combination of working as a bartender and being forced to converse with strangers every day.. Plus having lived with three girls not related to me. You realize how easily open they are.
All you gotta do is learn how to pick up signals

But fukk it this topic overdone