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what actually constitutes rejection?
no get away from me
or disinterest and apathy towards your advances
no get away from me
or disinterest and apathy towards your advances
Why do some men act like talking to women is rocket science?
- Thread starter Colin X
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OP it is rocket science if all you do is sit on forums talking about how women ain't shyt while on a computer in your parents house.....
I mostly lurk, but I felt the need to say something.
By no means am I shagging all the hotties in NYC, but I've had a good number of beautiful/intelligent/independent women in my life. Seriously.
But that's also been my issue...
I'm always caught up into relationships with women cause I only go for home run material. I just split with my ex shortly after the new year...feels crazy to be alone...once again...after nearly two years. You question who you are/were, the things you like, etc. Sulk. Sulk. Sulk. Guess I'm a sucker for love brehs...
But when I think about it...I'm still fairly young (turning 26 on the 26th), no kids, no debt, great paying job, bills are fine, I'm saving, I have love from my family & close friends, etc. I've been doing so much more photography, exercising, reading/writing, etc. I'm better off than like, 95% of the people on this planet. I have an apartment. Food to eat. Money to waste on clothes, music/exercising/photography/art gear, vacation trips, etc. I can go on and on. I plan on remaining single now...ALLLLLL the way till I'm actually ready for that kind of commitment again. Most of my early years I was in a relationship. Of course I have the love and memories there, but now it just feels like I lost lots and lots of time to others. Gotta do more for me.
Point is, I use to feel the same way (bolded). Still partially do. I think girls like the idea of me more than who I actually am. They see I'm into/do different shyt and they try to be a part of that too. But when the going gets tough in a relationship they're quick to bail...but fukk that. This happens to me cause I haven't loved myself enough yet.
Become comfortable in your own skin. No need to open and reveal so much so quickly. Patience goes a LONG way. You don't want to spend years with someone just to find out at the end they weren't going to do right by you. You also don't want to spend years shagging chicks left and right trying to fill an empty void that'll remain there until you actually start loving yourself. Let time reveal everything. We're all worthy of generosity. Happiness...whatever that means to you.
Breh, I don't mean to sound like an old head, but if you're 17, you have a whole new WORLD ahead of you.
I know all our cards a dealt differently, but believe me, if you work and focus on YOURSELF...NOW...you'll be EATING WELL VERY SOON.
WELL BREH. Focus on what YOU want to do. On a career/social/and personal level. What creative hobbies would you like to take up? What kind of physical activities do you enjoy (or at least think you would enjoy)? Take care of your body & mind. Read on your interests and stay up on current events. Be open minded. Set goals for yourself and conquer those avenues. Secretly, EVERYONE should know that focusing and honing on oneself (health wise, creatively, intelligently, socially, and professionally) is the KEY to attracting women. Not trying to be trendy, not trying to look (or act) like fukking celebrities, not getting all the likes on social media, no the money, etc. These things can help, but they're not necessary. If you're really about that life and doing YOU, these other fun external forces will simply be placed on your lap.
TL;DR...You should be the priority of your own life. Simply be and do YOU when it comes to women. Don't be a simp. Be natural. If the energy's there all else will align.
