Why do some men act like talking to women is rocket science?

[raoulduke187]

Bro, I would look to get a squad that like to be around attractive women... as in... just in the same space. Even the types to be like "yo there's hella chicks in here" and not make a move to any - at least they in space. Now if you need more support than that.... you need 1 associate, 1 buddy that will go out on the prowl with you. The easiest way to make a friend like that is to be a guy like that yourself. Don't play it cool - don't be afraid to look corny. Be the breh to always ask where the chicks at.... that dude will eventually be where the chicks at.

If you're in college there's things going on 7 days a week. You just need the right people.

Also - this might take some doing but consider going places solo. they might not be interested in action but a small group of chicks will take you in at the very least (a group of 2 or 3) - on some maternal ting. So you won't be lonely the entire time and you'll make new female friends. I'm nothing to write home about in the looks department and have always at the least chilled with a group of chicks when solo dolo.

I will get crackin on finding the right company but going on that solo tip is pretty scary to me, if I find some girls that are friendly that would be cool but what are the odds lol

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Jesus, really?

So if you see a pretty thang in Wal-Mart you not gon say anything because she's not staring you down?

Breh, the first chick I smashed after moving to ATL few years ago was from a cold approach in a Wal-Mart. I just walked up to her, asked what her name was and told her that I thought she was cute and I just HAD to come over and say something. That simple. No "signals", no nothing. I just walked up to her and started talking. I've also been rejected doing this, but who cares. Being rejected feels 10X better than wondering "what if"

Breh, unless its a chick that you see all the time, never look for "signals". If you just out and about in a store or library and you'll never see this chick again, go for it.

That "signals" & "signs" shyt gonna keep you with a dry dikk

NY women are a different breed. 9/10 these chicks walk around like they don't want to be bothered.

 

[Street Knowledge]

If that weird ass foot fetish dude from YouTube with the speech impediment talkin bout "y'all mad cause I'm gettin feet" can get as far as he does, there should be no issues for anyone for the most part

Wait what?

 

[semtex]

Wait what?

A Brother out here convincing random chicks to fulfill his foot fetish [Video]

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Yeah breh. There's some clubs I go to and the girls who go there know me. I usually roll alone but a couple people come through. I know the staff, bouncers, management.
So the girls know I just chill solo.. But they just fukk with me. Some come sit right next to me and I don't feel like small talk.. Then we also look like we coupled up and then other girls are like oh he's with her now. Chicks be passing by grinding on my lap. Others have gone to the point of grabbing my dikk. I'm an average breh so it's not some pretty boy thing. In fact I'm doing nothing. I just see where the interest comes from and I'm easy going

Matter of fact. I can hear the music from the club and noise right now. It's twerk contest night

YOU live in clubs too breh

 

[Crayola Coyote]

A lot of brehs make it a lot harder than it needs to be with just how they approach women. I have found women are a lot less receptive and on guard with the cold approach... I am not handsome or charismatic enough for that shyt. But I never really had problems with women as I knew how to meet them in other ways. It's way easier (AND SAFER) to date women you know first. Problem is I think a lot of dudes don't have many friends or really know anybody period

Me on the other hand I just cold approach women and take the L. I have no friends or a social circle. It's just to the way it is.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

I don't have this problem
But
I almost understand where some people are coming from with this. I hate small talk and I hate pretending to care what a bytch has to say. I manage to cook regardless but some people might not have a stomach for pretending whatever comes out a broads mouth is interesting at all

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Me on the other hand I just cold approach women and take the L. I have no friends or a social circle. It's just to the way it is.

Such a great attitude. No wonder you have such success with women

You need to build yourself up and be somebody people want to be around. Nobody wants to be with somebody with no status or sense of self worth.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

A lot of brehs make it a lot harder than it needs to be with just how they approach women. I have found women are a lot less receptive and on guard with the cold approach... I am not handsome or charismatic enough for that shyt. But I never really had problems with women as I knew how to meet them in other ways. It's way easier (AND SAFER) to date women you know first. Problem is I think a lot of dudes don't have many friends or really know anybody period

Your over thinking it breh. Don't ever sleep on your self

 

[Dreamzeedream]

This shyt is like baseball man.. just swing brehs.. if you get 4 out of 10 chicks you're batting 400 which is great... 3 out of 10 still good.. 2 out of 10 you need work.. the law of averages my nikkaz...

What if they go 0 for 10

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

because of cockblocking and ugly friends that's what makes it rocket science

my lack of persistence maybe another factor if she ain't seem interested I move on

it's also the WOAT when couples go to bars and clubs they leave each other unattended you go into speak to the girl then the BF comes in 2 mins later

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

A lot of brehs make it a lot harder than it needs to be with just how they approach women. I have found women are a lot less receptive and on guard with the cold approach... I am not handsome or charismatic enough for that shyt. But I never really had problems with women as I knew how to meet them in other ways. It's way easier (AND SAFER) to date women you know first. Problem is I think a lot of dudes don't have many friends or really know anybody period

I disagree they can put you on blast within your social group if you suck at fukking

A random can't do that unless she records you somehow

 

[Larry Lambo]

I disagree they can put you on blast within your social group if you suck at fukking

A random can't do that unless she records you somehow

You gotta pick and choose your spots. If you know a chick that is a gossipy type and knows a bunch of women, maybe you steer clear.

Deal with the low key joints.

And that's usually a hs/college or small town scenario. If you're in a big city you can be connected to various groups of people that don't know each other.

 

[the bossman]

IMO, that means that you're filtering out women that you don't need to know.

Basically. If you're not out here getting rejected you're probably not approaching enough chicks

 

[99 Hunter]

I've had plenty of girls look at me like they want to get to know me, but after they realize somethings off about me, you can tell they just don't wanna have nothing to do with me, I think each time this happens it just contributes to my low self esteem and stuff.

Do I do shyt to improve no? Not currently

I don't really think any girl would really want to talk to me after they get to know me and see my insecurities, I've failed as a man at 17.