Why do some men act like talking to women is rocket science?

[Anerdyblackguy]

Nobody wants to be rejected

In a world that runs through social media nobody wants to feel like a loser. To be open and honest, I'm that way to an extent . If I see a gorgeous woman I do the math, if I don't think I can get her I rather not bother.

When you're black in America your ego and self esteem needs to be on point or you won't survive. Getting rejected hurts that to an extent.

just speaking on my personal experiences.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

nikkas on here be in their mid 30's writing long ass essays trying to explain getting a woman. My nikka just talk to a bytch, if she likes you, she likes you. It isnt that serious.

It's not that simple for some of the younger dudes out here struggling on the dating apps. I'll write an essay every now and then to share knowledge on dynamics between male and female through my very own observations and interactions.


Can't knock the brehs for wanting to learn or teach...

 

[Blackrogue]

What are some of the most important Ones

Damn my herpes really is flaring up today

But you can even say that under the right context

 

[NuWorldOrder]

All you gotta do is learn how to pick up signals

like body language

 

[Black Cobain]

All you have to do is meet people through friends and find a common interest..easy peasy dusty ass nikkas

 

[Colin X]

nikkas on here be in their mid 30's writing long ass essays trying to explain getting a woman. My nikka just talk to a bytch, if she likes you, she likes you. It isnt that serious.

If they went outside they'd realize most of the things they say don't actually hold up off the internet

 

[Blackrogue]

@SJUGrad13 You can't be afraid of rejection. It happens but it's not an end all or be all. I've had women curve me and I'd meet them later and still try again and eventually theyd tell me they curve me cause they see me with many girls. I think I actually talk to women like I do men in a way.

So you need to approach more women. You need to lessen the amount of rejections by figuring out who likes you with their cues. Eye contact.. Being in you proximity alot.. Preening ...all that stupid bullshyt. You have to carry yourself in a certain way that she thinks she may be attracted to you and you build from there.

Truth be told half the time I'll be in a club and some girl will pass by and I'll just touch her finger tips and look her in the eye. Quiet aggression. And if there is someone she's with I'll just nod which direction I want her to meet me.



And then another day I see a hot girl and I'm like Hey who are you? And they're offended cause it's the finger tip girl and I completely forgot

 

[International Playa]

Nikkaz put women on a high pedastal so when its time to talk to women they nervous as hell n cant think of what to talk about.

Most dudes are witty n funny enough to have interesting convos wit females but are stuck in their heads

Like homie Kent if he relaxed he would be able to entertain females wit good convo. Dude got thousands of ppl watching hes videos, he is interesting enough

 

[Blackrogue]

like body language

Yeah a friend was a pimp and he once told me about choosing up. How the hoes would be on the strip and if another pimp came through they'd have their eyes on the ground and not make eye contact. Because that meant they wanted to change pimps.

Same way if a woman is not interested in you and you staring at her. She won't encourage it. She won't exchange eye contact. Among other things.

Now I've been in places with friends while glancing across at a woman and our eyes meet and I wait.. When she gets up to go somewhere isolated I get up and follow. If she's alone I go to her. My friends always think I've know the person for a while and I'm like nah. I just met her. It's always funny when I'm like Brb. I'm going to the bathroom too

 

[sosaa]

@SJUGrad13 You can't be afraid of rejection. It happens but it's not an end all or be all. I've had women curve me and I'd meet them later and still try again and eventually theyd tell me they curve me cause they see me with many girls. I think I actually talk to women like I do men in a way.

So you need to approach more women. You need to lessen the amount of rejections by figuring out who likes you with their cues. Eye contact.. Being in you proximity alot.. Preening ...all that stupid bullshyt. You have to carry yourself in a certain way that she thinks she may be attracted to you and you build from there.

Truth be told half the time I'll be in a club and some girl will pass by and I'll just touch her finger tips and look her in the eye. Quiet aggression. And if there is someone she's with I'll just nod which direction I want her to meet me.



And then another day I see a hot girl and I'm like Hey who are you? And they're offended cause it's the finger tip girl and I completely forgot

u right about this one..i had hoes tell me that they were intimidated to talk wit me and basically turned me down cuz they saw me with other chicks and thought i was some sort of player
they usually come around and start fukkin wit u soon after thoo

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Because men prop up women too much when most women are nothing special. It's men that think they're obligated to impress and entertain these women while they sit back and decide if they're good enough to open their legs for.

If men would stop thinking of women as a prize that deserves to be chased after they would relax more and be less stressed over women.

 

[Blackrogue]

u right about this one..i had hoes tell me that they were intimidated to talk wit me and basically turned me down cuz they saw me with other chicks and thought i was some sort of player
they usually come around and start fukkin wit u soon after thoo

Yeah breh. There's some clubs I go to and the girls who go there know me. I usually roll alone but a couple people come through. I know the staff, bouncers, management.
So the girls know I just chill solo.. But they just fukk with me. Some come sit right next to me and I don't feel like small talk.. Then we also look like we coupled up and then other girls are like oh he's with her now. Chicks be passing by grinding on my lap. Others have gone to the point of grabbing my dikk. I'm an average breh so it's not some pretty boy thing. In fact I'm doing nothing. I just see where the interest comes from and I'm easy going

Matter of fact. I can hear the music from the club and noise right now. It's twerk contest night

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

@SJUGrad13 You can't be afraid of rejection. It happens but it's not an end all or be all. I've had women curve me and I'd meet them later and still try again and eventually theyd tell me they curve me cause they see me with many girls. I think I actually talk to women like I do men in a way.

So you need to approach more women. You need to lessen the amount of rejections by figuring out who likes you with their cues. Eye contact.. Being in you proximity alot.. Preening ...all that stupid bullshyt. You have to carry yourself in a certain way that she thinks she may be attracted to you and you build from there.

Truth be told half the time I'll be in a club and some girl will pass by and I'll just touch her finger tips and look her in the eye. Quiet aggression. And if there is someone she's with I'll just nod which direction I want her to meet me.



And then another day I see a hot girl and I'm like Hey who are you? And they're offended cause it's the finger tip girl and I completely forgot

that's an impressive skill you have. No joking its a very good skill.

but I grew in the sheltered suburbs in Queens (Laurelton), with strict Christian parents, became president of my high school anime club, attended a strict ass university in a wealthy suburb ( Jamaica Estates) in Queens. , then lbecame the first black secretary of the anime club in college .
Those skills were never picked up breh.

Wont lie, I wish I could be that confident. Its just not in my nature B.

 

[Blackrogue]

that's an impressive skill you have. No joking its a very good skill.

but I grew in the sheltered suburbs in Queens (Laurelton), with strict Christian parents, became president of my high school anime club, attended a strict ass university in a wealthy suburb ( Jamaica Estates) in Queens. , then lbecame the first black secretary of the anime club in college .
Those skills were never picked up breh.

Wont lie, I wish I could be that confident. Its just not in my nature B.

Maybe you can get girls who are into anime. My girl watches it

 

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bc they're weirdos yo