Why do some men act like talking to women is rocket science?

[International Playa]

that's an impressive skill you have. No joking its a very good skill.

but I grew in the sheltered suburbs in Queens (Laurelton), with strict Christian parents, became president of my high school anime club, attended a strict ass university in a wealthy suburb ( Jamaica Estates) in Queens. , then lbecame the first black secretary of the anime club in college .
Those skills were never picked up breh.

Wont lie, I wish I could be that confident. Its just not in my nature B.

Beautiful girls are in to anime n video games too. This chick below is in to anime n loves playing video games non stop

 

[From the Soil]

Believe it or not, to many brehs doing rocket science is easier than getting a woman. Like most things, some brehs are just talented at getting women while others will have to learn to do without.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Most people struggle with walking up to strangers and engaging in conversation.

The fact you don't know whether that person would want to be bothered is the biggest fear.

You can wait for a woman to "show interest" but depending on how attractive you are/versus how picky you are, it could be a while before you get a good opportunity.

It's not rocket science if a woman you deem attractive is eyeballing you. But for a lot of brehs, that doesn't happen, therefore they have to force the issue and put pressure on their conversation skills to create the opportunity.

Also, for some guys, they have to hold their personality back, to not come off as lame. I had to learn through years of trial and error as to what not to say around women.

Like what

 

[Turlast]

I just think it comes down to not wanting to be rejected. Most guys are stuck in their comfort zone, so talking to a woman can feel really abnormal if they're not accustomed to doing this. At the end of the day, rejection is part of the game. No one wants to feel the burn of rejection, but it certainly beats the poisonous feeling of regret. That's much worse than some woman rejecting your advances. There's also the thought of being embarrassed, though this is really overblown. I know some brehs who've been rejected harshly and laughed it off. I've also known some who were rejected harshly and it made them shell-shocked. You just gotta be willing to walk outside of your comfort zone and be vulnerable.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Nikkaz put women on a high pedastal so when its time to talk to women they nervous as hell n cant think of what to talk about.

Most dudes are witty n funny enough to have interesting convos wit females but are stuck in their heads

Like homie Kent if he relaxed he would be able to entertain females wit good convo. Dude got thousands of ppl watching hes videos, he is interesting enough

I don't think kent. Realize that

 

[Bless't]

Everyone's situation is different.

I just don't like how the hivemind of the board seems to always express absolutes.

Just pick and choose what information expressed is relevant to your particular situation and move accordingly. But don't always take the negative out of what's posted here.

 

[shutterguy]

This is the first website I've been on where you got niqqaz writing theses and essays on how to get women, mouthpiece, and shyt like this. Niqqas saying u gotta have a mouthpiece/swag to get a woman, some say u just cant be a lame, some say u need to know Brazilian jujitsu, some say u need enough money, some say u need to be brolic and go to gym, etc. I respond to some of those threads because it is interesting but I never known so many dudes who had problems attracting women. I see fat and obese dudes get girls, same with dudes who are introverted, boring, lame, square, broke as shyt, lacking ambition, out of shape, etc.

People like who and what they like and if u like someone and they like u...that's where it starts. It isn't rocket science. And if a woman isn't interested in you, just accept it and keep it moving. It doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with u or her, ur just not what she is looking for or just not a good match for her.

I do notice people nowadays in general do lack people skills.

nikkas on here be in their mid 30's writing long ass essays trying to explain getting a woman. My nikka just talk to a bytch, if she likes you, she likes you. It isnt that serious.

 

[Doctor Doom]

You don't even have to approach these days to eat out here.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Look breh all this shyt is not necessary

If you wanted some ass all you had to do was hit me up

 

[Weaver31]

Nikkaz put women on a high pedastal so when its time to talk to women they nervous as hell n cant think of what to talk about.

Most dudes are witty n funny enough to have interesting convos wit females but are stuck in their heads

Like homie Kent if he relaxed he would be able to entertain females wit good convo. Dude got thousands of ppl watching hes videos, he is interesting enough

This in bold. I see this being a major problem with some dudes. Some dudes do get intimidated because women are put on a very high pedestal and they got the power especially if u nervous and lack confidence. You got to talk to a woman like she just another person and stay in or around ur lane. The nervous energy that people can project can turn into negative energy and it can mos def repel people. It will show with ur body language and actions. Like how when u first meet people and some may come off as weird, nervous, standoffish, or whatever...then when u get to know them...u see a different side of them once they let their guards down and get comfortable.

 

[ill_will82]

Who raised y'all nikkas?



If you see a chick showing some interests at all.


Go talk to her, don't say some creep shyt, and don't be a lame.


In fact, if you're an attractive breh you literally gotta try to talk yourself out of some p*ssy


Nigggas treat females like unicorns and get all flabbergasted talking to them, talk like a human being damn.

Exactly why I don't go into that how to get women thread (or whatever it's called) the way I look at it, especially with this era of women it's either they are interested in you or they aren't interested. I don't get all this other shyt about being a bad boy or acting aggressive. If I can't be myself around a woman I like or might have interest in, then she more then likely isn't for me.

I'm sorry I don't believe in jumping through a bunch of hoops in the name of getting the p*ssy. I just feel like I'm too old to be doing the dumb shyt.

 

[Larry Lambo]

What are some of the most important Ones

For some it's gonna sound like common sense, but I apparently didn't have common sense as a youngin.

I just learned not to say anything that portrayed weakness, jealousy of others, bitterness, thirstiness/neediness. I learned to highlight my strong points and downplay my weaknesses. Some of this wasn't necessarily things I did in the approach, but in the first couple conversations. I learned to portray myself as "that dude" up front, and then expose more of the real me later on. It wasn't about being fake, but it's about presenting your best self.

 

[ill_will82]

This is the first website I've been on where you got niqqaz writing theses and essays on how to get women, mouthpiece, and shyt like this. Niqqas saying u gotta have a mouthpiece/swag to get a woman, some say u just cant be a lame, some say u need to know Brazilian jujitsu, some say u need enough money, some say u need to be brolic and go to gym, etc. I respond to some of those threads because it is interesting but I never known so many dudes who had problems attracting women. I see fat and obese dudes get girls, same with dudes who are introverted, boring, lame, square, broke as shyt, lacking ambition, out of shape, etc.

People like who and what they like and if u like someone and they like u...that's where it starts. It isn't rocket science. And if a woman isn't interested in you, just accept it and keep it moving. It doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with u or her, ur just not what she is looking for or just not a good match for her.

I do notice people nowadays in general do lack people skills.

I done been on many sites and to make a long story short it's always the same story. All I have to say is that people need to live a little more in reality because this internet/social media era has really fukked up ppls view on what reality actual is.

 

[010101]

if these women ain't choosing up on you
just accept the facts & save your pocket change
pay up

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[Xtraz2]

shameless dap fishing