I think everyone in this thread generalizes too much.
Why do SOME men feel they have to go to poor countries to find wives?
- Thread starter Joe Budden
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I think everyone in this thread generalizes too much.
They cheating and they gonna leave them too, dudes are dumb if they think otherwise. The one thing I know about women is there women. Some are cool, some are bytches, some are boring, some are great ppls.
HoustonHeat
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Breh, they don't even have a passport, they ain't going nowhere. Many here haven't been out of state and keep dating the same girls in their income level/social media circle. We are just discussing coli men theories here, file it next to the lambos, certs, pawgs, and 10% body fat measurements.
Women aren't any less of value because they might be from a "poor" country. Are you attempting to say that it's more difficult to get an American woman than it is a foreign chick from a different country? I really don't understand the point of this thread. and how many dudes are even doing this? practically none... European broads are fukkin awesome tho..it's really refreshing not having to make the first move and actually have a woman spit game back at you so you can play off that. American women just stand there like 
waiting for you to hit on them then when you do they act like they're too good or that you're trying too hard. It's just easier dealing with broads from other cultures sometimes
waiting for you to hit on them then when you do they act like they're too good or that you're trying too hard. It's just easier dealing with broads from other cultures sometimes
And why is it that you think this?
Mike Tyson
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Being Caribbean myself I can count a few reasons.
They can cook, they clean, they understand poverty, they understand what it means to be black or a visible minority in America, most of them are hard-working when they get here.
And nothing really beats a Jamaican or Spanish accent.
I was on my phone.
The foreign women a 40K nikka can go overseas and bring back like a souvenir are not educated. Hell I will go further and say the foreign women a 100K nikka can go overseas and bring back on a short trip are not educated and have no other options. If a chick is really educated like that she is probably a) working on getting here by herself and/or b) already married to a similarly educated dude from her country. ALL the women in my family who grew up in Ghana are married to Ghanaian men and ALL of the ones here have professional jobs like RNs, PTs, teachers etc etc.
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@ me fishing for daps.... from who? The handful of posters here not on some "woe is me women are the source of all my problems" shyt?If u nikkas think u can go abroad on a long weekend and come home with some foreign educated obedient dime u are living in a fantasy world. Between my family, growing up in NYC and actually having traveled to some of these places, I actually know foreign women pretty well, and the shyt u nikkas are talking does not coincide with the reality I have lived for 31 yrs
How would "getting a foreign woman" even work... are u nikkas willing to put any effort in to bridge that massive cultural gap.... how long do you plan to stay out there to court her and win over her family..... u going to learn and go through any customs her country has with respect to marriage.... etc etc..... nikkas talking this "foreign" bullshyt have no idea what theyre talking about
HoustonHeat
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Not a damn thing, how do you know that my dude and I aren't in this situation already? I know plenty of Naija girls who are thots and who are your foreign unicorns, thotfullness has no boundaries.
I don't have a problem with dating whoever you want, but I think you are a weak ass man when you specifically seek out ONLY other people based on the hatred of your own kind.
Mike Tyson
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Seeking out other people based on hatred of our own kind? I don't think there's anything wrong with that, as long as you're happy. If you're happy who cares what other think, I think this st0rmfr0nt-esque sticking to your kind shyt is problematic people should be with who they want to be with and be in control of their own destiny.
HoustonHeat
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I never said people should only stick to their own kind (clearly, I didn't), but when you make life partner choices based on self identity hatred, that does underline a bigger issue of low self esteem and unhappiness.
Mike Tyson
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Even if someone hates their own kind, who cares. I can't fix these people, if a black woman hates black men but is with a Ryan Gosling looking white dude and she's showing her teeth whenever she's with him. Then she's happy, who cares.
HoustonHeat
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I don't think anyone cares about people's personal choices until the hatred and falsities behind the choices lead to mass cultural shift, and this sentiment of why foreign women are better partners for American men is just cism by another name. This can lead to eradication of black/brown legacy and culture, as well as increased mistreatment of your own countries' women.
Mike Tyson
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There's always been an eradication of culture and a creation of new ones, that is a fact.
Black people have been in harsher conditions than this. I don't think black men choosing to marry your dreaded latinas, asians or european women will eradicate us.
HoustonHeat
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Of course there has been eradication, where do you think thots, new blacks, and Mitches come from? Women are the social cultural and tradition teachers/bearers in the family home.
I'm not talking about population eradication, I'm talking about legacy. And it is obvious that you can't make a distinction.
Mike Tyson
Banned
I honestly can't. I don't see why it matters and how it will make people better economically and financially which is what ultimately matters anyway.