Why do SOME men feel they have to go to poor countries to find wives?

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But then why call out folks inconsistently?
I digress, back to your go to line about U.S. producing shytty people, why should the shytty men then go spread their shyttiness to other countries' women and bring them over here to be in a relationship that has such distinct power differentials? What makes shytty men deserve these so called non shytty unicorns?

Is a man that wants a functioning marriage a shytty person though? Dudes off themselves at such a high rate after divorce that maybe some should look outside the country.


I do think that shytty people are a result of poor parenting, not of the media pressures and whatnot. The same parenting that raised your American thots also raised the American Mitches (man bytches), and these Mitches are going to parent the only way they know how.


It's not parenting, it's the culture we live in to be perfectly honest, it's just an environment that breeds incredibly selfish people.
 
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Breh, they don't even have a passport, they ain't going nowhere. Many here haven't been out of state and keep dating the same girls in their income level/social media circle. We are just discussing coli men theories here, file it next to the lambos, certs, pawgs, and 10% body fat measurements.

Add "moving back to Africa" to that:lolbron:
 

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American women want the traditional role of a man but have no interest in playing the traditional role of a woman.

they want a traditional man but many make more than men, they see them as losers.

expectations have gone up nad they don't see it but then again

consumer spending is driven by women so no one with sense is gonna tell them anything.
 

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Not being from America, I can tell you the women here think that's a way out. Marrying an "American"...they'll gladly clean while sucking his dikk just to get out of this place. It's sad, but that's the truth.

thank you

people all over the world see american men especially white american men as a come up. Even though this is true don't expect these poor foreigners to be happy with a broke dude either,, they think off the bat you have money.

Personally I'd just be a player/ bab daddy and call it a day.
 

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Is a man that wants a functioning marriage a shytty person though? Dudes off themselves at such a high rate after divorce that maybe some should look outside the country.

It's not parenting, it's the culture we live in to be perfectly honest, it's just an environment that breeds incredibly selfish people.
If the man doesn't have himself together and is not a functional adult himself, but makes a person of less power put up with it or be the solution for fixing it, then yes, they are a shytty ass man. You are discussing this as if American men don't contribute or have their own dysfunction. Suicide rates for men are higher overall, well before a marriage or divorce is in the picture.

I don't think American culture is the most selfish. It is the most diverse and most giving. I think our youth pop culture (one faction) promotes selfishness due to insecurity, social media and consumerist culture, but compare us overall to the social progress and treatment of people to most non-white countries and we have them beat.
 

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I was on my phone.

The foreign women a 40K nikka can go overseas and bring back like a souvenir are not educated. Hell I will go further and say the foreign women a 100K nikka can go overseas and bring back on a short trip are not educated and have no other options. If a chick is really educated like that she is probably a) working on getting here by herself and/or b) already married to a similarly educated dude from her country. ALL the women in my family who grew up in Ghana are married to Ghanaian men and ALL of the ones here have professional jobs like RNs, PTs, teachers etc etc.

Oh, ok because @GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! says it that makes it so, breh, if you're going to say things don't just pull numbers out of thin air and make up stats on your own. Do you have anything at all to back your theory, I mean anything?

And :skip: @ me fishing for daps.... from who? The handful of posters here not on some "woe is me women are the source of all my problems" shyt?

Yeah, fishing for daps, anytime a thread like this comes up, doesn't matter what the issue is, if @Emperor_ReinScarf is arguing one side you'll take the opposing side :mjpls:


If u nikkas think u can go abroad on a long weekend and come home with some foreign educated obedient dime u are living in a fantasy world. Between my family, growing up in NYC and actually having traveled to some of these places, I actually know foreign women pretty well, and the shyt u nikkas are talking does not coincide with the reality I have lived for 31 yrs

I grew up in NYC, and I lived in another country as well, been all over the world and here you are again talking in absolutes and generalizations. Word, you know foreign women pretty well, please tell me about the women from the Atlantico region in Colombia, how about the women from the state of Bahia in Brazil, since you know all things about all women around the globe please school me on them :lupe: Also, your reality doesn't coincide with a dude like @Tommy Knocks reality, who is pretty much living what you're saying is impossible.

How would "getting a foreign woman" even work... are u nikkas willing to put any effort in to bridge that massive cultural gap.... how long do you plan to stay out there to court her and win over her family..... u going to learn and go through any customs her country has with respect to marriage.... etc etc..... nikkas talking this "foreign" bullshyt have no idea what theyre talking about

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Breh, how are you going to say you know foreign women pretty well, then turn around and ask how it even works to get with one, as though they don't have vaginas and are a completely different species. If you knew them as well as you claimed, it wouldn't be such a mystery on how these things work :ld:
 

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Oh, ok because @GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! says it that makes it so, breh, if you're going to say things don't just pull numbers out of thin air and make up stats on your own. Do you have anything at all to back your theory, I mean anything?



Yeah, fishing for daps, anytime a thread like this comes up, doesn't matter what the issue is, if @Emperor_ReinScarf is arguing one side you'll take the opposing side :mjpls:




I grew up in NYC, and I lived in another country as well, been all over the world and here you are again talking in absolutes and generalizations. Word, you know foreign women pretty well, please tell me about the women from the Atlantico region in Colombia, how about the women from the state of Bahia in Brazil, since you know all things about all women around the globe please school me on them :lupe: Also, your reality doesn't coincide with a dude like @Tommy Knocks reality, who is pretty much living what you're saying is impossible.



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Breh, how are you going to say you know foreign women pretty well, then turn around and ask how it even works to get with one, as though they don't have vaginas and are a completely different species. If you knew them as well as you claimed, it wouldn't be such a mystery on how these things work :ld:


@GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! is just a ugly nukka who had to settle for a 175lb white woman as his wife.

the average cat making 40k a year american is considering rich as hell in most countries in the world if people actually travel

thers only 13 countries worldwide where the gross income average is over 40k

I have a romanian friend and she makes 500 a month and thats considered "good" over there and she has her masters
 

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If the man doesn't have himself together and is not a functional adult himself, but makes a person of less power put up with it or be the solution for fixing it, then yes, they are a shytty ass man. You are discussing this as if American men don't contribute or have their own dysfunction. Suicide rates for men are higher overall, well before a marriage or divorce is in the picture.

So, what if it's completely opposite situation, a man who does have himself together, is a functioning adult who leaves the US and meets a quality woman in another country, then what? I don't speak for all men, I speak for myself, I could have been living in Brazil and it wasn't because I couldn't find women in the US, it's because I generally don't like living in the US more than anything else.


I don't think American culture is the most selfish. It is the most diverse and most giving. I think our youth pop culture (one faction) promotes selfishness due to insecurity, social media and consumerist culture, but compare us overall to the social progress and treatment of people to most non-white countries and we have them beat.

Eh, I've been to enough countries where I can see the clear and obvious difference in how people are. I met more pleasant and generally nice people in South America in a day than I do in a week here in the US, but maybe it's cause I live in NY :yeshrug:
 

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the average cat making 40k a year american is considering rich as hell in most countries in the world if people actually travel

thers only 13 countries worldwide where the gross income average is over 40k

I have a romanian friend and she makes 500 a month and thats considered "good" over there and she has her masters
U cant take that 40k over there, and if u actually move over there u will be making a lot less $$$ to do the same job.

If u bring her back here she will see that 40k is not that much relative to everybody else. And if u have problems attracting/keeping women in America thats when the problems will start.
 

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nikkas sound so stupid :snoop:

So many holes in the plot

Like for example... these foreign chicks are not going to be able to work here, at least for more than minimum wage. So u have to be the sole breadwinner. If u have the kind of bread to where u can support a family, and u STILL can't get an American chick to submit.... :skip:..... if u are barely getting by, still living with mom and dad in a dead end career, talking about u want to make a family when u cant even support urself... :ufdup:

If I can see these plot holes from behind a computer screen...... wat makes u think these foreign chicks won't be able to in person

How defeated and worthless must one feel.... to decide that the only way they can find a wife is to basically find someone who is totally ignorant of the world they are going to move into and totally dependent on them? Id rather be alone
Lol. These dudes are sooooo insecure. They want a woman who NEEDS him. They all sound like they'll hold a turkey and cup of water over her head every night and say "Who loves you?", "Who takes care of you?". American women submit everyday but not to some half ass men that want the respect men get, with the responsibilities of a child.

Want a woman that can cook but he can't fix a car

Want a woman that's in shape but his dikk lasts 7 minutes

Want a woman that takes care of home but you can't even afford the payments on it

Want a woman that's a foreign dime but American women call him ugly all day everyday


Want a woman to be submissive but you're a beta male at heart.
Any man that wants a woman to SERVE him, be meek, and subservient is not a man, he's a little boy that wants to feel a power rush and they hate that American women only bow to their superiors. Not scary baby boys.


All this talk about American women this, American women that, we're so greedy, we're so fat, we challenge men too much, we complain about street harassment. Lol!

Bring a foreign wife over here, let her see the American man that stayed here and had no problem pulling American women, that American man that American women actually want and desire. She'll see how lame hers is and will switch up quick. Like damn, no wonder he had to come get me, his own women dub him a cast off and undesirable.

But then again this thread is wishful thinking. Most of you nikkas never been out of your state let alone your country.



Btw... Fck American culture. Proud Canadian checking in :feedme:
 

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U cant take that 40k over there, and if u actually move over there u will be making a lot less $$$ to do the same job.

If u bring her back here she will see that 40k is not that much relative to everybody else. And if u have problems attracting/keeping women in America thats when the problems will start.


See, this is what I'm talking about breh, too many generalizations.

I've posted about my friend living in Indonesia many times, he teaches English there and in 2 months he makes what the average Indonesia needs a year to do. All the women he dates are educated, he doesn't need to slum it or fukk with poor underprivileged women there because there's no need to.
 

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So, what if it's completely opposite situation, a man who does have himself together, is a functioning adult who leaves the US and meets a quality woman in another country, then what? I don't speak for all men, I speak for myself, I could have been living in Brazil and it wasn't because I couldn't find women in the US, it's because I generally don't like living in the US more than anything else

Eh, I've been to enough countries where I can see the clear and obvious difference in how people are. I met more pleasant and generally nice people in South America in a day than I do in a week here in the US, but maybe it's cause I live in NY :yeshrug:

Like I said before, it's fine to date who you want because you like them, and I believe you do have your shyt together. But I also think that majority of the frequent coli men don't and still need to work on themselves, and you and I both know that they use your words and justifications to reinforce their cism against black American women.

I forgot that you live in the NY. I feel that a lot of NYC women have been raised to be rougher/tougher than most men in Texas prisons (for good reason).I've never seen as many cold or grimey people in the rest of U.S. as I've seen there. Have you lived elsewhere in the U.S. during your adult life? If not maybe your stance should be that most non-NYC women make better partners for those men who have their shyt together, and not that most foreign women make better partners.
 

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Like I said before, it's fine to date who you want because you like them, and I believe you do have your shyt together. But I also think that majority of the frequent coli men don't and still need to work on themselves, and you and I both know that they use your words and justifications to reinforce their cism against black American women.


The majority of Coli dudes are out of touch with reality though, so why take what they say seriously. When I say to travel it's to experience different cultures and see what the world has to offer, If I say to meet women while dudes are there I'm not saying to go into the favelas or shanty towns and try to bag poor pretty women. That goes against everything I believe in, taking advantage of underprivileged people is just pathetic on so many levels and I hope dudes get robbed if they try that. I don't know why they would take what I say to reinforce their beliefs, I'm constantly shytting on their prized "Pawgs" :lupe:



I forgot that you live in the NY. I feel that a lot of NYC women have been raised to be rougher/tougher than most men in Texas prisons (for good reason).I've never seen as many cold or grimey people in the rest of U.S. as I've seen there. Have you lived elsewhere in the U.S. during your adult life? If not maybe your stance should be that most non-NYC women make better partners for those men who have their shyt together, and not that most foreign women make better partners.

I don't think all NY women are bad, my sister has been happily married for a minute now, she's NY bred and raised. She held her husband down after he lost his job, and I know plenty of dudes who are married and happy (some unhappily). I've dated good NYC women, and some bad ones, it just so happens my deepest connections have been with women not born in the US. Nah, I've never lived in another state, but I've been to and visited enough that I don't think there's too much different at the core of people here.
 

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Oh, ok because @GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! says it that makes it so, breh, if you're going to say things don't just pull numbers out of thin air and make up stats on your own. Do you have anything at all to back your theory, I mean anything

Yea, being an immigrant and living in an immigrant dense city.



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Again, from who????


I grew up in NYC, and I lived in another country as well, been all over the world and here you are again talking in absolutes and generalizations. Word, you know foreign women pretty well, please tell me about the women from the Atlantico region in Colombia, how about the women from the state of Bahia in Brazil, since you know all things about all women around the globe please school me on them :lupe: Also, your reality doesn't coincide with a dude like @Tommy Knocks reality, who is pretty much living what you're saying is impossible.
So now 1 anecdote counts? How about the dozens of people in my family who don't coincide with his story? And what exactly is his story?



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Breh, how are you going to say you know foreign women pretty well, then turn around and ask how it even works to get with one, as though they don't have vaginas and are a completely different species. If you knew them as well as you claimed, it wouldn't be such a mystery on how these things work :ld:
I know how it works to get with one.... when u are from the same place, or if u are both immigrants in a place that's not home. I don't get the logistics/steps of how a breh who can't find a quality woman in a country with 150 million of women, many from the countries yall are talking about going to, would be able to bridge the huge cultural (and in many cases LANGUAGE) gap to bag a chick in a totally foreign country, and then convince her to leave everything she knows to start a new life with some random dude. I will bet @Tommy Knocks had no problems with women here, and just decided to travel either for work or for the fukk of it... not to try and start a new life because he failed here

U gotta think, there are dudes here who are uglier, broker and generally less eligible pulling and keeping the kinds of broads nikkas whine about not being able to get here....... what are they doing that yall aren't? And how are yall gonna get the quality u feel u deserve abroad when u cant get it here with a home court advantage?
 
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