Why do SOME men feel they have to go to poor countries to find wives?

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

See, this is what I'm talking about breh, too many generalizations.

I've posted about my friend living in Indonesia many times, he teaches English there and in 2 months he makes what the average Indonesia needs a year to do. All the women he dates are educated, he doesn't need to slum it or fukk with poor underprivileged women there because there's no need to.

And my lil homie just moved to Japan to teach English and had a date with an Australian teacher in a month. So what? How many of the nikkas in here talking that "foreign" shyt actually travel and are willing to start a new life in a new country?

 

[DrX]

because the women will be submissive...plus u cant get a bad submissive one

 

[Malta]

Yea, being an immigrant and living in an immigrant dense city.

So basically nothing tangible, you are pulling numbers out of thin air with that 40k-100k dude nonsense.

Again, from who????

Come on breh, don't act like Reinscar doesn't have people that just oppose anything he says.

So now 1 anecdote counts? How about the dozens of people in my family who don't coincide with his story? And what exactly is his story?

Your generalizations seem to count to you, so why wouldn't 1 anecdote carry some weight?

I know how it works to get with one.... when u are from the same place, or if u are both immigrants in a place that's not home. I don't get the logistics/steps of how a breh who can't find a quality woman in a country with 150 million of them, many from the countries yall are talking about going to, would be able to bridge the huge cultural (and in many cases LANGUAGE) gap to bag a chick in a totally foreign country, and then convince her to leave everything she knows to start a new life with some random dude. I will bet @Tommy Knocks had no problems with women here, and just decided to travel either for work or for the fukk of it... not to try and start a new life because he failed here

You're acting like these things don't happen, like we just invented the airplane and dudes are just now discovering they can date women in other countries. The fact you're completely dumbfounded on how this could happen is just


But, according to your earlier theory @Tommy Knocks wouldn't be pulling a woman that wants him for him even if he made $100k a year, right? So what does it matter what kind of woman he was pulling in the US, he's limited to a certain type of foreign woman according to your very own hypothesis from earlier.

U gotta think, there are dudes here who are uglier, broker and generally less eligible pulling and keeping the kinds of broads nikkas whine about not being able to get here....... what are they doing that yall aren't? And how are yall gonna get the quality u feel u deserve abroad when u cant get it here with a home court advantage?

I have a beautiful and intelligent woman drop the "yall" shyt So, basically if a dude can't find what he wants in the US he should suck it up and just accept it? I'm not going to judge a nikka from Iowa or some shytty city for traveling and meeting women in other countries.

 

[Malta]

And my lil homie just moved to Japan to teach English and had a date with an Australian teacher in a month. So what? How many of the nikkas in here talking that "foreign" shyt actually travel and are willing to start a new life in a new country?

So, if your friend comes back with a Japanese wife, you gonna call him a lame

I traveled, who cares what the other nikkas are doing, you're quoting me :confusedk9:

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I have a beautiful and intelligent woman drop the "yall" shyt

Then what the fukk are you crying about

And its one thing if u cant find a chick u like in a small town with like 1000 people

But a country of 300 million people, made up of people from every other country?

 

[HoustonHeat]

@Malta I think "foreign women" are their new pawgs. I don't take Coli seriously, I do enjoy the discussion and fukkery, this is just that. I enjoy putting holes in the foreign women unicorn theory, and I've noticed the pattern of the new blacks using your stories for their cism. I also think that foreign women have less privilege in the U.S. than the American men, and this is a draw for many of the men who are fantasizing about foreign women, they just cloak it with other one sided action words (warm, loyal, cooks, cleans). And that's coming from an educated "foreign" woman.

I think U.S. Is very giving. All the fundraisers, volunteering (nationally and globally), community organizing, promotion of regular every day heroes, it is ingrained in the culture. You don't see that abroad as much, especially in non white countries who operate on notions of scarcity instead of notions of abundance. You do see more extended family cohabitation and tradition abroad, and I would enjoy that to a certain extent here.

 

[Malta]

Then what the fukk are you crying about

It's a messageboard, isn't the point to discuss shyt?

And its one thing if u cant find a chick u like in a small town with like 1000 people

But a country of 300 million people, made up of people from every other country?

Only 40 million black people, if you want black women it's not exactly overflowing with them, especially if you're not in the south or a major city.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

So, if your friend comes back with a Japanese wife, you gonna call him a lame

No, cause he was doing fine with women before he left, and he left the country for his career, not cause he couldn't find anyone he wanted to date in the most diverse country in the world.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

It's a messageboard, isn't the point to discuss shyt?





Only 40 million black people, if you want black women it's not exactly overflowing with them, especially if you're not in the south or a major city.

So if u want a black woman, it makes more sense to move to a foreign country than to move to a blacker city?

"Only" 40 million black people? How much choice does a man need to find a quality mate? Did u date 20 million women before u got with ur girl now?

 

[Malta]

@Malta I think "foreign women" are their new pawgs. I don't take Coli seriously, I do enjoy the discussion and fukkery, this is just that. I enjoy putting holes in the foreign women unicorn theory, and I've noticed the pattern of the new blacks using your stories for their cism. I also think that foreign women have less privilege in the U.S. than the American men, and this is a draw for many of the men who are fantasizing about foreign women, they just cloak it with other one sided action words (warm, loyal, cooks, cleans). And that's coming from an educated "foreign" woman.

Nah, nothing will replace "pawgs" to these dudes, actually leaving the country and traveling on your own requires balls and a lot of dudes cant even go out of state without their boys. This is more of a pipe dream, the "pawgs" will forever be the apples of their eyes. These dudes all love the idea of Brazil, until they realize that learning Portuguese is a must and then they go right back to "pawgin".

I think U.S. Is very giving. All the fundraisers, volunteering (nationally and globally), community organizing, promotion of regular every day heroes, it is ingrained in the culture. You don't see that abroad as much, especially in non white countries who operate on notions of scarcity instead of notions of abundance. You do see more extended family cohabitation and tradition abroad, and I would enjoy that to a certain extent here.

The US maybe giving, but on an individual level people are extremely selfish. I don't know, I just felt more of a sense of community in Costa Rica, Brazil and Colombia when I was there, DR is more like the US so I'm not that big on it. The tradition and family structure are big for me, that is definitely dying in the US.

So if u want a black woman, it makes more sense to move to a foreign country than to move to a blacker city?

Believe it or not, most Americans could easily find jobs teaching English in other countries than they could just up and moving to another city in the US.

"Only" 40 million black people? How much choice does a man need to find a quality mate? Did u date 20 million women before u got with ur girl now?

The more choices the better

A higher population produces more women of dating age, since when has less choice been preferred?

 

[chkmeout]

I know west Africans ain't really cheking for black american chic's in Houston... (Unless they at vlive...)

But an Asian, cac chic, or of course another WA... Hand n hand...

There's always been a stigma of bringing a black american girl home... ()

Wonder why...

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

I say let em cook...
The average American woman is an entitled,dumb,fat,lazy,gossip-mongering whore

There are some gems no doubt...but most of them aint shyt...not wifey material.
Cant blame men who look elsewhere for wives and mothers of their children

 

[HoustonHeat]

I know west Africans ain't really cheking for black american chic's in Houston... (Unless they at vlive...)

But an Asian, cac chic, or of course another WA... Hand n hand...

There's always been a stigma of bringing a black american girl home... ()

Wonder why...

What part of Houston are you talking about? I kick it with a lot of 2nd -3rd generation Nigerians and they have only dated black American after Naija (both men and women). Their parents' requirements include religion and educational accomplishment.

 

[TheArchitect]

I don't give a shyt what anyone says, 9 times out of 10 if I do get "hitched", it will be to a foreign women, under foreign law, and we will live our lives in a foreign country. I've been in in the US for 30 years, ain't no nikka gonna tell me this the place to be....

 

[chkmeout]

What part of Houston are you talking about? I kick it with a lot of 2nd -3rd generation Nigerians and they have only dated black American after Naija (both men and women). Their parents' requirements include religion and educational accomplishment.

Ya its cool to kick it and ofcourse some get scooped up... But you weren't at the crib for that talk tho...

I'm just saying even though Houston got large population of both, there is a cultural difference. Unfortunately foreign chic's are closer (easier..) Therefore I see why they look elsewhere