Why do we blame single mothers for their situation?

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They 85% to blame. No sugar coating

  1. use birth control
  2. Make sure guy has condom
  3. U can have a abortion
  4. U can give up the kid if u have no support
  5. Don’t just have sex with anyone. Because a woman life/body is changing once pregnant.
it’s so many outs before you have a kid. If u choose to ignore these steps. Deal with the consequences. Because a dude life will be the same regardless unless they care
 

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Aren’t the men at fault for not staying to build a family? Why so much anger and vitryall towards women doing their best to raise kids alone.

Because sommetimes the single mother is at fault. That said, there is no excuse for any able bodied man to not be in their child's life. You can complain about your BM all you want, but you need to man up and be in your child's life.
 

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They 85% to blame. No sugar coating

  1. use birth control
  2. Make sure guy has condom
  3. U can have a abortion
  4. U can give up the kid if u have no support
  5. Don’t just have sex with anyone. Because a woman life/body is changing once pregnant.
it’s so many outs before you have a kid. If u choose to ignore these steps. Deal with the consequences. Because a dude life will be the same regardless unless they care

Not everyone believes in abortion and I don't blame them. Some women do not react well to birth control. So, in that case, they better have homeboy using a condom or just don't have sex at all.

Which you have already said.
 

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Aren’t the men at fault for not staying to build a family? Why so much anger and vitryall towards women doing their best to raise kids alone.


Why wouldn't you force the man that your having sex with to use protection.

If you know your going to be sexually active why are you not birth control

Why are you having kids before marriage

All these are in the women's control
 
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Because sex doesn't happen unless they open their legs
Not this simple. A lot of single mothers don’t become single mothers until after the baby is born. Meaning the man is there and supportive until the child is born, at which point they bounce.

Friend of mine is a nurse…there’s a term for this but I don’t remember. Basically the father becomes less and less engaged, feels threatened by fatherhood and bounces within the first couple months of birth.
 
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