Why do women label failed relationships “toxic” and/or “abusive”?

[Json]

I just wonder how these "toxic" dudes keep getting all these women.

She said don't be like that dude, he's a jerk. I said "why not? He bagged u and your bestie...and your frenemy".

Clearly there's something he's doing right lol. I'm never too proud to learn more.

That’s like asking how this serial killer kept killing people…you know he’s out there…you know he’s killing this type of woman… in this area….

Serial(killers, rapist, abusers) work by trial and error. They know what does and doesn’t work. They know how to get defenses down. Eventually they find a new target.

Just like how guys in here say dating is a numbers game. You strikeout more than you hit no matter what. Just adjust and keep going.

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

Most of the time, they were the ones who were toxic and abusive.

 

[The Guru]

Sometimes they were toxic or abusive, sometimes it's an easy way to distance yourself from any imperfection or accountability.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

To not blamed for them being the reason it was over

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

Don't forget "gaslighting" or "narcissism" too.



Basically.

There's nothing worse than a broad who recently learned a big word, bc they will run & misuse that muhfukka into the ground.

 

[Rawtid]

Most of the times the relationships were toxic and abusive, both parties to blame. Arguing daily is NOT normal. Cheating as a competition is NOT normal.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

None of this negates the fact that a woman or man was in a toxic/abusive relationship. Acknowledging that you were in a bad relationship and recognizing the part you played are not mutually exclusive conditions.

you cant be in something without playing a part in it....no matter how small... is my point....

and whether or not you recognize that fact is irrelevant. its still holds true